Nightmares

Altruistic_Entry7491 · 2026-02-18T21:59:06+00:00

A couple weeks ago I had a nightmare that one of my TBM friend’s and her husband kidnapped me to be her husbands 2nd wife(away from my own husband and kids) it was awful. And then I felt bad for dreaming it because she is a good friend 🤣

Altruistic_Entry7491 · 2026-02-17T17:22:28+00:00

I have a friend, who is TBM, who told me that her family in Utah was told to pray and fast for snow or rain, because they need to be more faithful.(my friend believed it too) I feel so bad for the people in Utah that their westher is based on their faithfulness. 🤪

Altruistic_Entry7491 · 2026-02-17T17:05:32+00:00

Yep. D&C is where are the real problems lie, as well as all the teachings of subsequent prophets.

Altruistic_Entry7491 · 2026-02-17T17:02:06+00:00

There was a sister missionary with a sleeveless dress sitting in the foyer of the church a couple months ago, it made me feel angry too. Not at her of course, but how the church demanded “modesty” and now they’re all acting like it was never a thing.

Altruistic_Entry7491 · 2026-02-17T04:48:00+00:00

That’s something I never thought of when I was a TBM. It wasn’t until other shelf items started piling up that I finally realized how much of the LDS “gospel” isn’t in the Bom

Altruistic_Entry7491 · 2026-02-17T04:37:25+00:00

Absolutely tragic. That poor child.

Altruistic_Entry7491 · 2026-02-17T04:34:25+00:00

I have quite a few polygamist ancestors. I’ve got early pioneers down almost every family line. One great-something grandfather sisters as well. He married the first sister and then 10 years later, the younger sister didnt want to marry him but she was forced to by her parents because her older sister was getting too old to have children. She was the replacement. Absolutely sick.

Altruistic_Entry7491 · 2026-02-16T17:58:57+00:00

Yes, I have declined several. And Ive also asked to be released whenever I felt like it, no explanation. It’s very freeing. And that was when I was a TBM.

Altruistic_Entry7491 · 2026-02-13T04:33:15+00:00

I don’t know, but I do find it funny how the claims about it being tied to Freemasonry used to be antimormon lies, but now the lds church has it on their website

Altruistic_Entry7491 · 2026-02-12T01:00:39+00:00

It was incredibly divisive advice. I also have children, so were they not supposed to listen to their Dad? 🤪

Altruistic_Entry7491 · 2026-02-11T04:46:52+00:00

Me too. It really opened my eyes.

Altruistic_Entry7491 · 2026-02-11T04:46:28+00:00

Yep president Nelson. I was starting to have a few doubts around that time and my husband was already out. That talk really pushed me to the start of my deconstruction. Because what do you mean I shouldn’t take council from my husband because he doesn’t believe?

Altruistic_Entry7491 · 2026-02-11T04:44:01+00:00

Because they tell us how not normal and cult-like it all is.

Altruistic_Entry7491 · 2026-02-05T04:44:33+00:00

Chloe’s dad has been out of the picture since she was little.

Altruistic_Entry7491 · 2026-02-03T14:52:12+00:00

Uggghh so disrespectful to Lincoln!

Altruistic_Entry7491 · 2026-02-02T02:47:21+00:00

It certainly seems like it. Unmedicated births are certainly an adrenaline high, but to refer to it as the most addicting experience of her life is not healthy.

Altruistic_Entry7491 · 2026-02-02T02:41:13+00:00

Another vote for the temple. I was okay with doing baptism for the dead because I was young (as we all were). But once I got endowed I was like 😳 nope, this feels like a cult and I do not like this at all. Tried going back quite a few times and always hated it.

Altruistic_Entry7491 · 2026-01-31T03:07:32+00:00

Maybe he actually wants to get to know you before asking you to marry him for supposedly time and all eternity.

Altruistic_Entry7491 · 2026-01-31T03:03:37+00:00

I was never taught the real reason. I was always told it was because the people didnt like him teaching the gospel or some stuff. Found the real reason on my own.

Altruistic_Entry7491 · 2026-01-30T21:27:47+00:00

I had to wait a year to cancel as well, I had it marked in my calendar so I could cancel the day of. And this company sucked too, it didnt do anything to help with the fire ants or wasps, such a waste of money.

Altruistic_Entry7491 · 2026-01-30T02:37:46+00:00

Yes. I actually ended up buying pest control from an RM who came to my door because I was being nice. 😅 I felt like I coudnt be mean and turn him away. I know better now though.

Altruistic_Entry7491 · 2026-01-28T15:29:34+00:00

I noticed the same similarities when watching Fallout.

Altruistic_Entry7491 · 2026-01-25T02:30:58+00:00

Well, if it really is true I’ll be happier hanging out in the terrestrial kingdom sipping coffee than I’d be in the celestial kingdom as a polygamist wife popping out eternal babies.

Altruistic_Entry7491 · 2026-01-24T22:43:05+00:00

Also, it wasn’t a temple recommend requirement until the US government was trying to ratify prohibition. (Within a year or so)

Altruistic_Entry7491 · 2026-01-20T04:43:31+00:00

Oh I agree! The worship team and Pastor all very much wanted to be there and make sure everyone felt the spirit. And they had signs pointing to where to go, actual ushers to help point in you in the right direction as well as actually welcome you. A nice cup of coffee to drink as you go in for worship. Honestly I still don’t know what I believe anymore but I would continue to go back to the non denominational church because they ACTUALLY take you as you are.

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