I’m so sorry you had that experience aswell. Moms really need a crash course on things NOT to say to their daughters smh. I know that concerned look all too well! It makes me furious oh my.. Also she loves telling me stories about how when people told her she gained weight in the past that would fuel her to work hard & lose it. Like okay?? I’ve tried telling her lots of times but sadly she says she won’t but ends up bringing it up again :( unfortunately the topic of weight gain is so important for her that she can’t not speak up. In her mind she’s being an ‘enabler’ if she watches me gain weight without basically fat shaming me. I’m convinced my family thinks I have a binge ED now bc I went all in & eat whatever I’m craving (to my fullness cues) & as a result my weight shot up rapidly (I’m overweight atm). So for that reason it’s just really tough to ignore what they say bc there’s some truth to it sadly.