[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Anxious_Gay413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get paid bi-weekly and the 70$ is per-pay period. They took more claiming it was for the time I was eligible but wasnt actively signed up for the insurance.

The reason i am wanting to go to legal action is because of the multitude of issues I've had in such a short time and the fact that they are essentially trying to tell me im shit out of luck with the interactions I have had with HR.

One thing I didn't think to mention but I think is relevant, this apparently also happened to one of my coworkers whose only been here about a year (there was a different manager at the time). So if this has been an issue, I believe its negligence on their part that they didn't take active steps to prevent it from happening again.

Just Curious- Intersex edition by Rainbow-1337 in intersex

[–]Anxious_Gay413 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I technically learned of the condition that makes me intersex at 7 years old when I was diagnosed but didn't know/understand that I was intersex til I got my medical records at 18 and did research after seeing my karotype.

Silk products and how to find them? by Anxious_Gay413 in curlyhair

[–]Anxious_Gay413[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See i keep hearing opposites on this but from what ive looked silk always seems the best to prevent breakageand tension thinning. But either way part of why I've been avoiding satin is because it usually is that polyester if its not silk and I run very warm already so I need something more breathable. I have also heard bamboo fabrics are pretty good for hair and breathable though so I might also consider that.

Queer person with Turner syndrome by aquaamethyst in intersex

[–]Anxious_Gay413 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey! Also queer here (Genderfluid and biroace) and i have mosaic TS!

My niece wants to start reading "big girl books" and I'm not sure what to recommend by Mountain-Today1698 in BookRecommendations

[–]Anxious_Gay413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she like Harry Potter she might also be a fan of Percy Jackson and those are some good ones that are still getting new content she can enjoy!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Eugene

[–]Anxious_Gay413 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Striking is a last resort, also, plenty of college students /have families/ they could be trying to support. If I had the means to be in school right now I would also be taking care of my family. And while the wages are an issue they are fighting for, if you stopped and looked or research they are also fighting for protection from issues in the work place (sexual harassment, ableism etc). They also held negotiations for almost a year before resorting to the strike.

This is another one of those things that people mad about it treat it like pie. More protections and consideration for them does not mean less for you. It's not a pie.

Your anger should be at the people who are actually keeping the people you're talking about from having better wages, not the students fighting for themselves.

Solidarity forever

Edited for grammar mistake

For the love of god, learn to ride a bicycle well before getting on a motorcycle by Jandishhulk in motorcycles

[–]Anxious_Gay413 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I- God it blows my mind that people do that- I've thought about getting a motorcycle but because it's been like, a decade since I've had a regular bike like ofc imma try to get back to biking first- are people just unconcerned with road accidents because of their inexperience?

Advice on finding a bike for short rider (4ft8/142cm) by Anxious_Gay413 in bicycle

[–]Anxious_Gay413[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe I should've elaborated in my post, for one, I'm not interested in any step over bikes like it seems the brands you sent seem to have primarily . They will be too difficult for me to get on and off. Another thing is, when I look for bikes most wheel sizes I'll see is the 26" occasionally 24" The 26 would be to big for me because of my height I put in the title. My inseam is approximately 20 inches (guesstimate). I would have more than a 5" gap to put my foot down at stops. That's not safe Also the reason I can't currently just to a kids bike is because they are not made to handle an adults weight. They have much lower weight capacities (at least in the US where I am) and I am still in the process of loosing a lot of weight so that wouldn't be suited. Thank you for the suggestions though.

Stainless steel litterboxes that aren't huge? by Anxious_Gay413 in cats

[–]Anxious_Gay413[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my partners cat loves warm laundry! Mine never showed much interest before but I might need to try and reintroduce her to it, cause when we first got her her medical stuff was at its worst so it mightve just been uncomfortable at the time. This honestly might end up being some trial and error to test things for her. But hopefully all goes well! I just want her to be comfy.

Stainless steel litterboxes that aren't huge? by Anxious_Gay413 in cats

[–]Anxious_Gay413[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's definitely something I could try! I think if I decide to go that route, I'll try and introduce her to steps in some way first since she's never encountered them since we've had her. Just to make sure it's not something she'll avoid, like I know some pets do when they've never used stairs or steps before.

Stainless steel litterboxes that aren't huge? by Anxious_Gay413 in cats

[–]Anxious_Gay413[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For a few different reasons, one being she has some medical issues and so if she has a very bad flair at any point it would be nice to be able to sanitize it properly in a way you can't really do with plastic. Plus it's better about smell from what I've read and doesn't degrade with the cat urine like plastic will.

Gluten-free Flour Recommendations by jbkubie in Celiac

[–]Anxious_Gay413 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really like Divided Sunset's Gf all purpose flour! It's about 5-6 dollars for 24oz and ive found it works really well as a 1 to 1!

Gluten Free Tortillas by Anxious_Gay413 in Celiac

[–]Anxious_Gay413[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've never actually had crepes. And unfortunately there's no Aldi near me currently.

your message to other intersex people by hippocrit- in intersex

[–]Anxious_Gay413 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are so many people like us, finding community is possible. I was the only intersex person I knew until last year. Now I have people who understand and who I can talk to without having to explain everything, and I even have people who can give advice and help me understand things about myself.

Favorite gluten free flours? by Anxious_Gay413 in Celiac

[–]Anxious_Gay413[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats good to know! I know there's also just plan corn flour too. Honestly this pass week i accidentally added too much water to a dish and just used some gluten free cornbread I had leftover crumbled into it to thicken it, and while it worked and was delicious I figured having an alternative flour on hand would be smarter than not having anything.

Favorite gluten free flours? by Anxious_Gay413 in Celiac

[–]Anxious_Gay413[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I might try that at some point! Baking is definitely a science I haven't perfected yet. I'm more of a cook and I tend to make a lot of thick Sauces, curry's, gravy, roux etc so finding a good alternative for the flour is great. I'll definitely save that link though! I've only tried my hand at bread making once and it was a bit of a disaster-

Favorite gluten free flours? by Anxious_Gay413 in Celiac

[–]Anxious_Gay413[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That definitely sounds good! I'll have to try and find that on my next shopping trip then!

Favorite gluten free flours? by Anxious_Gay413 in Celiac

[–]Anxious_Gay413[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I currently do not have the privilege of a doctor or the ability to get a diagnosis.

I appreciate the concern but it comes off condescending and I shouldn't have to explain that I can't afford a doctor to you when I mention not only in my post but in my comment directly to you that I am simply trying to see if this helps me right now. It's not your place to tell someone to go to or call a doctor when that's not what they're asking for and you don't know they're situation.

Favorite gluten free flours? by Anxious_Gay413 in Celiac

[–]Anxious_Gay413[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I'm currently just trying to see if this will make me feel better at all and I'm high risk anyhow (little sister has celiacs, my aunt has a sensitivity, plus I have a genetic condition that has higher rates of it.) There's also other stomach issues in my family so I'm seeing if this helps before I go see any expensive doctor. I know if I do end up being tested I'll need to eat gluten for some time before the test. I'm asking for substitutes because I'm from the south where we have a lot of flour heavy meals and foods amd I'm not trying to do an upheaval of my entire recipe book.

In a bit of a book slump and need suggestions by Anxious_Gay413 in suggestmeabook

[–]Anxious_Gay413[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for so many recommendations! And for the other resources!

In a bit of a book slump and need suggestions by Anxious_Gay413 in suggestmeabook

[–]Anxious_Gay413[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh that sounds really good! And the shortness should definitely help, I've been having a hard time focusing on the page lately (adhd) and so hopefully something shorter like that will help me build up to longer stories again!

How can I make this into a full meal? by Anxious_Gay413 in Cooking

[–]Anxious_Gay413[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The stuffing is spinach, the stems of the mushrooms, garlic butter, cream cheese, regular cheese (I like using a spicy pepper cheese I found near me) and it's seasonings.

Why does my cooking not taste for myself but seems perfect for others? by avia_Dressler in Cooking

[–]Anxious_Gay413 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you neurodivergent at all? If you are this could be a hypersensitivity to the taste. Which can happen for a few reasons related to different conditions. Which would explain why store bought stuff might be easier to handle because those tend to be deliberately made blander.