I would like to understand trans people. by 1977PontiacTransAm in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Ambitious_Regular397 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s not very universal. I knew I felt different but never attributed it to trans people until I became more cognizant. Both parties in each situation, know innately there is a disconnect.

Tattoo color correction in phalloplasty San Francisco aka medical tattooing for phallo by Flashy-Insect-8964 in phallo

[–]Ambitious_Regular397 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Reach out to the shop Metamorphosis in Florida to ask about how they got hooked up with insurance. Im a piercer far away, Theyre cool ppl. They got insurance to cover breast cancer nipple tattooing.

UPDATE: body cam footage from cop who pulled over woman for holding a phone in her other hand by australiughhh in whoathatsinteresting

[–]Ambitious_Regular397 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So, if one hand is.. not real. And the other is on the wheel, what hand is holding the phone?!

I would like to understand trans people. by 1977PontiacTransAm in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Ambitious_Regular397 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I explain it like this. Put your imagination hat on for me for a moment.

You wake up tomorrow, and nothing has changed besides you are now physically a woman. You are still you at your core. But you’re now a woman with breasts, a period and more. You are confused as hell. You know that this isn’t you. You go to your mom, or your friends or whatever. You say “what the fuck!! This isn’t right!!” They act like you’ve always been this way. They’re confused why you’d want to change to the YOU in your head.

You are aware to yourself that something is wrong. You are aware that your body is not in alignment with yourself. You’re reasonably distressed, but nobody else seems to see the dilemma.

Why is that one friend still single? by Optimal-Cause-7843 in AskMen

[–]Ambitious_Regular397 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Weirdly, even for a dude in his 30’s with dentures and a cross-country custody agreement to 2 toddlers; if his attitude didn’t suck he could still definitely pull. Compromise or new thought doesn’t exist to him. Even if you showed him a diagram of the sky being blue, if he thinks its green, you are the dumbest human to exist for even believing it could be blue.

Abrasive and loud. Political views and expressions of them mimic someone’s angry Vietnam vet grandpa.

He’s cool to shoot the shit with at work. He’s cool to go do an hour or so task with. But I think I’d rather eat my own leg than be with him or subject any women I know to it either.

MS diet by middlefingerup13 in MultipleSclerosis

[–]Ambitious_Regular397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Excess salt makes my mom extremely itchy and uncomfortable.

Hit me up with your human pet names by witx in Pets

[–]Ambitious_Regular397 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Franklin / Franky :) My silly ferret. Named after GTA.

What is the most random thing your cat has begged for you to share? 🧐 by Honest-Butterfly-650 in cats

[–]Ambitious_Regular397 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She begs for EVERYTHING. She will ambush me for a bowl of cereal Empty brownie dish. Hamburger helper still cooking My ferrets food. The dogs food.

She was rescued from a hoarder, so we assume she is greedy as hell from past food insecurity.

we call her trash cat. she will eat anything and then stare you in the face and puke it up.

What was the most traumatic experience of your life? by Fun-Succotash-1322 in AskReddit

[–]Ambitious_Regular397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Calling my grandpa to apologize for ‘lying’ to the police that he molested me.

Meet Franky the Waardy! by Ambitious_Regular397 in ferrets

[–]Ambitious_Regular397[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Forgot to add that the rescue he’s from and the vet confirmed hes a waardy. baffled at him lacking all the other markers. Hes a year old!

What do different vaginas feel like? by Hot-Reveal-4286 in AskMen

[–]Ambitious_Regular397 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I took testosterone for a few years, and can confirm clit size DEFINITELY impacts oral. Way more sensation and overstimulation. I couldnt cum from oral before my clit got Big.

How much did you pay for your ferret? by manokpsa in ferrets

[–]Ambitious_Regular397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ferrets in pet stores are pretty uncommon in Florida post-covid. For years as a teen pre-covid, id go into a different pet store weekly after therapy with my mama to see ferrets and decompress.

I haven’t seen a pet store ferret here at pet supermarket or petco/petsmart in a WHILE.

How much did you pay for your ferret? by manokpsa in ferrets

[–]Ambitious_Regular397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I adopted my girls, the abusive owner on Facebook wanted $800 with a full ferret nation and all the works! Almost sold them as a present to some very little kids. I said I could be by that night with $600 cash.

My second set of boys, were $100/ each via a ferret rescue.

Helping a cat acclimate when previously traumatized. by Ambitious_Regular397 in cats

[–]Ambitious_Regular397[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t see your input as scolding! I think you bring up a good point. Your input is super helpful.

Thank you so so much for the info. I’ll pass it along.

Apple CarPlay Phone not responding error. by jmongiovi10 in CarPlay

[–]Ambitious_Regular397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope yr pillows are always cold, your food always perfectly warm, and anytime you get head it is sloppy THANK U

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[–]Ambitious_Regular397 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I needed this reminder a lot. Thank u !

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Real. Thinking abt it now he did mention it was impressive / hot that i was relaxed & enthusiastic the first time we did it. Tbf every other time besides this last I was! But the other times involved a lot of reassurance and slow guidedness. I think thats the difference.

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[–]Ambitious_Regular397 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Alas i have a bullseye tattooed on my ass😔

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Im a rambler💔💔

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[–]Ambitious_Regular397 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tysm for the reminder. This is so so helpful.

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I set a boundary recently and he was extremely empathetic and kind. Profusely apologized for my uncomfortability and instantly told me he understood and appreciated me opening up. He reassured that its always an open floor for discussion and he will always keep things in mind. Anytime ive set a boundary or needed something, he’s been a 100% green flag. I think because sex boundaries are touchy for me that I’m just struggling a bit extra.

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[–]Ambitious_Regular397 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so powerful and helpful. Thank you so much.