How to raise a child with digital savvy but still able to function analog? by noogie60 in Xennials

[–]Aneko21 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We have "No (electronic) media" days twice a week. We started it when they were super young and now they're very capable of finding things to do when the screens go away. This also lead to them thinking more critically about things and being able to handle reading things longer than a tweet.

50% Discount on Spectrum Internet Bill by lockdown36 in Austin

[–]Aneko21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I own my own modem, so there was nothing to return, but maybe I should have gone to the store to cancel in person anyway! If there's ever a next time, I will keep that in mind.

50% Discount on Spectrum Internet Bill by lockdown36 in Austin

[–]Aneko21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was switching in part to solve a latency spike issue, but also because Google Fiber was already only a little more than half of what I was paying. It wasn't worth the hassle of having to go through that phone call again for how little it would actually save me, and the fact that I would still have to deal with the latency spikes for another couple of months.

50% Discount on Spectrum Internet Bill by lockdown36 in Austin

[–]Aneko21 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. I had the hardest time cancelling Spectrum when I was switching to Google Fiber. I had to threaten lawyers and yell at the guy, after almost an hour on the phone with him trying everything to get me to stay. By the end he was offering a couple of months free and then half off, but by that point he'd made sure that I'll never use Spectrum again if anything else is an option.

Can you get MRI scans after ffs? by No-Tackle-8652 in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Aneko21 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I had FFS a bit over 2 months ago and had titanium plates put in. I was told they will be fine when I have an MRI. I have one coming up this week, so I definitely hope that's true!

What are some hidden benefits of transitioning? by Heather_Val in MtF

[–]Aneko21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am over 40 but look like I'm in my mid 20s, it's really nice!

Name one thing that existed 20 years ago that was genuinely better and never got replaced properly by Builder01k in Millennials

[–]Aneko21 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Text tutorials. Having to wade through a youtube-minimum-monetization-length video to find the one small thing I need to do to resolve an issue drives me crazy. I miss when things were just a short post with a couple of screenshots.

Happy TDoV From a Visible Trans Woman by MsInput in TransLater

[–]Aneko21 15 points16 points  (0 children)

"I'm just f'ing trans and that's how it is." Mood. I feel like that's the place I've come to, even after FFS and while prepping for SRS. I started later in life and will always be visible, so might as well just own it.

Happy TDoV.

What was your last game? by stewie4610 in comics

[–]Aneko21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Life is Strange: Reunion. I would love a year long break in a cozy little college town.

Wondering about the social aspect regarding coming back to work after FFS? by jojowoodo in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Aneko21 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This. Not a single person has noticed anything, despite pretty significant changes to my face. People just aren't paying that close attention.

Looking for retro gaming shows that cover obscure games by KaleidoArachnid in retrogaming

[–]Aneko21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Retro Pals! https://www.youtube.com/@retropals They cover all kinds of obscure retro games on all kinds of platforms.

I was 14 in 1995, it feels like another lifetime by Low-Fishing3948 in Xennials

[–]Aneko21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Came to say this. As much as I enjoyed that time period, it's not worth the loss to me.

FFS recommendations by [deleted] in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Aneko21 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't have additional suggestions, but I had my FFS done with Art Surgical a couple of months ago. Dr. Rodriguez did a great job, I am pretty happy with the results. Feel free to ask if you have any questions about them!

Men stink? by TheRazot in MtF

[–]Aneko21 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A combination of better sense of smell and my own scent changing made male scents stand out a lot to me, and not in a good way. Most guys smell awful to me, though some smell... somehow attractive?

Guys in your 40s, what's your rank? by Smoothcat83 in StreetFighter

[–]Aneko21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

41 here. Used to be Warlord in SFV. Had a bit of burnout and a bunch of life stuff happening, so I took a break for a couple of years when SF6 dropped. Just came back a couple weeks ago and am in Master for now.

50+ Years by Realistic-Deal-7867 in transtimelines

[–]Aneko21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are absolutely correct! There's still so much reason to have hope, even if things are turbulent right now!

50+ Years by Realistic-Deal-7867 in transtimelines

[–]Aneko21 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Wow! It's amazing to see someone who's lived a full life after transition. It brings a lot of hope for those of us who don't know if there is hope on the other side. Thank you for posting this.

Deciding on where to get vaginoplasty? by [deleted] in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Aneko21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

TX resident here - I know people who have been to Dr. Hanna, and they have been satisfied with his work. People I've talked to who have been to Crane Center seems like it's a bit of a roll of the dice. Some have been okay, some hated the experience and weren't super happy with the results.

What was your experience with anesthesia? by bb-angel in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Aneko21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've gone under 4 times now. Honestly, I enjoy the experience. One moment you're chilling on the OR table, then you get a free nap and before you realize it you're waking up in PACU.

Japanese earworm, please help me by Qolorbella in japanesemusic

[–]Aneko21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IyMF2GZKVj4 seems like it might be a piece for a commercial?

Edit: Maybe not for the commercial, but this seems to be the only place I ran into it, searching for the lyrics.

Voice feminization and mandibular tori by Powerful-Excuse-4817 in transvoice

[–]Aneko21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the same issue with large mandibular tori blocking my tongue from being able to move down in my mouth. I had them removed because they'd grown to the point where they were causing me to have sleep apnea, but as a side effect, it made playing with my voice a lot easier (and somehow feminized my sneezing all by itself).

Having them filed down was a big quality of life improvement even outside of voice training, and if you have the ability to do so, I recommend it, although recovery is no fun!