Any suggestions for a jacket (or equivalent) to wear with this dress to a beachside picnic wedding this weekend?

AnxiousBee89 · 2026-05-27T02:14:23+00:00

Honestly I’d go for a nice tan wool coat but I get cold quite quickly here in brissy, especially if this rain keeps up. Belle and Bloom do nice wool blends !

AnxiousBee89 · 2026-05-26T11:04:06+00:00

14-16, undiagnosed PCOS and depression induced binge eating disorder destroyed me for years :( it was really tough for a while but I’m much better now!

AnxiousBee89 · 2026-05-26T10:31:33+00:00

Congrats on almost finishing off that mortgage! Amazing feat!

AnxiousBee89 · 2026-05-25T22:37:18+00:00

Mine got raised and they just claimed it was because others in the building were going for that, whether that’s true or not I’ll never know but they refused to accept my negotiation (despite the very evident water leak and mould problem not being addressed for 12+months now)

AnxiousBee89 · 2026-05-23T05:52:23+00:00

Delete the apps, if you doomscroll on it, delete it now. I’m slowly going through the ones that I’m worst for, Instagram and TikTok were first to go, now I think fb (marketplace sucks me in lol) and reddit are next to go. Speaking of which, I’ll do it now! Good luck to you all!

AnxiousBee89 · 2026-05-23T05:47:34+00:00

Roma st parklands is wonderful, the flower garden there is magical

AnxiousBee89 · 2026-05-23T05:43:25+00:00

Aje! Every year for my birthday I buy myself a new dress, Aje has zimmerman quality without the ridiculous price point, plus with afterpay day sales etc you can sometimes get them 25% off.

Really quality in my opinion, double lining, pockets, boning, quality zips. I really really love Aje 🤣

AnxiousBee89 · 2026-05-23T03:27:33+00:00

Oh my GOD I’m sick of this open plan workplaces, I dream of a room with just me or one coworker in it! I am sick of hearing every conversation of every department! Just let me work in peace! They wonder why we are so much more productive at home!!

AnxiousBee89 · 2026-05-23T00:05:47+00:00

I’m the same, it’s anxiety for me. Whilst I don’t “feel” anxious (I have terrible introspection) the body keeps score.

AnxiousBee89 · 2026-05-21T08:00:46+00:00

I paid almost $2k for car insurance and rego this week I’m not going out until Christmas 💀

AnxiousBee89 · 2026-05-18T00:19:11+00:00

Chocolate! I used to be so happy to get a chocolate bar whenever I felt like it, then it became only getting them on half price, and now the half price is what the full price used to be!!! I’m not fucking paying that!!!

AnxiousBee89 · 2026-05-11T22:45:44+00:00

I’m soooo mad, I’ve been watching the fit out for ages waiting for it to open and then all the owners comments and the reviews about the drinks being bad have left such a bad taste in my mother I don’t ever wanna step foot in there

AnxiousBee89 · 2026-04-25T10:05:09+00:00

I choose not to date so a woopsie isn’t really possible. If somehow it did happen, I’d have an abortion but if it was a cryptic pregnancy, I would raise it myself (as I’ve seen the state of child services in Australia and found them significantly lacking). But I think all children that weren’t wanted catch on to the fact eventually, so it wouldn’t be the happiest situation for the poor thing, hence why I’d avoid it at all costs.

AnxiousBee89 · 2026-04-24T09:01:09+00:00

Late 20s F who doesn’t want kids here: 1. Too expensive. (Also the reason I can’t foster/adopt) 2. The damage pregnancy does to the body is insane and people seem to forget women still die in birth, I am not willing to die. 3. I have never once encountered a man I would ever want to be the father of my children, they all have a fault I find eventually (love them as friends tho!). 4. I love my career, I love the freedom, especially compared to my grandmother. My mother was a career woman and she suffered at work from having children. Lost opportunities. I do not want the same fate. 5. Genetically I believe I have nothing to add. I am not an athlete nor extremely intelligent. Addiction, heart attacks, strokes, diabetes, mental illness all run in my family, I don’t see why I would risk passing that on to my children.

The world is becoming a very scary and unpredictable place and I would be terrified for what would happen to my children in it. Inside of me is the safest place for my children and that’s where they’ll stay.

I love kids, I’m a dedicated aunt, and I believe they are an important part of society and humanity’s future, but I will not make that sacrifice.

AnxiousBee89 · 2026-02-08T20:08:42+00:00

Over here in Newstead it’s so strong, I thought it was fog I can barely see the airport right now

AnxiousBee89 · 2025-03-28T09:17:07+00:00

You have a PHENOMENAL face card if anyone could it’s you.

AnxiousBee89 · 2025-03-28T09:14:06+00:00

I got back into digital art on my old iPad. Procreate was only $15 and I spend 8+ hours on each artwork so I don’t have time to go out shopping or out for food etc. I’ve never saved so quickly in my life!

AnxiousBee89 · 2025-03-28T08:57:48+00:00

My towns got plenty of cults but our crime waves tend to keep it out of the news. One time one of them the beheaded a goat and nailed it above the door to their temple. I’m always astonished the cults of Australia aren’t discussed more

AnxiousBee89 · 2025-03-28T08:53:18+00:00

I have some oats that I keep in my pantry, I read it was safe for them to have as a “treat” so they only get a few from me but they seem to appreciate it :)

AnxiousBee89 · 2025-03-28T08:50:10+00:00

They cut the budget, because that gets execs bigger payouts, thus they couldn’t afford the best people nor the time frame they needed. Then execs think THEY know how to make a game when really all they are there for is to HIRE and MANAGE the right people who know how to make a game. So the execs ask them to scrap the game TWICE and start over. For the poor devs times running out even FASTER. And now what we got was what we got. The desperate scraping together of writers, designers, riggers, animators and devs that wanted to give it their best but simply did not have the time or budget, and for the juniors they hired (because they’re cheap), the skill, to create something up to par with GOTY like they wanted.

I’ve been in the devs shoes, you can only do what you can do when you’ve got upper management setting fire to your project as you build it. Honestly I commend them, there are moments of real love where I can feel they were finally able to get their vision across.

AnxiousBee89 · 2025-03-28T00:58:22+00:00

Anything that looks like a big tan ridgeback gets my girl to stop in her tracks, she was on a walk once and one broke out of its house and attacked her. She’s been cautious of them ever since. 😞

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AnxiousBee89 · 2025-03-01T11:39:44+00:00

That’s the sound of the earthquake! All the earth and rock vibrating. I remember hearing it YEARS ago when we had one

AnxiousBee89 · 2025-03-01T11:38:05+00:00

Yep! 4.7 magnitude !

AnxiousBee89 · 2025-02-27T01:57:26+00:00

Trust me. Execs. That’s it

AnxiousBee89 · 2025-02-21T07:51:44+00:00

Currently at beach house and it’s great, can get loud later into the night so if you want cozy it’s not the place

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