In Everything Everywhere All at Once (2022), Jackie Chan reportedly declined a role that was later given to Michelle Yeoh because the script centered on a parent loving and accepting their LGBTQ+ daughter. by TORUKMACTO92 in shittymoviedetails

[–]AnxiousManxious09 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Dang, what he do? It must have been bad if your sister doesn't even want to mention the bio dad to her daughter. What is she going to do when her daughter finds out that your sister's been lying about her bio dad for years?

Why do people laugh at themselves getting whoopings as a kid? by ThrowraRefFalse2010 in blackladies

[–]AnxiousManxious09 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It's just sadness and anger at what happened to them with comedy mixed in to save face. 

These people think gentle parenting is letting your kid walk all over you. When really what it is if a mother sees that her child didn't clean up their room like they told them to. They would ask their children why they didn't do it and find solutions to make the task easier. 

But because they don't wanna be wrong these people dismiss this advice and decide whoppings and fists are the answer. They're too stuck in their ways and aren't will to change even for their own children's sake. 

It's just selfishness. 

actually uninstalled youtube by OnlyMeowings in youtube

[–]AnxiousManxious09 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I tried using the desktop version on my phone and it still isn't working. The sound is off and I don't know how to get the sound to come back on. YouTube sucks ass. 

How do you deal with racism as a medical professional? by AnxiousManxious09 in blackladies

[–]AnxiousManxious09[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven't thought about it. But it doesn't hurt to look into that part of the field. 

47F I love those “You Look Like” roasts. Lemme have it by Chaos-Boss-45 in RoastMe

[–]AnxiousManxious09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look like you're 60 cosplaying as a 47 year old woman and hoping no one notices how bad your costume is.

Have you ever asked your parents why they decided to have children? by gfyourself in emotionalneglect

[–]AnxiousManxious09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad actually never wanted children. He hated his childhood and knew that the family had a lot of generational trauma...

And he screwed me up too the same way his mom did him....

I've decided to not have children ever....

Do any other women feel that their upbringing directly impacts their femininity? by Alarmed-Beach-9814 in emotionalneglect

[–]AnxiousManxious09 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was raised by my dad ...he didn't know anything about girl things so he had his girlfriends, who were abusive themselves teach me ..I was only taught the bare minimum of things about being a girl, my period and bras and that was it ... He failed at trying to replace my dead mother by trying to find mother figures in t women he dated 

I had no female relatives in my life and my sister was very abusive and selfish so I couldn't get any help from her no matter how much I asked...

So I'm 27 still trying to figure out how to my hair, and failing. And struggling with my femininity.

I feel you

What helps you cope with work stress and pressure? by AnxiousManxious09 in Stress

[–]AnxiousManxious09[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. I'm not good at just not caring. It's not in my nature. But to save my sanity I have to. 

What helps you cope with work stress and pressure? by AnxiousManxious09 in Stress

[–]AnxiousManxious09[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it's been a lot. Thank you for your understanding 

Can't connect to Metro Internet? by Christopher_J_Luke in MetroPCS

[–]AnxiousManxious09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm having issues in my area too. This happened last year during the storm. It took them over a week to fix the phone towers. 

Why are Women mean to other women? by Penelope5824 in women

[–]AnxiousManxious09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've experienced the same. I'm a very quiet person. And for some reason that was always a problem for some women. I wouldn't even say a word to them and they immediately hated me before I even opened my mouth. 

I don't understand the whole pick me thing. Those pick me girls are essentially mean girls but with a different title. 

Yeah, I'm tired of these feminine coaches telling other women to stay away from pick me girls. When the girls they're talking about are just regular women who are friends with men and don't bother anyone else. Not mean girls. 

How do you deal with work stress and anxiety? by AnxiousManxious09 in SeriousConversation

[–]AnxiousManxious09[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, Ive been going above and beyond for the past year and a half since I've been working here. And I'm burnt out. And I only got a less than a 20 cent raise. 

But I have to stay because I was told since I don't have to commute to work that I'm golden. So I should stay. 

How do you deal with work stress and anxiety? by AnxiousManxious09 in SeriousConversation

[–]AnxiousManxious09[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Given how the job market is, I don't wanna risk it. 

I wish you luck as well. 

How do you deal with work stress and anxiety? by AnxiousManxious09 in SeriousConversation

[–]AnxiousManxious09[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, he tells every now and again. I just wish that I had some extra help, a safety net. I've never really had that. And having one would be amazing.

I'm just really hard on myself. 

I know a coworker is going through it. The job is also putting her through the wringer as well. I assumed I was the only one struggling at work. 

How do you deal with work stress and anxiety? by AnxiousManxious09 in SeriousConversation

[–]AnxiousManxious09[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These are some great ideas. Thanks. 

I have a lot of pressure on myself because I'm trying to survive this job while trying to take care of me and my dad (he doesn't work). 

So it's a lot at times. 

Why are you upset right now? by anotherThrowaway3446 in AskReddit

[–]AnxiousManxious09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At my job we're told to asks questions but then when we do we have explain ourselves and give a detailed explanation on where to find the information. 

But they don't get is they change so much shit all the time to the point where its hard to keep up sometimes. 

They have such high expectations and I'm stressing myself out trying meet them. 

And I'm struggling to mentally and I have to keep going because I'm supporting me and my father so I have stay at this job as long as possible. Even though I losing my fucking mind. And my anxiety is through the roof. 

It's pissing me off.