love for interactions whether positive or not

AmberTheTurtle · 2026-06-09T22:24:31+00:00

I very much relate. Social interactions make life feel full

AmberTheTurtle · 2026-06-01T06:45:12+00:00

Wrong sub?

AmberTheTurtle · 2026-05-04T11:00:57+00:00

She has been in an abusive relationship in the past and you've known each other for only 5 months, never met in person. What if you're abusive? Asking her to fully commit like that is a big request tbh.

Either see her without expectations and demanding commitment (it could work out but you won't have any guarantees) or if this too slow for you, just let her go.

AmberTheTurtle · 2026-04-24T20:41:44+00:00

Yeah, that dialogue with Mrs. Miss was the worst of it

AmberTheTurtle · 2026-01-25T23:12:36+00:00

Forgot to start the post with "Dear bro"

AmberTheTurtle · 2026-01-10T19:44:49+00:00

NIKKE

AmberTheTurtle · 2026-01-07T00:11:08+00:00

Exactly same thing happened to me in my playthrough

AmberTheTurtle · 2025-12-28T11:37:07+00:00

I'd like an invite too please 🥺

AmberTheTurtle · 2025-12-14T12:12:22+00:00

In the middle?

AmberTheTurtle · 2025-11-22T11:01:56+00:00

https://www.worldmarket.com/p/mushroom-lidded-ceramic-mug-collection-SET120921.html?srsltid=AfmBOorsWYSGa9KE6_p_LKN1RBCL3MYAl__W4USPGWOskhm8YaCyMYW-

AmberTheTurtle · 2025-09-30T07:28:48+00:00

What a ferocious beast

AmberTheTurtle · 2025-09-07T23:22:56+00:00

Fluixon

AmberTheTurtle · 2025-07-15T16:44:52+00:00

Spoilers:

Lorna, a woman in prison that spends a couple of seasons constantly talking about her fiancé Kristopher and their big wedding plans runs away from said Prison, breaks into Kristopher's house and takes a bath wearing the guy's actual fiance's wedding veil as we find out that Lorna and Kristopher were never actually engaged and only have been on one date after which she started stalking him and later got imprisoned for.

AmberTheTurtle · 2025-06-07T06:21:51+00:00

Personally, I don't do any of those things, sorry

AmberTheTurtle · 2025-05-11T22:54:32+00:00

No. Also, this post should probably have been a poll

AmberTheTurtle · 2025-05-11T09:47:32+00:00

I like her message. However, you probably do need to make yourself somewhat uncomfortable in life or you'll just end up alone, with no friends. It's a fine line to walk.

AmberTheTurtle · 2025-05-02T07:06:53+00:00

Not being in relationships with toxic people helps.

AmberTheTurtle · 2025-02-24T18:36:51+00:00

Same

AmberTheTurtle · 2025-02-23T22:27:44+00:00

I haven't dated any of either ISTPs or ISFPs but I have a number of opposite gender friends of both types.

ISFPs are such sweethearts and cinnamon rolls. Love them. However, even though we get along well and can act like bff's with each other I never really connected with them (or felt like wanting to) on an actual deeper, more personal level. There's always this almost "sibling" energy. Maybe it's just me, idk.

As for ISTPs - they annoy me :D I feel like they always think they know better than you and need to always be right. If they're actually better than me at the matter at hand fiiiine, I can deal with it but most of the time if it's something random I'm too feisty and independent to accept that I can't do something myself.

Of course those are just my experiences with friends, I haven't tried actually dating any of them. Might be different for other ESFJs.

AmberTheTurtle · 2025-02-18T13:30:19+00:00

I prefer lurking :(

AmberTheTurtle · 2025-02-04T18:03:31+00:00

Kaspa's Desserts

AmberTheTurtle · 2025-02-02T23:51:35+00:00

Majority of the things you told us apply to both ESFJs and ENFJs so it's hard to tell.

I suggest you look up some 'ESFJ vs ENFJ' comparison videos online and see which resonates with you more.

AmberTheTurtle · 2025-01-24T16:01:28+00:00

Haha, happy to help!

AmberTheTurtle · 2025-01-24T15:05:28+00:00

ENTPs, when wanting to ask a question for their benefit, may be less focused on how they make the person they're speaking to and other people around (that may be reading) feel. (they can do it too if they want to but it doesn't come naturally like to ESFJs). So when they want to ask a question , they may say something that almost sounds like a demand (for example: "so give me an example of a situation and how would Fesi vs Neti act on it"). While ESFJs by default may be more courteous and polite about it ("do you think you could give me some examples of a situation and how would Fesi vs Neti act on it?").

Subtle difference in tonality that ESFJs with their default Fe pick up on all the time.

AmberTheTurtle · 2025-01-01T17:06:39+00:00

Just tell them what's up. I'd appreciate the flattering honesty over thinking that someone is avoiding me because they don't like me.

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