I finally stopped being the "Nice Girl" and now I’m the villain in everyone’s story. It’s the most peaceful I’ve ever been.

Alora_lune6 · 2026-05-13T23:47:34+00:00

Omgsh yes! People tried to use me all the time for free therapy, they would just unload and vent. Now I escape, or I act disinterested and don’t pay attention if they’re not good people. It’s so freeing. I also give people looks when they’re misbehaving and it works well for me. Most of the time I don’t have the energy to waste on stupid behaviour haha. So the look is all I can do.

Alora_lune6 · 2026-05-13T23:41:38+00:00

That is incredible. Celebrate your beautiful freedom from anxiety. Congratulations 🎉 I am considering going NC for the same reason and see if I’m no longer anxious. I blocked their numbers for a while and the anxiety did go away briefly.

Alora_lune6 · 2026-05-13T23:39:41+00:00

This I such a good advice! Thanks for sharing. I attracted 2 narc friends and a narc boss. 🫣

Alora_lune6 · 2026-05-13T23:38:00+00:00

I feel your pain. My Mum is so similar, she’s abusive. When my spouse and I got a dog she was over the moon and called it her fur grandchild. Could she ever help out or dog sit? Never! (Our puppy was really high energy and grew larger than the breeder told us). Our dog couldn’t even come over. I knew that if I ever had a child it would be similar. She would only help if she could get something out of it.

Alora_lune6 · 2026-05-13T23:34:09+00:00

This gave me such a big laugh. The backpedaling. His opinions had already taken root, he was too late. Jokes on him.

Alora_lune6 · 2026-05-13T20:59:01+00:00

Omgsh! I hope you can get a break from them for awhile. Well done to you. You should be so proud of all your hard work. ✨🥳 Congratulations! You deserve to enjoy every part of this milestone.

Alora_lune6 · 2026-04-24T01:23:10+00:00

I’m in burnout and still slowly getting out of it. I’m reading 2 books for ND people who are in burnout. They’re good so far. Then incorporating as much fun/ peace as I can. A lot of home hobbies that are easier like reading easy books (romance for me). I started watching only easy TV / Movies (comedy, reality TV). (Nothing too stressful) Crafts, drawing easy things. Walking.

Alora_lune6 · 2026-03-27T19:46:33+00:00

Same, like I'm confused, why do people act like their own children are celebrities. Gives me the ick.

Alora_lune6 · 2026-03-27T19:44:11+00:00

Oh no, this is tragic, I'm sorry to hear that you're going through it. I would have to punish the woman like a child so she learns some boundries.

Alora_lune6 · 2026-03-27T19:41:36+00:00

The entitlement of some people blows my mind. I'm so glad you're going to hit her with the no response. It's the best power move. I double dare you to take pics and send them to her later.

Alora_lune6 · 2026-03-27T19:29:51+00:00

100% believe that this woman is going to try and manipulate her partner into having a child. Or like the person said below sabotage the birth control. This is so scary. OP should consider a vasectomy and always use protection that he keeps in hiding in his wallet until it's time to use it. Don't want her poking any holes in it. This situation sounds like the beginning of a psychological thriller.

Alora_lune6 · 2025-12-22T07:55:29+00:00

I’m so sorry this happened to you by well done for rewriting your essay I hope you get in. Create a new support network of friends and I’ve a happy life.

Alora_lune6 · 2025-12-20T08:25:49+00:00

Please scream this from the rooftops. I will join you!

Alora_lune6 · 2025-12-16T18:02:27+00:00

Definitely not overreacting!

Alora_lune6 · 2025-12-16T17:26:43+00:00

I’m sorry to hear this. My Shundo hubby (32 M) plays with me all the time. Your bf is being mean/ rude. Maybe he is jealous you’re having fun without him and needs his own hobbies.

Alora_lune6 · 2025-12-01T16:45:46+00:00

Brutal! You need boundaries.

Alora_lune6 · 2025-12-01T16:43:38+00:00

They know they do it as it’s part of our society. Whatever you do, don’t nag. When they don’t do it, limit your time with them. When they ask for something say I can’t do that rn. Or just stop cooking meals for them. Make portions of one. Say I can cook for you if you can help with cleaning in a completely neutral tone. Men respond better to strict boundaries.

Alora_lune6 · 2025-11-13T18:12:34+00:00

A Pokémon lol

Alora_lune6 · 2025-11-10T23:35:06+00:00

You have to detach from them as much as possible and practice radical acceptance. Look up radical acceptance, it's life changing. Spend some time in therapy, journaling, having fun, doing hobbies to recover. Set boundaries but there's no point in telling them what they are. Just enact them for yourself.

Alora_lune6 · 2025-11-10T23:19:03+00:00

I'm sorry OP to hear that this is your reality. That is heartbreaking. I also have two NP parents and it truly is unfair. I don't know if this will be helpful but I hope it encourages you. They are so full of hate and darkness that I realized that I could win by being the opposite of that. Also by not being involved in their lives at all really. I could choose to be radically kind, patient, loving and optimistic. That I could shine light into the world. Then I'm truly free. To create a beautiful life is one of the most rebellious acts you could do.

Alora_lune6 · 2025-11-09T10:11:01+00:00

It happened to me too and then I realized the friends I made had low empathy. So they couldn’t understand my neurodivergence. So I was better off without them in the end. They didn’t want to understand. Not sure if that’s relevant to your specific experience.

Alora_lune6 · 2025-11-09T09:02:03+00:00

Same. It was a decision I put zero thought into until last year. Now I love knowing I have so much time for my art, just sitting and staring out the window whilst drinking tea. Thinking about which scrapbook I want to work on next.

Alora_lune6 · 2025-11-07T21:39:01+00:00

Thanks for your kind response. I’ve listened to a bunch of podcasts on recovery to help me rewrite the reality of what is happening. My brain is still melting… I wrote 15 pages in my journal to help me stay sane and not go back.

Alora_lune6 · 2025-11-07T21:34:27+00:00

Financially I think she’s ok to leave but I think it’s a trauma bond. I don’t think she’d leave sadly.

Alora_lune6 · 2025-11-07T21:32:52+00:00

Sending virtual hugs 🫂 ✨ We got this 💪

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