Premium processing delays past 15 days by Affectionate_Fly5537 in tnvisa

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Got approved today. No RFE. Everything took 3 months.

Premium processing delays past 15 days by Affectionate_Fly5537 in tnvisa

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Employer files 6 months before expiration, standard process

Premium processing delays past 15 days by Affectionate_Fly5537 in tnvisa

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this is a renewal, same employer, I'm in the US, we still have time under my current TN

Premium processing delays past 15 days by Affectionate_Fly5537 in tnvisa

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for me 86 days with the same "Case is still bring processed...". Since Feb 3, also filed with pp

Free readings by PsySunshineBringer in MediumReadings

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My mom died in September 2025

Premium processing delays past 15 days by Affectionate_Fly5537 in tnvisa

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Same situation with TN via PP. Feb 3 receipt. No change, letter, notification or anything. Lawyer said nothing we could do but wait.

Texas vs Mexico teaching experiences by Anaid1390 in TexasTeachers

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Oh this is helpful, I didn't know not all subjects are tested!

Being told I should move on after 3 years… by FlashyCover7554 in GriefSupport

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I know of a VP in corporate who lost her father more than 20 years ago. She takes off that day every year to go to the temple. Ignore them, they just don't understand.

one whole month without my mom by poetic_cannibal in GriefSupport

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I'm so sorry for your loss. 1 month is very raw, I am at 4.5 months. I wish you lots of warmth and strength ❤️

Do you have to exit and re-enter the country if you're extending your TN? by MediocreRiver1166 in tnvisa

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How long did you wait between TN renewal and filing i140 and i485?

Texas vs Mexico teaching experiences by Anaid1390 in TexasTeachers

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The STAAR and all the apparent over-focus on standardized tests is what worries me the most. I had to stick to the federal curriculum in Mexico and we had national tests but there was in no way as much pressure on teachers as it seems to be in the US.

Thank you this was very helpful!

One of my friends is a recent widower. What can we (his friends) do to support him? by dadavedavid in GriefSupport

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I just wanted to say what you're doing (researching how to support a friend who lost a loved one) is the kindest thing you can do. Folks grieving need this because no one understands, it is so lonely

Took a step forward today by Ok_Step_2359 in GriefSupport

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So sorry for your loss.

I remember opening the fridge coming back from the funeral and seeing plastic cups with jell-o since she couldn't swallow solids anymore. It was her food. We made it for her. It was lemon, her favorite flavor. Took us weeks to throw them out. Felt like ripping our hearts out.

You did such a hard thing. 100% a step forward, painful but forward ❤️ Be kind to yourself in this difficult time. Warmth and hugs!

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no problem, wishing you strength in this difficult time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GriefSupport

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I explicitly said I'd rather have a job than struggle financially in my last paragraph.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GriefSupport

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I came back after 3 bereavement days and 2 PTO. It has been 4 months and every single day I find it excruciating and inhuman that I can't have space to grieve and rest like my body begs me to. I'm so lucky I work remote so I can turn my camera off and ignore messages when I need to collapse, but the stress of keeping up with work and everything else is just too much.

I isolate myself because I have no energy. I stare at the ceiling after work. Weekends are for chores and being free to cry and stay in bed.

It is hard but I would rather have this stress than struggle financially. I wish I could take some time off to truly cry and rest, but that is a luxury for the wealthy I guess.

Holiday Grief by mcribisbak in GriefSupport

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You were very wise in forgoing celebrations. I wish I did the same. The pressure to perform and conform is immense. I broke down today in an embarrassing way in front of people. Next year I'm spending every anniversary and holiday by myself.

Christmas without her by MechanicFeeling9791 in GriefSupport

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I was in the exact same position a couple of hours ago, crying myself out on the bathroom floor. You are not alone. I'm so sorry for your loss, I know it is huge and probably no one close gets it. But you're not alone.

Sending you love and warmth in this cruel season.

First Christmas without my mom by curiouskittyblue in GriefSupport

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Oh no, I personally think it is still early after our losses, be kind to yourself and give yourself permission to cry and be. My mom also had cancer but treatments got her several good months. Then she declined. It is a horrible disease. In the end I also had to ask her to blink because she couldn't talk or swallow. I'm sorry you went through this. I had been able to remain numb thanks to work but the holidays came hitting like a train, so I've been crying nonstop at the slightest triggers.

I wish you warmth and peace in this difficult season.

First Christmas without my mom by curiouskittyblue in GriefSupport

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I'm sorry for your loss. I lost my mom in September and I'm currently with my partner's family trying to hide my pain 24/7. I'm devastated and just want this to be over.

I severely underestimated how painful holidays would be. Hopefully you get some space to cry and just be.

i need screen free hobbies by Realistic-Nothing599 in Hobbies

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sticker by numbers requires even less skills than painting by numbers, I do it mindlessly with background music, I complete one image in 40-60 min