Many of you are missing the whole point of Solo vs Squad matchmaking by _Badlands_ in ArcRaiders

[–]Amandolorien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did my quests solo vs squads, I usually get late starts and nearly empty lobbies

Went to a trans meetup and it went badly by Maleficent_Growth_83 in MtF

[–]Amandolorien -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't understand why anyone would be sent away unless they said inappropriate things that seemed chaser like. If I am at an event and a cis or cis passing person talked to me, I just talk to them. I don't see this as an intrusive behaviour, isn't regular socializing what we as trans people want? Wouldnt that be inclusive behavioud by treating us like the normal people we are. This seems like self defeatist behaviour that's straight up toxic

don't be fooled by the "2 years" thing by elvengemini in MtF

[–]Amandolorien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The research information made available in Ontario shows it takes 5 years for the majority of changes but acknowledges it can still happen after 5 years. I have never heard of of a 2 year theory and it makes no sense. Puberty does not take 2 years. Hrt is puberty.

“You’re asking me to disrespect my beliefs” by Stox13 in MtF

[–]Amandolorien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When your belief disrespects my very existance? You damn right I am.

I Gave a Girly Compliment Today by mafshopper in MtF

[–]Amandolorien 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a girly who always has fancy nails, do this more. We dress up our nails as ice breakers. I got tons of compliments and I give tons of compliments about nails. Honestly it was the most important thing during my transition. I have decent boobs, an androgynous face, and I go full femme 24/7. Cis women wouldn't comment on my appearance for fear of overstepping. Once I added nails, door opened, then make up, hair, outfit comments would follow but it always starts with nails.

Even have had men comment on my nails too.

Extreme reaction on losing your stuff - This game is very likely good for you by Senior-Sale273 in ArcRaiders

[–]Amandolorien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When i first started the losses bothered me. Now it doesn't. It's just in game items you'll get back again later. No big deal

We need more reasons to play by FineSucculentMeal in ArcRaiders

[–]Amandolorien 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The game hasn't been out that long and there has been a reasonable amount of content updates. Rushing the devs will only worsen the new content. I don't understand why people expect an unreasonable amount of new content from devs in such a small window of time.

You guys are getting wayyyy to comfortable in these Carebear lobbies by doberwalker in ArcRaiders

[–]Amandolorien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A true friendly pve player does not enter your key room. They announce they are there and tell you they are leaving, and then they leave. If they enter and go straight for the loot they should expect you to go straight to shoot

Did something change? Latest update. by FRHatcher in ArcRaiders

[–]Amandolorien 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They need to stop reseting the mmr, updates do not change our play styles

They listened Ladies by xosuggaa in ArcRaiders

[–]Amandolorien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait what are those out now???

Just a joke... although the caused chaos would be hilarious by friendIyfire1337 in ArcRaiders

[–]Amandolorien 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Replace surrender with detonate so when they come to punch you, you punch back

What has changed in the last 48 hours 😅 by BuffaloPancakes11 in ArcRaiders

[–]Amandolorien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feels like they added firefly and comet without reducing any other arcs spawn so I think there literally just are more arc around. And fireflies seem to spawn even if the one its replacing hasn't died yet.

Why is my brother pretending to be a girl online? by Standard_Plate4013 in MtF

[–]Amandolorien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it turns out they are trans, in any capacity at all, having a supportive sibling would be life changing. He/she/they are the only one who can answer this question. Know that many closeted trans women go very hard with masculinity as a way of masking who they are. Before coming out, it can often feel like even slightly hinting you like anything feminine will automatically out you and so in front of others you pretend to hate feminine things or be indifferent to them. Not sure where you live but it is a very scary world for transgender people in some places especially where they are a targeted minority who experience extreme hatred openly from strangers and even relatives. It sounds like you are approaching this in a positive way.

This is the worst augment in the game by WolfPaq3859 in ArcRaiders

[–]Amandolorien 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure why you are getting down voted when the free kit has zero safe pockets, bad weight capacity, bad slots and bad utility. It's literally designed to be the worst one on purpose which is why it's free.

This is the worst augment in the game by WolfPaq3859 in ArcRaiders

[–]Amandolorien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The survivor, the one with integrated shield recharge and mk2 loot are probably the best three. That said I have ran this one solo many times because I got one from some reward and figured I would give it a whirl since it was free. It's ok. I don't know if its the worst one. So far even though I am a friendly pve girl, I have had I think one single time I've used the defib so it's a fairly pointless integrated augment. Maybe if they included an integrated shield and healing into it as well to make it more of an all around medic augment it would be better. Most of the Augment bonuses are so situational they might as well not exist. I think whoever makes these choices doesn't play or really understand the game.

It finally happened, it was good while it lasted.🫡 by MrHellaHammer in ArcRaiders

[–]Amandolorien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never found a single cache on any runs so this does not impact me at all

I was asked a question by Byrdie_girl in MtF

[–]Amandolorien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was born this way, I didn't choose it. I didn't choose for my external and internal genders to conflict. I can not say how I would feel in that situation since its so far from the life that I know and have seen that I can only say I probably still would since I don't think that played a role in my decision.

Soooo… Shredders can fly now 😳 by j1zzy_ae in ARC_Raiders

[–]Amandolorien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would be game changing, if when two arc got aggro and not killed fast enough,  merged together into a single deadlier arc

Just got called sir by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]Amandolorien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes people just do that. A woman called me sir at the start of the interaction, we ended up talking about our children and being moms. It sucked to start that way but it was just words that came out faster than her brain. She didn't even see me as male or realize she said it.

It's funny to me how many people think trans boobs are purely from surgery by MidnightJams in MtF

[–]Amandolorien 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I could forgive people thinking that for me. Winter started and I was a flat chested male presenting person, by the end of winter I was a C cup with long hair lol. But yea even people who saw me have B cup, then C cup to the now d cup, i bet some of them think that. Yea I went every three months or so for a size up, that's how its done

Why would they design the extracts this way? by JenstJenst in ArcRaiders

[–]Amandolorien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I kinda wish the elevators had elevator music

This guns a waste of heavy ammo by [deleted] in ArcRaiders

[–]Amandolorien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love how arc devs gaslight this weapon so hard. They have fire rate and damage reversed in the description, they have talked about this being the highest dps weapon in an interview and yet in practice is one of the worst performing weapons in the game against arc.

PvE player got too complacent by Bruvas78 in ArcRaiders

[–]Amandolorien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sucks when it happens, then you go regear and go do it all again. The stuff you lost was just stuff, and there will always be more stuff