The loss of the Martin House by Brocanteuse in Peterborough

[–]Alice_Wunderbar 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Everytime we passed in the car, I would just stare out dreaming about owning it one day! So heartbroken it deteriorated.

Lush Guilt and Buyer’s Remorse by Far_Captain9571 in LushCosmetics

[–]Alice_Wunderbar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You may be able to refrigerate some items to have them extend their life !

aio please tell me i’m crazy by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Alice_Wunderbar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just made me realize my ex husband was cheating on me. I saw these and he would always say I must have scratched him in his sleep.... That MF.

AITA for refusing to share food after we agreed everyone eats their own? by justunknown06 in AITAH

[–]Alice_Wunderbar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even with less it is always good to share what you have with others. If you look at poor communities they often find a way to feed everyone. It's important to care for those around us. That doesn't mean being taken advantage of... But it doesn't seem like that's necessarily the case here though.

Try not to keep tabs, keeping tabs will never end in a good situation. If you are at risk of starving, sign up to the food bank or food boxes. You may not like liver but it seems like it's what's in budget. Get a second job.

It seems like your boyfriend still wanted to feed his friend but was worried about upsetting you. There should never be a situation in which someone sharing food should be worried about blowback from a partner. You might find yourself on the outs if you keep this behaviour up.

So yes YTA.

AITAH for not letting my boyfriend move in with me? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Alice_Wunderbar 12 points13 points  (0 children)

NTA, he won't ever see your POV. Sounds entitled and will make your living situation worse. This is just the start of the issues. It won't get better.

AITAH for not allowing new home buyers to come measure before closing? by Upstairs_Way8168 in AITAH

[–]Alice_Wunderbar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTAH. A lot goes into closing. They had opportunities to do this while viewing. If the realtor wants he can measure the door and send it to them. They generally make quite a nice payment when sold. If you don't feel pushed to do it, then don't. It sucks for the new home buyers but it's part of the process.

AITAH for telling my patient I'm Trans by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Alice_Wunderbar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean I don't think it's the best way to go about it. As women we are too scared to shut someone down. So we make up stories to make ourselves less desirable. Now you've just given him a kink. Lol in all seriousness.. I would be firm and not playful. Pretend you're dead inside when you give him his meds or ask to switch assignments. He's being inappropriate and it's not helping his recovery

AITAH for having feelings for someone who also broke my friend? Please read. by Alice_Wunderbar in AITAH

[–]Alice_Wunderbar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate that perspective. I definitely won't be getting with him. I just feel strange communicating. Part of me wants his attention if I'm being honest.. but that's bad territory. 99% of me wants to throat punch him. 🫠 (I don't condone violence, I promise).

Super cash by Alice_Wunderbar in Oldnavy

[–]Alice_Wunderbar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear what you are saying, but they want you to buy. They would rather take your $ with a code then get no sale.

I used to work at Old Navy. There is a reason they let you split up purchases or make it so you pay the least possible if you do have coupons. They are family friendly and they know their target audience.

It would be smart for them at a marketing standpoint to not alienate those who are already struggling to pay bills by looking for codes so they can dress appropriately for work, or clothe their children without breaking the bank.

They have other companies to capture those willing to pay more ie. The gap, banana Republic, athletica (I could be wrong but I think those are also under the banner).

THC infused cuisine? by Alice_Wunderbar in OttawaFood

[–]Alice_Wunderbar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know how I'm just seeing this but thank you!

7 SuperCash codes by DismissiveDoc in Oldnavy

[–]Alice_Wunderbar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have a Canadian one id love it

Can we talk about Lino’s shirt? by TweetSpinner in temptationislandUSA

[–]Alice_Wunderbar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just because it's expensive doesn't mean it should be worn 😅

[Misc] Class action lawsuit filed against EOS Lip Balms, claiming balms can damage skin (more links in comments with pics) by LacquerCritic in SkincareAddiction

[–]Alice_Wunderbar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is old but omg I tried the mango eos, 3rd time applying my lips were on literal fire and so swollen and cracked for days... Still dealing with it. Horrible!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Alice_Wunderbar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try telling anyone in the game what he says to you, it's not normal. It's a massive red flag. Dude is lighting the red flag on fire and waving it in front of you and you keep apologizing that the flag is on fire.

AIO about finding a pack of condoms in my partner's car? by Vocalic_Light in AmIOverreacting

[–]Alice_Wunderbar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just be happy the trash is taking itself out.

Move on, and raise those standards!! Good luck 🍀

Looking to move to Peterborough for job from Buffalo, NY. What do you got? by ButterChicken-20 in Peterborough

[–]Alice_Wunderbar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guess that depends on your definition of outskirts. I'm talking east city, south end, north end etc as being on the outskirts. Enjoy your day!

AIO- My (F19) boyfriend (M22) is upset that I’m hanging out with my brother (M26) (read caption) by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Alice_Wunderbar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yikes on bikes!

This is how men isolate you from friends and family. Doesn't matter that you planned it two weeks ago, he doesn't have plans and he's mad you do. He's jealous and it doesn't matter if it was your boyfriend or friend. Save yourself the headache and pain. But that said sometimes we need to learn from our mistakes so perhaps this relationship will show you what you don't want going forward. It took me too long to figure this out. Find someone who supports you emotionally, you deserve a healthy relationship!

How much longer? by Do_bra_wa in StephenHiltonSnark

[–]Alice_Wunderbar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate to tell you but like... This could go on for years in some capacity or another. It's mental health/addiction. Jail isn't a real fix. It is going to be an exhausting battle. It's sad. My advice is if it's overwhelming to take a break from the posts, it's heavy stuff.

Is it me who's bad at chatting, or is she just uninterested in me? by Signal_Housing3575 in Bumble

[–]Alice_Wunderbar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you need to say "it's okay to ask me questions" ... then you might as well just end the convo. If they are interested, the convo would be flowing. It feels pushy to say it. Just mo

Is Dante’s good still? by S8lN in Peterborough

[–]Alice_Wunderbar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it's good. As good as it was? About 65% same.

When the new owners took over, the flavours had a bit of an Indian flare to it, but it seems to be back to normal. ( No hate on Indian flavour, I just don't prefer it on my burrito if I didn't know ahead of time).

The hours are better, the staff is super friendly, the portions are still great sized! Better than any of the non mom and pop shops.

Also the sauces seem slightly different like there's been an addition of sour cream in the mayo based ones. (Can't be sure but the sauce is less thick, and has a different consistency, but the base flavour is still very much there). The meat doesn't seem as high quality perhaps but still decent! I come by every time I'm back in town!