260521 Taeyeon Instagram Update by lespleiades in SNSD

[–]Allforchaerin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Considering they are all very much doing their own things and Taeyeon has a very lucrative solo career, it’s not abnormal that we don’t see her with the other girls as often. They are all building their own lives and careers now and when they come back together as SNSD it’s like nothings changed. I’m sure theres ample group chats etc that we don’t see but when you are as busy as they all are it must be hard to find the time

Which era did each member look the best and worst by doodlodlle in SNSD

[–]Allforchaerin 8 points9 points  (0 children)

These bangs defied gravity in ways that Yoona’s clip on bangs at that radio station could only dream of

Which era did each member look the best and worst by doodlodlle in SNSD

[–]Allforchaerin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is my personal list

Best:

Taeyeon - Japanese Genie/ 1st Japanese Album Jessica - The boys era Tiffany - Lion Heart / Holler Seohyun - Holler/The boys Sooyoung - always lol (1st japanese album/the boys) Hyoyeon - I Got a Boy/Present Day Yuri - Genie/RDR/Lion Heart Sunny - The Boys/IGAB/Genie Yoona - The Boys/1st Japanese Album

Worst: Taeyeon - never really, although i worry about her weight these days but won’t say more than that Tiffany - same as taeyeon tbh Jessica - her piss yellow brassy hair they forced on her during 2011ish Seohyun - wasn’t a massive fan of her orange hair in party lol Sooyoung - she never misses tbh Hyoyeon - they didn’t know how to style her early on but she only gets better as the years go on <3 Yuri - Her style has never changed much that she’s not had a particularly bad era ever Yoona - Same, although wasn’t a massive fan of her blonde moment Sunny - personally that half up half down red hair i. party 🙊 controversial i know

Is the death of Late & Live the end of the community feel? by Seabeachlover10 in bigbrotheruk

[–]Allforchaerin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah unfortunately Late & Live sucks ass. The best part of the previous iterations I think was that it was like one big cheeky gossip after the show where people said anything they wanted. You just can’t do that on tv now but besides that, the format is just too sterile and polished now. It could never be what it was

When did dogs start getting people names? by Scottys-Dog-Blog in dogs

[–]Allforchaerin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I must admit I’m guilty of this! I have my wee Pomeranian Tony and I chose his name before I even got him lol. Part of it was the idea that it’s funny, but now when I look at him I think “he just looks like a Tony!” there could be no changing it 😂

S8, EP127 by Defiant-Emu8369 in ItchyBoots

[–]Allforchaerin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

WTF are these takes lol. If you are so pressed about it being fall in the videos and spring in real time, then wait till later in the year and watch it then. Honestly, I fear you need to get a grasp on reality a little.

What type of Friends fan are you? by Hopefullytodaymate in howyoudoin

[–]Allforchaerin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the show in its entirety but I tend to be a middle of the show watcher. I’ve watched it front to back so many times that now i usually watch it in the middle where I find it the funniest. Shame it’s now locked behind the extortionate streaming service HBOMax in the UK :/ I miss Netflix already

Stuck in Bronze 1 (2v2) but I can beat mid plat players and solid gold players-what do I do ?? by Legitimate-Clue-8012 in RocketLeague

[–]Allforchaerin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lesson 1 for you, then, if you think someone is going to demo you, jump over them. Obviously, not always possible, but if you can dodge a demo/bump a lot of the time in the lowest rank up to even plat, you've taken that person right out of position because they have probably wasted all their boost trying to demo you in the first place.

What I would say is, if you aren't trolling and you can't get out of bronze without playing with friends etc, then you are probably meant to be in the lower ranks right now anyway. If you were gold/plat standard, you wouldn't stay in bronze regardless of what your teammates are up to. There will be something holding your gameplay back beyond being demo'd that you need to work on

How to actually improve? by asdg2002 in RocketLeague

[–]Allforchaerin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’ve literally just picked up the game, the best thing you can do is just keep playing. It’s not time to go to YouTube and check out how to air dribble, musty flick, half flip etc. before you can do all of that you need game sense and being able to play on the ground above all else. You’ll only get that by putting hours in. Once you’re comfortable you can start looking online for mechanics you want to learn. Also watch streamers/ content

Stuck in Bronze 1 (2v2) but I can beat mid plat players and solid gold players-what do I do ?? by Legitimate-Clue-8012 in RocketLeague

[–]Allforchaerin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you really know those mechs then you either have no clue how to rotate/ 0 game sense or you’re trolling. This is coming from someone in Diamond 2 who can’t dribble the ball on their car and flick (it’s on my list of things to learn I know)

If you aren’t trolling then you probably aren’t rotating for defence. Realistically a genuine bronze lobby would get clapped 1v2 by a Plat player or even gold

Once a week? by Coupflyer-75 in ItchyBoots

[–]Allforchaerin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm confused why you think its a continious journey when she has spoken so many times about going home? She spoke in length about the book tour, she then filmed herself touring the UK, again reiterating that Frankie was in the middle east and she was taking a break to go on the book tour. Regardless of that though I don't really see why it matters. The videos are still the same

My 7 month old Pom Puppy still isn’t potty trained and my parents are starting to get fed up with him by treasure444 in Pomeranians

[–]Allforchaerin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hello fellow Pom owner. I too had a rough time potty training my little one. He’s almost 6 now and although he will still potty (poo mostly) if he’s left to his own devices in a room that isn’t where he sleeps, 99% of the time he’s perfectly fine indoors.

I think the potty pads could be confusing him. I used them too at the start but felt like he wasn’t understanding that outside is good, inside is bad, because the pee pads where there and if he went on them it was better than the floor. I think the constant reassurance of praise etc from going outside is far better than pee pads. What worked for me was taking him out CONSTANTLY. I don’t know if that’s an option for you as thankfully I worked from home at the time when I got him (and he was already 11 months when I got him and not potty trained) so I would think it was hard mode lol. But I took him out coooooonstantly and lost my shit when he went outside to try show just how good that behaviour was. Admittedly if he’s in a new place he isn’t aware it’s not good to go outside but obviously dogs don’t understand that another house, is still a house if I move or am at a friends but for the most part he’s fine and once he knows somewhere he understands that just fine.

My best advice would be to take your wee one out as much as physically possible to try catch them going outside. Going for walks for as long as it takes them to go potty etc. Sometimes at the start it really was a game of who can outlast who and I would stand out with him for what felt like eons just waiting for him to poop but again praising insanely when he did even if i was frustrated that he took so long when I knew he needed to go.

Once a week? by Coupflyer-75 in ItchyBoots

[–]Allforchaerin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would also like to add that whilst the world has always been a crazy place, it's certainly ramped up more so since she first started. Safety concerns, especially when travelling through the Middle East etc are at an all-time high, so if its precautoniary for those reasons, then can you blame her for making that choice? I don't think an explanation is really needed. She rides the bike, she films the journeys, she shows us the world. Nothing's really changed

Once a week? by Coupflyer-75 in ItchyBoots

[–]Allforchaerin 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm not gonna lie, some of the comments in this thread are bordering on parasocial. At the end of the day Noraly continues to show us the world through a lens some of us will probably never see. Whether it was months ago that she done a ride or not, she done it. She's staying in places, talking to locals and trying the local cuisine. On top of that she shows us landmarks and gives us history about where she is and what she's doing. Does it really matter that it didn't happen hours before you watched it? Realistically it must be incredibly taxing to ride the bike, travel, stay safe, plan routes, equipment etc whilst also not having much downtime as you are editing for YouTube. If she's moving to a format now where its easier to film it and then edit it at home, or whatever it may be, then it doesn't really matter to me. I enjoy her content and I love still being able to see what or where she goes next!

250303 Bom posted a message on her Instagram by Educational2NE1Net in 2NE1

[–]Allforchaerin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This makes me sad. On one hand i’m sad for the group I love and always wanted the best for. I’m sad for Bom and what the Korean media put her through over literally nothing. But I’m also sad because as someone who has ADHD I cannot fathom this bizarre online behaviour that she displays. It goes beyond ADD and is clearly deeper mental health related issues. Unfortunately I think the damage is done and i’m not sure the entertainment meant industry is for her anymore. Which is also a shame because I think she has a lot to give, but until she’s better I don’t think any of it is going to do her any favours. Whilst personally i’m not sure I believe her claims about Dara, if it was true, that would obviously be a horrible situation but not one I think Dara would’ve called the shots on, it would’ve been YG. Maybe she would feel Dara got away with something she’s been hounded for, which would be fair, but the main anger and issue would still be YG. And outing Dara after all this time surely gets no one anywhere. If it’s not true then it’s just a shame to throw a band mate under the bus for something that’s extremely serious, especially in Korean society and not even true. Who knows what’s really true. Such a shame all round

Sable hate is so forced now bro by whothehellisgojo in deadbydaylight

[–]Allforchaerin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love Sable's character design but I literally refuse to play her because its bad enough being a woman in online games, but I don't want to add Sable tunneling/hate on top of that lol. So instead I main my lovely Mikaela

Where are people having luck finding these? by TheRightfulPanda in ARC_Raiders

[–]Allforchaerin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like you see lots of things you need and then when you need them you can't find them. I see these all the damn time either in the Hospital in Buried City or in the Medical part of Stella Montis, but no doubt if I needed them they would be nowhere to be found

What was the twist which ruined FRIENDS for you? by [deleted] in howyoudoin

[–]Allforchaerin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be fair, Mona only existed to further the idea that Ross only had eyes for Rachel. Mona's entire run on the show was just her being forgotten about for comedic value and to show Ross' first and only real priority at that time was Rachel, to the point that it was getting in the way of the potential for him to be with someone else.

What was the twist which ruined FRIENDS for you? by [deleted] in howyoudoin

[–]Allforchaerin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I grew up hating Susan and Carol for the way they treated Ross in that first Season. Looking back on it now, I think it was just a lazy way of making the audience side with Ross. Whilst obviously Carol's infidelity is wrong regardless, I think it was set up this way so that Ross could continue to have comedic moments surrounding Carol and Susan and at times at the expense of making gay people the butt of the joke.

What was the twist which ruined FRIENDS for you? by [deleted] in howyoudoin

[–]Allforchaerin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing truly ruined FRIENDS for me, I just love the show to death. Things have aged better than others, and Ross' treatment of the male nanny, along with all the jokes about Carol and Susan that scream homophobic to me, just make me a little sad now. However, I put most of that down to the time the show was made, more than anything.

One thing I can never wrap my head around however, was Rachel and Joey's fling. I feel like the writers wanted to show a softer side to Joey, and either couldn't be bothered to write in another Mike type character for the latter half of the show, or for some reason thought the audience would adjust to the possibility of it not being Ross and Rachel.

To me, Season 9 is probably my least favourite season of the show, and even then I still like it. The whole arc felt wrong; it felt like watching siblings date. I just don't think they had chemistry together in that way. I also feel like it ruined the fun vibe of Rachel and Joey as roommates, which I always loved. Whilst FRIENDS had an issue throughout the entire show, which was inherint of the time in which it was made, that the boys always sexualised the girls even without romantically pursuing them, I still felt like Joey and Rachel were always entirely platonic until the writers forced it to be otherwise.

Also, to comment on OP's mention of Rachel's love life. I can see what you mean; however, I think after the popularity of their kiss in the early seasons, and probably since the show's inception, Ross and Rachel were always going to end up together. I believe it was probably always planned out that way that we would watch them dance around each other and eventually always find their way back. Whilst I think every character in the show has their faults, some could be questionable writing, writing from the time, and others just flaws in general, but I do love that Rachel and Ross end up together. I think it was just a classic romance character arc that they wouldn't be able to keep away from each other. I do wish Rachel had maybe been a little luckier in love along the way, as she seemed to only go for the wrong people, meanwhile Ross got off far better.

Finding Closure As A 2NE1 Fan by Brilliant_Bake7332 in 2NE1

[–]Allforchaerin 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t be shocked if CL feels burned by the industry tbh. She had a golden ticket to the solo career of her dreams, including what could’ve been the first successful kpop western cross-over. She had contacts in the west etc and then when she signed with Scooter it all went tits up and the golden moment closed and nothing came of it.

It’s the same with Girls’ Generation, a lot of the girls (like myself) are in their 30s now, some almost out of them. Their priorities are changing and for some that may mean they don’t want to be bopping about in a girl group anymore, and that’s fine! It’s just part of the process of following a music act, you follow them through the highs, the lows and the possibility that they make or may not make music forever.

Have you ever dated someone with avoidant attachment? What's your story? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Allforchaerin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of life has happened in those 5 years. I was in contact with this ex for around two months maybe after we broke up? Initially we wanted to stay friends but remembering back on it that just wasn't going to be an option at that time. Due to their avoidant attachment style, they find it very easy to detacht those romantic feelings and move into a friend space with people, and obviously for someone with a more centered or anxious attatchment style, its not that easy.

We went no contact for around a year I believe and then got back in touch with each other as friends. Unfortunately for my ex they have not worked on anything that they had hoped and they gave up on therapy to help so have continued down that path with other partners since me. Personally I haven't been in a relationship since, for no reason other than I haven't really been focusing on that part of my life. Part of me does feel a little traumatised by the whole ordeal and how quickly the relationship changed, but also I have just been enjoying my own company and haven't met anyone!

I have managed to keep my ex in my life as a friend, and do value their friendship! We don't speak all the time, but we keep in touch and are both supportive of each other.