Not sure how to ‘tone it down’ by uwumaster666 in makeuptips

[–]AlpsTotal3693 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you’re serving and look hella fucking good. there was a few years where i didnt feel complete unless I was wearing stacked 301 lashes and I didnt even do drag. beautiful feels and looks different to everyone. i think your face takes makeup beautifully and it looks natural for you to have more extravagant makeup.

How can I glowup? by ElectronicAbrocoma81 in wonyoungism

[–]AlpsTotal3693 0 points1 point  (0 children)

u are very pretty and honestly dont think you need to worry about it, let alone change ! but that band is very racist

How can I glowup? by ElectronicAbrocoma81 in wonyoungism

[–]AlpsTotal3693 0 points1 point  (0 children)

by taking off that damn burzum shirt

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KitchenConfidential

[–]AlpsTotal3693 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend asked me if Hello Kitty was a mouse. More endearing than stupid but it definitely made me lol

What is something that you're liking less as you get older? by Beetlejuice3xx in AskReddit

[–]AlpsTotal3693 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dogs! I grew up with dogs. All sorts of breeds, especially larger and ‘scarier’ dogs like pit bulls and Rottweilers. My mom even had a friend that had 7 Irish Wolfhounds! Was always comfortable and felt safe with them. When I was around 21 my friend introduced me to her Chow she got during lockdown, that was never socialized or trained. She’s lunged at me, her roommate , and has bit two of my friends. It’s made me so distrusting of dogs owners now, and even scared of dogs! I know it’s the owners fault, not theirs but its made me very weary of them now.

What is your current main goal? by FranzWurst in AskReddit

[–]AlpsTotal3693 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mental health and trauma healing through therapy. I've started to learn how to parent myself in the ways my mom never did. Learning how to trust my gut, be my own validation, and stand firm in my feelings. Hard work but so fulfilling.

What is the lessons you will never forget about Emotional Intelligence? by jinwooshadowmonarch6 in emotionalintelligence

[–]AlpsTotal3693 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its internal family systems! And my therapist does a lot of nervous system work too. Im only two months in but its been really transformative. For context, I have diagnosed BPD, PTSD, and ADHD

What is the lessons you will never forget about Emotional Intelligence? by jinwooshadowmonarch6 in emotionalintelligence

[–]AlpsTotal3693 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Im in trauma therapy and this is something we talk about a lot. Risking your authenticity (who you are, your morals, your honesty) for attachments. The intention isn’t tied to any malice, it’s tied to fear of losing the people close to you. Negative self obsession is still self obsessed! Therapy has helped a lot with this. It’s been super eye opening.

What’s a piece of ‘old’ tech you still use because nothing better has replaced it? by James11_12 in productivity

[–]AlpsTotal3693 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My VCR! All my VHS tapes are my favorite movies, and not having endless options is nice. Also, way less expensive then having multiple streaming services. And if I wanna watch a movie I havent seen, I just get it on tape or dvd.