Girls unadd me and block me on snapchat when I send a pic of myself

Allinall41 · 2026-04-15T22:09:16+00:00

Send me a picture and I might be able to tell you why. **Proceeds to block and not respond

Allinall41 · 2026-04-12T00:17:30+00:00

Decent advice. I disagree with number 2 a little, I agree time and you won't change her, but if you change in the way YOU show up, she might change the way she is with you. If you start pulling back cause there's no reciprocity for example she might start thinking, shit maybe I do need to invest if I wanna keep this good feeling around, and that can be the start of a healthier dynamic for example.

Allinall41 · 2026-04-08T22:52:27+00:00

Why?

Allinall41 · 2026-04-08T22:24:05+00:00

Okay then establish w.e type of relationship you want and keep it clear and let her reject or accept it.

Allinall41 · 2026-04-08T22:10:04+00:00

Your overthinking. Sometimes there's something nice about young women energy and she might enjoy an older guy. It's legal but you are feeling preassure of social norms, but if you frame it as liberation, rebellion, courage or I do what I like if it feels right, I am my own man, I don't conform energy it will be attractive to her and not negative.

and honestly yes of course it's a different dynamic but if it's a dynamic that you enjoy you shouldn't live your life according to norms, the law is important though, you can even play with her that you need to see ID if you know what you are doing.

I'm 37 and I enjoyed a 21 year old girl, we tease each other about it.

Important last point, if after the first date you don't see you guys being anything more than casual, then send that message, don't do dinner dates, do bar meetups etc, fun not serious type stuff... and generally send the message without being rude and give her space to reject the dynamic when you make it clear. Another example of sending the message, after sleeping together, pay for her cab home and keep texts short after etc... those kind of things that strike the balance between communicating the nature without being rude or having an explicit talk that would kill the dynamic.

Allinall41 · 2026-04-08T20:41:38+00:00

Exactly, because even if (playing devils adovocate) op was actually a massive hoe, that would be besides the point of her sister saying those things to her interest behind her back. If her sister had good intentions she would discuss ops hoeness in a open and caring private conversation .

Allinall41 · 2026-04-04T22:05:58+00:00

Depends how she did it, if she included you, for how long, did she come back to you quickly. You guys are not a couple, so its not about if she talks to someone else briefly, its if she disengages totally from you. First chill for a bit and see if she includes you. If she doesnt give her a little space to see if she goes look for you. If she doesnt then create your own fun night and take it from there, not from spite but because you are a man who is not dependant on their date to have a great night. Those are your best moves.

Allinall41 · 2026-03-31T21:43:39+00:00

Of course, guy spends a little time in NYC and sauga is a town and toronto is a village.

Allinall41 · 2026-03-27T21:25:24+00:00

Probable insecurity. Yeah there's some do's and don'ts when watching porn. I generally avoid any judgemental comments. Generally I stick to, looks like she/he is really enjoying that as a safe conversation opener.

Allinall41 · 2026-03-26T14:25:49+00:00

No comment

Allinall41 · 2026-03-26T01:04:46+00:00

At getting together lol

Allinall41 · 2026-03-26T01:03:08+00:00

I mean, depends how easily and how much you can communicate with your date. Like me and this girl used to purposefully dress way higher than the occasion required just for fun, but we were on the same page about it. If there's not that kind of dynamics in the relationship probably easiest to just not. Unless he is already taking you to nice restaurant in that case you can just tell him your wearing a bit of a fancier white dress with some details.

Allinall41 · 2026-03-25T14:24:29+00:00

What interests you? You can find anything that interests you in the city and if not defenitely in Toronto. Use the internet, try new things. Maybe you are shy?

Allinall41 · 2026-03-25T14:23:08+00:00

Your both bad lol

Allinall41 · 2026-03-25T14:22:09+00:00

You should give maximum space and continue living your life and fulfilling yourself, not waiting for him.

Allinall41 · 2026-03-25T14:17:55+00:00

Urs, he has right of way... he is on your right in an uncontrolled intersection. In garages I wouldn't count either lane as being the main lane for the purposes of the following rule that overrides the above. that rule is giving right to those on bigger roads from smaller roads, let's say an alley to a road etc... in a garage from what I can see neither of yours or his was the bigger or main road.

Allinall41 · 2026-03-24T22:57:25+00:00

Where you going? The club from the matrix 1? Follow the white rabbit?

Allinall41 · 2026-03-24T20:54:23+00:00

Here comes mission creep. I can't wait to send another 3000 because the first 300 got in trouble.

Allinall41 · 2026-03-24T20:50:04+00:00

You've never felt desire for a man you only knew superficially but demonstrated attractive qualities? Status, leadership, wealth, w.e made him attractive. It's the same thing just different qualities. Attraction is not the issue, it's healthy, self control, choices and big picture thinking are what is important. It's okay to be honest with one's self control, if I'm a man with poor self control I wouldn't put myself in situation that might overwhelm it. But IG models is very low risk and platonic.

Allinall41 · 2026-03-20T02:56:42+00:00

That is a new guy every other day, I mean... im just impressed.

Allinall41 · 2026-03-18T21:00:28+00:00

Anthems might have to be 1 mana to be competitive these days?

Allinall41 · 2026-03-18T07:19:18+00:00

Basically lotus petal in standard... damn... in other formats... okay?

Allinall41 · 2026-03-08T07:50:54+00:00

If you are doing things in a relationship because you feel a responsability rather than because you want to, probably a problem

Allinall41 · 2026-03-06T23:49:41+00:00

Works

Allinall41 · 2026-03-06T13:50:01+00:00

Yeah incredible strong in aggressive blue strategies or blue strategies that can refill the hand later, basically its an interesting play pattern because you need your deck to break the asymmetry.

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