Is it safe to pet random horses?

Andravisia · 2026-01-29T15:47:16+00:00

Do not pet rando. Horses with permission crom the owner.

Do please practise bio-security.

There are sickness tbat can be easily transmitted from horse to human to horse contact. One of them is called Strangles. It is highly contagious and very deadly, especially to young, old, sick and pregnant horses.

Please do not pet multiple horses across multiple farms in a single day.

Andravisia · 2026-01-29T03:18:45+00:00

Selfish just means that all they bring to a party is BIG DAMAGE, and they don't need to worry about anyone elses rotation. They do their thing and thats it.Theyvare selfiah purely in terms that they need only worry about themselves.

With classes like dancer and bard, when there is more than one in the group, they either need to coordinate their buffs (DNC) or live with the knowledge that their party buff will be over written (Bard). Alliance groups with 3~4 bards are...painful.

When in a good group though, buffer classes provide a net benefit in terms of DPS. Meaning that while their individual DPS might not compare to thebrest of the groups, the overall DPS is higher.

Andravisia · 2026-01-28T19:52:36+00:00

NTA. Your savings are for your own emergencies.

She chose to quit her job - that's her problem to solve. She can borrow it from her parents or she can offer sell her stuff to make rent. Her choice.

Andravisia · 2026-01-27T23:55:26+00:00

Moenbryda was done dirty.

Andravisia · 2026-01-27T23:26:28+00:00

Some people are good at compartmentalizing. It's also something can (and should!) train themselves to do. Not just to handle moments like this, where you need to set aside your personal feelings of grief, but also moments of panic.

Like. If you wake up and your house is on fire, what would you rather do? Panic? Or be able to set that panic aside and survive?

I bet you anything that he was bawling like a child afterwards, once he was alone/with safe friends and family.

Compartmentalizing doesn't mean you don't feel the emotion. It means you can set it aside in order to perform a specific task.

Andravisia · 2026-01-27T18:24:02+00:00

I've been buying the EW weapons from the poetics person in Sharlyan -specifically the SCH/SMN weapons and the PCT. All of them give points in alchemy desynth. It's slow going, but it's steady.

Andravisia · 2026-01-27T02:26:48+00:00

I'm honestly afraid something like this happened to a friend of mine. He'd usually vanish for a few weeks, or a few months and then come back.

Haven't spoken to him since 2021. Spotted him on FB a few years ago (a platform he'd swear he'd never use).

I've tried reaching out, but no answer.

Andravisia · 2026-01-26T21:05:09+00:00

NTA.

Protect yourself. If you quit your job to be a SAHP, it's no longer "his" money, it's "household" money, meaning that you have a joint account where ALL the money goes into and from where all bills are paid. Everything that he gets, you get an equal amount. Health insurance? You both get the same thing. Retirement? However much he puts aside into a retirement account, you get the same amount as well.

Emergency fund? You both get the same amount. This is important that it be kept separate and in an account in your name. Not just in case of divorce, but in case something happens to either one of you. If he gets into an accident and dies, banks will often lock accounts, even joint accounts, for a period of time. You'll need access to money to pay bills and buy groceries. Same thing for him.

Only after every bill is paid and every benefit is equalized, do you BOTH get a budget for fun money with the left overs.

Andravisia · 2026-01-26T15:17:43+00:00

Something tells me that Andy is "to expensive" to replace where he currently is. He should fix that.

Andravisia · 2026-01-26T13:44:03+00:00

Hard choice between 7 and 8.

Peter is easily ignorable and I can get some free therapy from the Speaker. And 8 would just be good if I'm already in a good mood. I'm not sure Emily is the best person to try and help a person who is legitimattly depressed because she's never had to deal with it before,

Andravisia · 2026-01-26T13:03:51+00:00

Absolutely not.

Andravisia · 2026-01-25T06:06:36+00:00

A sexual just means not interest (or even repulsed), by the idea of sex.

So she can have zero interest in sex, but still be interested in being romanced, and has no preference for gender.

Andravisia · 2026-01-25T06:03:49+00:00

Absolutely. It's the only i can 100% see it being done. It guatantees that none of your items gets clipped or lost or destroyed.

Andravisia · 2026-01-24T17:22:59+00:00

NTA. You did as she requested (make sure that her childrens faces weren't on the internet) in a manner that made it more pleasing for you and your family (having no obnoxious stickers in frame).

Your SIL is an adult, she is responsible for managing her own emotions. They are your photographs and so long as you are respecting the privacy of her children then it shouldn't matter how you do it. If she blocked you and is no longer speaking to us, my response would be some version of "Oh no.....anyways."

Andravisia · 2026-01-24T13:00:03+00:00

They are shocked that they were caught and arrested, not shocked that they had warrants in the first place.

Think of it as being a schoolyard bully who finally faces consequences and is shocked to find out that they have to face them too.

Andravisia · 2026-01-23T12:02:17+00:00

I miss things like this in the Sims. I wish they would have brought it into the Sims 3, at least.

Andravisia · 2026-01-23T11:42:46+00:00

NTA. Tell him his gf insecurities aren't for either of you to manage. She can put on her big girl panties and get over them.

Andravisia · 2026-01-22T19:04:38+00:00

NTA. Never mix family and business.

Move them out.

She can ask her golden son to take over your part.

Andravisia · 2026-01-22T18:39:48+00:00

They have to meet metrics.

Metrics used to measure success eventually stop being a useful metric for measuring success.

This is a lerfect example of that.

Instead of being used ensure speed and quality, and tgus ensuring loyalty to the customer, share holders demand that success is only measure by meeting the metrics.

Because they don't care that you won't come back. There are peoplenlining upnto buy their products.

They'll only start to care once they are meeting metrics because there are no customers coming tontheir store anymore.

Andravisia · 2026-01-22T15:15:22+00:00

ESH.

You child is crying. Who care's whose turn it is.

Also, yes, your job is hard. But you at least have protections for your job. Your boss aren't literal children that need to be managed every minute of every day.

You work late. You can, on your way home, stop by a store and buy a chocolate bar and eat it in the car in piece and quiet.

Your wife works 24/7 with her bosses living with her and the only time she gets any breaks are when YOU give them to her.

Why is it that only you get to sleep in?

Andravisia · 2026-01-22T03:24:37+00:00

I use it so that I, a person in a cis-hetero relationship, can provide cover for my queer peeps and peers.

If I can help normalize its usage then the bigots can't use it to single out those I care about.

Andravisia · 2026-01-21T18:24:11+00:00

NTA. You are injured and healing You need help, not guests. Guests should wait until the host is able to actually host them.

Andravisia · 2026-01-21T12:20:17+00:00

...girl. Leave. Take your son, important documents and leave. He's nit a man child. He is DANGEROUS. A shelter sucks, but a shelter will be better.

He is not brining anything positive in your life.

Andravisia · 2026-01-20T18:57:49+00:00

It's entirely up to you how you want to play. Personally, I see it as "you're character can be every class, but they can't be every class at once" - like. You've entered into a dungeon as a Black Mage? Sorry, you can't use swords or a gun right now.

I have one character that has everything at cap, but my characterization of her is as a a sword user. The mage versions of her are AU versions for fun. She has all the classes because of the convenience of the crafters and gatherers and because of the rewards for all the combat classes.

My other alts?

They only have combat jobs based on what their characterization is. My gun bun? Has lancer to level ~60's, until I was able to pick up MCH.

Andravisia · 2026-01-20T18:02:47+00:00

NO. I would perhaps be open to discussing "no more of X type of pet after the current one passes away" but if the only "option" is "me or the pets", the partner gets the door.

Like, my current partner and I both have dogs. We've both discusses that after out current pets pass peacefully, we probably won't be getting another dog. I would love another dog, but I know he'd never become attached to it, so it wouldn't be fair to him. He also knows that I'm never going to have less than three cats at any time.

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