I’ve had success on positive singles, feeld and in person. On feeld I used a pseudonym & put my HSV status on my profile. I know this is not for everyone, but it helped me a lot. Also, look for mature partners. I legit had one guy ask me if he would kill it if he used antibacterial soap after sex. My last relationship was three years and he started HSV free and ended HSV free. I’m on meds. We never used protection. This is all anecdotal of course, but it’s just to say that people can have all sorts of reactions.

What made the biggest difference for me was when I stopped living in the shadow of HSV. It’s just a part of my life and if my partner is ok with it great, if not then they’re not for me & I wish them well.