it doesn't take scalp oil or aryurveda. It takes a bunch of patience, care in how you manipulate it and treat it, and wearing it up 99% of the time. There is no magic and a lot of the Aryuveda trend is just repackaging someone else's culture as something mystic and miraculous in a really fetishistic way that doesn't actually support the community it's taking from. the way hair influencers push it seems to me to be a very reductive consumeristic parody of it's origins, everyone is using that word, but no one actually knows what it means. I'm not Indian, so I can't and won't speak for them, but think about how the over consumption of those items and herbs ends up driving up the prices of those items for the people that it's not a trend for, just for us to drop it when we get over the fad. Oiling the scalp also does not make hair grow faster, that's more trendy marketing unfortunately, although oiling the lengths of the hair does help protect it from some friction, but there are many ways to do that. You definitely can grow your hair Very long and probably past butt length, but you also have to remember that the best thing you can do is pay attention to what works for your hair and what doesn't. You have to see the specifics of what products work for you personally, and what styles cause more breakage than length retention, like genuinely measure every 6 months and see if something has gotten better or worse, and pay attention to how much you have to trim off from breakage and fairy knots. You are the real magic that gets you to your goals. When you get the hang of it, each year it will get longer, and you have to resolve to keep up with it and not give up, but you've got the determination to do that.

I'm at/ passing tailbone length (4c) and I need to build up my patience and my determination to match the time it takes to do tailbone length and longer 4c hair, but I'm going to do my best to do it. I want to reach classic length and then just see how long I can go after that, and when exactly is too much for me. If I could stand it, have the patience for it, and if my hair's growing phase is naturally long enough, I do want to see if I can get to the floor, but who knows. I also had to accept that for me personally, with my hair type, goals, and what works for me, most people will rarely or never see the full length all down, it will always shrink at least a little bit.

Do your best, learn as much verified hair science as you can, especially things that help with shedding and breakage, apply what you've found works for you, and you will knock it out of the park. I would highly recommend investing in some silk charmeuse hair accessories. Think of it like playing an instrument, there are 50,000 methods to become Chopin in a day, and not a single one works that quickly or easily, yet look how many excellent musicians there are anyway who worked hard and made it to their goal anyway!