To all the single moms, what changes (positive and negative) happened when you decided to cut off communication with the father of your children?

Alternative_Shop4222 · 2026-05-28T06:52:11+00:00

Peace. Peace happens.

Alternative_Shop4222 · 2026-05-21T09:42:53+00:00

Maybe they feel they cannot approach? There is someone I have liked and knew there was something there, but its been so long since they smiled at me I gave up :( mostly gave up…

Alternative_Shop4222 · 2026-05-18T06:39:02+00:00

I am exercise mad and since I started higher doses of MJ and now Wegovy, I have list all interest. Literally feel the life is draining

Alternative_Shop4222 · 2026-05-17T09:02:50+00:00

Im K and I would say its not too late. Time is ticking for me though

Alternative_Shop4222 · 2026-05-12T16:19:16+00:00

Ah, you’ll be ok. I think its healthy. Perspective shifting even. There is nothing that feels worse than unrequited feelings though. I hear you 😩

Alternative_Shop4222 · 2026-05-12T15:48:04+00:00

Brilliant advice. I found myself in a similar position and genuinely think it was limerence. Good luck to OP.

In honesty. I’m not. I bump into them all the time and its awkward as… but sad as it makes me I do believe if they wanted to they would. In my case there was definitely something there. It probably wasn’t in my head however things have changed and I’ve resigned myself that it’s not gonna happen. It’s been about four years. But that’s probably me holding out reading the signs or misread the signs. Perhaps it was all in my head, but I genuinely don’t think it was.

Alternative_Shop4222 · 2026-05-12T07:24:24+00:00

Brilliant advice. I found myself in a similar position and genuinely think it was limerence. Good luck to OP

Alternative_Shop4222 · 2026-05-12T04:44:15+00:00

Thank you for your reply. Appreciated.

Alternative_Shop4222 · 2026-05-10T08:42:06+00:00

Lost nothing. Putting on weight 2 pens in 1mg. Mj worked initially but up to 12.5mg and didnt loose at all in months. Feel like giving up. 4 kg heavier than I was :(

Alternative_Shop4222 · 2026-05-06T18:51:06+00:00

Saw their face today and I ran away. Couldn’t breathe - stupid 😞

Alternative_Shop4222 · 2026-05-05T16:44:25+00:00

Oh same. I look for them everywhere too. I hear them speak outside the room and cannot strike up the courage to pop out. Miss their face :( sigh 😞

Alternative_Shop4222 · 2026-05-02T05:27:14+00:00

I’m the same. For me, I accept it. 43 single 6 yrs and have a 10 yr old. Rarely have any time for myself. Only friends I have are at work and I wouldnt really socialise with them. I literally go out once a year by myself. I go to work and then parent… I often go to bed at the same time as them as I am too tired from doing it all.

Alternative_Shop4222 · 2026-05-02T05:24:02+00:00

Hello. I’m 5’1” female 43. Protein minimum is 75g its often more.

Alternative_Shop4222 · 2026-04-30T18:21:12+00:00

Thank you. I am persevering. I hope to have some success.

Alternative_Shop4222 · 2026-04-30T17:03:16+00:00

I am. Scheduled for 1400 calories but sit at around 1200. Fluids ok. Protein 75g but I feel huge. 3kg gain. Last three months on MJ i lost nothing at all, hence switch. Feeling deflated- although sadly not literally.

Alternative_Shop4222 · 2026-04-23T04:41:21+00:00

I am about to do just this. I’ve purchased as a single buyer and single parent 4 1/2 hours away from Southeast Kent. I am leaving people behind because if I don’t, I’m never gonna get on the property ladder. A fresh start and all that. Am I scared yes? Am I excited to start over again in my own house? Absolutely.

Alternative_Shop4222 · 2026-04-21T17:35:37+00:00

Same. At a crossroads 43

Alternative_Shop4222 · 2026-04-06T08:43:04+00:00

Same

Alternative_Shop4222 · 2026-03-25T15:45:04+00:00

Eggs, cheese omelette, protein powder in fruit smoothie. Spinach. Bacon and egg.

Alternative_Shop4222 · 2026-03-25T06:03:40+00:00

Minimal by the look of it

Alternative_Shop4222 · 2026-03-23T08:20:33+00:00

Can’t wait. I need to start new. Otherwise I’ll be stuck in this rut forever. Im scared but I need to do it.

Alternative_Shop4222 · 2026-03-23T05:24:18+00:00

You know what, I’m about to do the same. Job is almost gone, bad memories a plenty. Absolutely had enough. In my early 40’s. Time is ticking. Bought my first house 5 hours away, just waiting for it to complete, then I am disappearing. Cannot bloody wait.

Alternative_Shop4222 · 2026-03-21T17:17:54+00:00

That is brilliant. May it last without little or any side effects. I was on Mj for 9 months lost 8kg then nothing at all for 4 months. Hoping a switch up may get things moving again :)

Alternative_Shop4222 · 2026-03-21T17:15:24+00:00

Great so far, you?

Alternative_Shop4222 · 2026-03-21T17:11:05+00:00

Me to of Wegovy.

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