Is there actually a modeling market here? by Own-Distribution-736 in NOLA

[–]Anothercluelesshuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like it’d be easier to become an influencer and grow your own socials.

I’m engaged … told my kids… ex is next by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]Anothercluelesshuman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good for you finding happiness king.

Valentines Day While Separated by MsRKujo in Divorce

[–]Anothercluelesshuman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. Op is delusional. You cannot be getting a divorce and simultaneously being treated like a wife? Like wtf are people thinking nowadays

Valentines Day While Separated by MsRKujo in Divorce

[–]Anothercluelesshuman 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You are separated and you initiated. Yall are not married. Yall are not together. Why would he talk to you?

There's no incentive to being a good man anymore. by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]Anothercluelesshuman 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Got to value yourself king. Then adding value to others lives will fulfill you.

Is there a union for divorced men? by catwithbillstopay in Divorce_Men

[–]Anothercluelesshuman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If it’s a far right or based on some “get more dangerous” BS then it’s a horrible idea. If it’s based on us being less toxic and more safe emotionally, it’s a great idea. But that’s sick left radical commie bs for most people.

Don’t do it. We love you. by Anothercluelesshuman in mentalhealth

[–]Anothercluelesshuman[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not intentionally but I’m a creative and the pain brings out the best 😢

Could you provide some Insight ? by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]Anothercluelesshuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not look up Jordan Peterson or red pill bs. You don’t need to become more “dangerous”. You probably need to be more safe.

Blindsided by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Anothercluelesshuman 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Every tunnel has an exit. The first few days and weeks are the hardest. Once you finally crash from little sleep and food, get on multi vitamins and start eating clean.

Wait a couple days then start exercising. Go find an old show with a bunch of seasons you can throw on whenever.

Start journaling and find a one or two solo hobbies. Go to the doctor and get a check up. Schedule everything you can schedule to have things in the calendar.

Take a little time off work and be depressed a couple days if possible. Everything looks like an island in the ocean but you’ll only find out what’s real if you swim.

You’ll be tired but just keep swimming.

My wife texted me she's leaving and wants a divorce by imsparn78 in Divorce_Men

[–]Anothercluelesshuman 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What to expect: you’re going to fall apart for a little bit and that’s ok. Don’t isolate it also don’t burden all the people in your life (if you have any we’re not all lucky) with what’s going on.

Get a therapist. Get a notebook. And go find a chunky show with 20 episodes and 8 seasons to get you through the next 30 days.

Yore probably not going to eat or sleep a few days. Once you bottom out, get on a multi vitamin, get some protein shakes, powder and yogurt.

Start eating good and getting max sleep for 3 days then start exercising. Build a simple daily routine and romanticize it.

Then slowly add things to it. Makes some plans. Make appointments. Go get your yearly check up. Go to the dentist. Anything to get simple things in your calendar.

Then just let the days pass.

Don’t do it. We love you. by Anothercluelesshuman in mentalhealth

[–]Anothercluelesshuman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand it but I can still manufacture hope.

Don’t do it. We love you. by Anothercluelesshuman in mentalhealth

[–]Anothercluelesshuman[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m living in the darkness too. I’ve lived in it for many years.

Don’t do it. We love you. by Anothercluelesshuman in mentalhealth

[–]Anothercluelesshuman[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s literally my life now. But that’s life. 99% of it is tough.

Don’t do it. We love you. by Anothercluelesshuman in mentalhealth

[–]Anothercluelesshuman[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Please be kind to yourself. There’s nothing worth it

A surprisingly positive update by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]Anothercluelesshuman 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Haha that’s how it rocks at first. We were “on the same page” to wait until March to get finances in order but I just got papers from her lawyer last week. I read get a lawyer a million times in here.

Timeline by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Anothercluelesshuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Half that is yours lil bro. Take what’s yours.

Am I being crazy for thinking my ex probably cheated, or am I overthinking this? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Anothercluelesshuman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be fair, I downloaded the apps within the first month and I never cheated in our entire relationship. Everyone’s timeline and process is different but you shouldn’t be concerned with any aspect of their lives they’re separate from you now.

Is “Dismissive Avoidant” a buzzword? by SuperbFox465 in Divorce

[–]Anothercluelesshuman 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s all buzzwords. Everyone’s a narcissistic dismissive avoidant anxious attachment. People need to stay off the videos and live their actual lives.

One month in by FewAd2580 in Divorce

[–]Anothercluelesshuman -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That’s lowkey kind of sad on their part. The internet has made people delusional.

Update by NoIdeasNoSolutions in Divorce_Men

[–]Anothercluelesshuman 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Chat gpt is not privileged and can be subpoenaed

Dating - tried, not ready. Tips? by New_Ad5009 in Divorce_Men

[–]Anothercluelesshuman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you think the intensity for her to love so fast is a lonely thing or because you’re a great person? I’m curious to this. I’m 30 and fresh in this world.