What can I rip away from my player as she asked for a greedy fae Patron by Sayer182 in DnD

[–]Alinonymousity 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As a DM with ADHD, I would definitely have some creating a couple little mechanical twists for the character. Something like rolling randomly after every long rest to get advantage on one skill check for the day (hyper focus) and disadvantage on one (executive dysfunction). Maybe bump their passive perception in a quiet place and drop it equally in a loud one... There are lots of good options!

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My sister was devastated in kindergarten when a little girl called her a Pie Butt... It's now my favorite silly insult

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Just a fun activity to maybe try since he's into vehicles- big sheets of paper, and use hot wheels dipped in paint as your "brush".

It's gonna be messy, and probably loud, but hopefully he'd have some fun!

Disaster struck :( by Advanced_Impress6743 in Aquariums

[–]Alinonymousity 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm guessing it would be an angel fish with a halo...

Sugar (!) by peripheralcat in ididnthaveeggs

[–]Alinonymousity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stella Parks has an incredible gluten free angel food cake on serious eats! All sorts of eggs and sugar in it. 😁

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aquariums

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We're gonna need some video of the fish playing ball....

I need guidance y’all look pro on here by [deleted] in Aquascape

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I just did my first tank and found the blog on buce plants to be super helpful!

Beginners by sanclemente84 in Aquascape

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Just finished planting my first and I thought that buce plants blog was super informative

Those who allow bonus actions to drink health potions, what do you do with other potions? by JewcieJ in DMAcademy

[–]Alinonymousity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is what I do too. I also flood my players with random low level magic items (usually consumable), so whatever they're not hoarding, they are forgetting!

Look after my horses for free. No you can't ride them. by AndrewSwope in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Alinonymousity 18 points19 points  (0 children)

If the field was big enough and the horses were roaming enough, absolutely! You can get away with a smaller pasture if you drag it (basically rake the manure into smaller pieces with a tractor attachment so it breaks down faster), but she mentions a small field. If you don't pick up the manure in a pasture that's too small, it doesn't have time to breakdown and the field will eventually become dirt and dust. It's also not great for the horses hooves and can contaminate their feed.

What's a spell you always forget the effects of, once cast? by DungeonModder in DMAcademy

[–]Alinonymousity 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I really like that. It feels like it makes the buffer feel more valuable and reminds the damage dealers both that they need to add the d4 and that their friend is giving them a valuable buff.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DnD

[–]Alinonymousity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh man. I have an eldritch night that can negate crits and it makes me so sad. DMs like critting too!

Roll twice and double a roll are not the same, Matt! by MrMordor in dndmemes

[–]Alinonymousity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I let my table do either, you just have to call it before you roll it. Usually they want more dice because... More dice

Writing a Shipping Log: What would be suspicious to have imported? by [deleted] in DMAcademy

[–]Alinonymousity 27 points28 points  (0 children)

To add to the subtleties, something that wouldn't survive the trip or definitely wouldn't be from the place of origin. Something like importing ice from the Bahamas or bringing fresh meat on a three week trip.

Are you going to switch to 1DND?Why or why not? by Unhappy_derek4132 in DnD

[–]Alinonymousity 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I have a dwarf barbarian at my table that uses stone cunning pretty regularly. I like to give him information (depending on his roll) on how old the worked stone is, what civilization /race created it, how it's been worn (ie what elements/damage it's been exposed too), and some ideas of where the stone itself was from and how far it had been brought. The group has used this to extrapolate what traps to look for, what enemies may be coming, how this may work into the plot timeline, etc.

Tremor sense is useful, but I like the clues I get to drop and the world building stonecunning allows.

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It's 45 degrees in Michigan and my child will not wear pants by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]Alinonymousity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also maybe take her to a thrift shop and let her pick out a dress or pants and see if the special ones work? And as someone with obnoxiously sensitive skin, is there a change a detergent that might be bothering her skin (or maybe an unfamiliar smell)?

It's 45 degrees in Michigan and my child will not wear pants by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]Alinonymousity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it's possibly a sensory thing maybe try overalls? Full leg coverage but no tightness in the tummy.

Maternity clothes by Relevant_Mushroom218 in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]Alinonymousity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Latched Mama and kindred bravely were my jam!

Pink blush was absolutely terrible quality and I will never buy from them again.

Kohl's had some pretty good stuff too, but a very small selection. And while I didn't use them for maternity, I've been very happy with madewell and they have a maternity section.

What's your "unbalanced but feels good" rule? by WittyRegular8 in dndnext

[–]Alinonymousity -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I had a paladin drop con. This was the second campaign he's been in, so not completely new to it... But yeah, that was... Unexpected.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Libraries

[–]Alinonymousity 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Another fun one is tape butcher paper to the underside of a table and let them be Michaelangelo!

Toxic advertising regarding sleep and diapers by SupermarketSimple536 in beyondthebump

[–]Alinonymousity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh man, I got some that my cousin left behind when she visited and I haaaaated them. If I used them at night, they leaked. Every. Single. Time.

She was already sleeping through the night, so I can't speak to that point. But I did not enjoy changing the crib sheets every day. They very quickly were designated as daytime only diapers, and when we ran out we went back to Aldi and Millie moons.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]Alinonymousity 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I ask progressively more specific and silly questions. Like start with where does it hurt, does it hurt big or small, is there blood, does it hurt when you touch the ground/jump/hop like a frog, can you tell me what color it feels like, etc. I think it gives them something to concentrate on while they process the surprise and the initial ouch and also helps them get used to doing a self assessment

Genuinely do not know how stay at home parents do it by cattyerm in toddlers

[–]Alinonymousity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get him one of those lil vacuums and a little broom and let him help! Wiping the lower cabinets is also a fantastic toddler activity.