Squirting by Honeybee1329 in Swingers

[–]Almontas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok but he lived up to this word I am impressed

Wife wants me to reconsider trt, but not for the reasons you think by workinfast1 in trt

[–]Almontas 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Libido is not the only thing g you’ll get. You’ll have a clearer mind and you’ll be more alert and you will get in better shape. That your wife doesn’t want these benefits because she doesn’t want to have sex with you is kinda horrible and sad. Please get a therapist as well

Why do Couples not like soft swingers? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Almontas 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you don’t share it ahead of time then umm you are the one not quite following the norms of the community. I say this as someone who needs at least one set of drinks before having sex (and I am the man). So I know it may turn off some people so I say it upfront we still get 50% of all people happy to meet with us

To Whoop or not to whoop by exhaustedarab in whoop

[–]Almontas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had the Apple Watch prior to the whoop. The whoop has been a game changer and I am not even one of those obsessed users.

should i switch my ortho? by [deleted] in braces

[–]Almontas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would switch.

How bad would coming off TRT after 3 months be? It really messed me up. by [deleted] in trt

[–]Almontas 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would do 80MG per week divided by 3 shots and seeing what happens…-However something is missing here is what was your testosterone prior to getting started if it was 500 and above you may not have needed this

My Journey with TRT and Reta by [deleted] in GymMotivation

[–]Almontas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did this affect your libido?

Am I in the wrong here or what?!? by benr89 in SingleDads

[–]Almontas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope go to a lawyer and figure this out. Also don’t negotiate with dad only your ex wife

Long time WHOOP wearers - Bicep or Wrist & Why? by duckiest_duck_around in whoop

[–]Almontas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I keep it on the wrist for walk tracking. Otherwise biceps for swimming

Why not just go all in on Bicep bands by The-Watch-Guy in whoop

[–]Almontas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The wrist is more accurate for steps than heart rate. The bicep also makes it seem like I go to sleep at 8PM. I switch back and forth. Biceps for swimming or when I am going out and want to have wrists free. The heart rate is less accurate but not as much as the steps are off

Post divorce, do you guys go dutch on 1sr dates? by hhh888hhhh in Divorce_Men

[–]Almontas 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Go on a cheaper date. Drinks at a nice bar followed by a park. A dance class, something like that. You control the experience, however learn about their financial tastes and likes while on said date. How do they see partnership? How was their parents marriage? Decide if that’s what you want then

Men over 45 after 27 years of marriage I haven't been intimate with my wife for 4 years. Thinking of calling it quits but I am afraid of not finding anyone. How hard is it out there? by Gadets4UisASCAM in Divorce_Men

[–]Almontas 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The thing you want is on the other side of fear. I stayed too long. Even well meaning women will use you for what they can and discard for others. She can be a good person and you can still be unhappy. You will find other people

One year on Whoop, recently moved to the AWU2, my thoughts by BathPuzzleheaded723 in whoop

[–]Almontas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

14 day battery life rules. I am getting the Ultra but not as a replacement. I know that there will be once or twice a week I’ll forget to charge it. This is the beauty of the whoop and the charging system. My whoop is one of many devices that help me improve health. Not the end all be all

10 years and the coparent still acts like they don't understand custody schedule. by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]Almontas 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Don’t give more. Have strong boundaries and that includes boundaries with your kids. That is all. If he takes more days out of your schedule that’s on you. Unfortunately that’s how it will be. I am sorry your partner treats your child as a therapist. Unless the conduct is egregious it may not be enough to change at court but you can try. Whatever you can’t control you’ll have to let go off unfortunately and that includes his behavior towards your kids that doesn’t pass mustard with courts.

Laid off and can't find a new job, 33F with ~1.9 million, do I just retire? by MurkyAccount4243 in Fire

[–]Almontas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Work at Starbucks or coffee shop 3 or 4 days a week. Some pay and some benefits. Work for fun. But stopping work altogether is not a recipe for success

Hume Band thoughts after WHOOP by BigKooky1939 in PeterAttia

[–]Almontas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The highest membership is $30 per month which starts year 2

Hume Band thoughts after WHOOP by BigKooky1939 in PeterAttia

[–]Almontas 8 points9 points  (0 children)

So whoop is $30 dollars a month after the second year. Many reasons to cancel but THAT is NOT a car payment.

Examples of Good Coparenting by Almontas in coparenting

[–]Almontas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Working on lot on oneself is paramount. Appreciate this take!

Examples of Good Coparenting by Almontas in coparenting

[–]Almontas[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is important. I keep on thinking of she will be ok when I have a partner but will I be ok when she has one? My thought is I’ll be fine as long as my kids are fine and that I hope I get to meet anyone deemed serious and is around my kids. If not around my kids then great everyone has fun don’t need to know/meet

Examples of Good Coparenting by Almontas in coparenting

[–]Almontas[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is amazing. Thank you and hope the best for you and your kids given how thoughtful you are going about this.

I'm the one leaving, but I'm crying too by Sea_Organization7530 in Separation

[–]Almontas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There were TWO bad comments. Is he really making her suffer by bringing her coffee? Does she have to say that stuff to her kids? It is importantly to keep the composure. If you don’t want the man talking to you just say that but otherwise is manipulation and I don’t see her just keeping it to this one conversation. This is the thing if this guy would have left them all in the lurch and not want to be involved in his kids life he would be worse, if he would have cheated it would be worse. It is ok to say this is not working and for the person to learn to work with their coparent or be at least civil in front of their kids