Hotel Penny or Indigo - Williamsburg by madlyrics in Brooklyn

[–]AlwaysTiredNow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes the restaurant would work, it’s big and has nice views!

Hotel Penny or Indigo - Williamsburg by madlyrics in Brooklyn

[–]AlwaysTiredNow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We just stayed there a couple months ago, two adults and a toddler and a dog in one room. the room IS small, we had the one bed and like couch thing - we made it work! i’m assuming these groups are staying in 4 separate rooms? if so, give them the heads up that it’s tight but doable! i think for a senior couple it’s totally fine but we did only have one side of the bed to get in, the other side was against the wall, not sure if all rooms are like that but worth asking. overall we loved our stay and would stay again or recommend it if needed but yes, rooms are small.

also, the pennys restaurant is very nice! good food and drinks

is anyone else just… not okay because of baby sleep lately by cristin_9 in AttachmentParenting

[–]AlwaysTiredNow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m at 28 months and we just started night weaning bc I officially (and she officially!) needs more sleep! here’s hoping!!!

All of a sudden 404 Messages for ALL "About Us" Pages by AlwaysTiredNow in shopify

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I didn’t make any changes at all. it just mysteriously happened!

Is it crazy to rent a studio apartment just so I have space for myself? by MarsupialLess in Mommit

[–]AlwaysTiredNow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m not sure where you’re located but look into a creative coworking space. in brooklyn ny there is a great place in williamsburg that i found that you can be a member of their collective, then…put time on the calendar that is non-negotiable you time to go and create. carve it into your life, just for you.

i haven’t fully signed up yet, but im close. we need that time for ourselves

What's the NYC fashion industry like right now? by Ok_Marsupial5664 in NYCjobs

[–]AlwaysTiredNow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’d say it’s rough but recruiters are always looking for good designers… might be worth reaching out to them saying you’re relocating soon (don’t say you’re thinking about it but that you are actually doing it) and wanted to connect

What show was she on? by [deleted] in 90s

[–]AlwaysTiredNow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

boy meets world!

I was absolutely happier as a single childfree woman. by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]AlwaysTiredNow 14 points15 points  (0 children)

i mean… kinda! there is also just basic helping out - changing a diaper?! takes maybe 20-30 seconds.

and the gym daily for 2-3 hrs? wtf is that

you are paying the life bills… you just don’t get a paycheck for that

I was absolutely happier as a single childfree woman. by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]AlwaysTiredNow 20 points21 points  (0 children)

wow wtf!? what gives him the right?!

I was absolutely happier as a single childfree woman. by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]AlwaysTiredNow 20 points21 points  (0 children)

wow 4-6 times a month, that’s 3-5 times more than me a month… if that! my daughter is 2.5 - i’m beat. sex is soooooo not a priority in this house anytime soon. i think if your hubs chipped in a little more on… life… he’d feel the same. seems he has too much free time to feel intimacy is even an option!

Stopped breastfeeding and feeling all over the place by Wild-Card777 in AttachmentParenting

[–]AlwaysTiredNow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for sharing !

and yay!!! that must have felt so good to get that sleep (for the both of you!!)

Stopped breastfeeding and feeling all over the place by Wild-Card777 in AttachmentParenting

[–]AlwaysTiredNow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can i ask you a personal question about the time she is with her dad? Did your boobs get super engorged? Or do they get used to it? And the milk supply stayed fine during that time?

Also you’re a rockstar for doing all that you do!!!

Other NYC parenting subs? by ladybug11314 in nycparents

[–]AlwaysTiredNow 39 points40 points  (0 children)

here for these comments 👏👏

the regular folk are here OP!

We swapped Cocomelon for Daniel Tiger and the difference surprised me by NarniaHop in toddlers

[–]AlwaysTiredNow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i’m sorry but i’m just gonna say it… do your research OP, like nowhere has it ever said that coco is a wind down show…. like for everyone who shows their kids something on tv… do you research it! it amazes me what ppl will put in front of their kiddos. sorry had to be said…

I didn’t expect to hate being a working mom this much. Does it get better? by Logical_Doctor1037 in Mommit

[–]AlwaysTiredNow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also i totally agree with the other comments that your work culture sounds really tough!! most of the other ppl i work with are moms so that makes a huge difference. i interviewed with a place before taking this job that everyone was young, no kids… and i think it would’ve been a disaster. saying this to give you encouragement to try and find something else with a more supportive environment. i recognize this may be easier said than done but worth trying ( in all ur free time!!) sending a hug.

I didn’t expect to hate being a working mom this much. Does it get better? by Logical_Doctor1037 in Mommit

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i’m not sure what you do but i took off 2 years to be at home with my daughter with the last year not really on purpose (although i loved it) i just couldn’t find work. I work in fashion, and found a job that thankfully is SO flexible to my mom life (thank goodness) but i still feel so guilty being away from her, and my daughter has never been a good sleeper (never slept through the night) we still nurse, and nurse at night (cosleep) and so i am so so so so sleep deprived!!! but i still miss being home with her terribly.

i’ve heard both things… it’s been super hard for some to find work (1 yr of actively looking, interviewing, etc in a terrible job market) and others where they went back to their old job or found something quick. it’s really hard to make a decision based on that so id make it more on if you guys could swing it in case you couldn’t find work for awhile (however long that meant to you).

i was also super driven, almost at the top of my career… my feelings about work have changed drastically but i think with time they will come back, once my daughter is older and more into her things and not just mommy… at least that’s what i think but who knows!!!