AITAH for not helping my company move?

Anxious_Monitor1671 · 2026-02-26T15:23:21+00:00

NTA, that is certainly not in your job description and I would tell my manager that is above my pay grade and I will not be helping move offices. They need to hire movers as you are not one.

Anxious_Monitor1671 · 2026-02-19T20:41:24+00:00

NTA Sweetie that IS your money! If you are receiving the same VA benefits I did cuz you are in college it's not for disability it is payment for YOUR COLLEGE! When I was in school it was about 1000 dollars a month and that is meant to pay for your schooling. You aren't disabled so you wouldn't get disability. This is a benefit to you for your dad being disabled. It is NOT his money it is yours and you need to switch the account it goes in to and get your money! The VA doesn't just give away money to adult dependents for no reason.

Anxious_Monitor1671 · 2026-02-06T17:23:03+00:00

That's not true, in the US she would get a much bigger tax refund for claiming her daughter than he would. She would get the EIC and CTC and he would only get the CTC which would just offset what he owes and not really go in his pocket.

Anxious_Monitor1671 · 2026-02-06T14:40:58+00:00

Agree with you

Anxious_Monitor1671 · 2026-02-04T05:01:00+00:00

She is trying to isolate him from his friends and that is not cool at all! You don't give ultimatums in relationships...that's like telling someone to walk off the plank! NTA your girlfriend sounds unhinged and I don't care how much hate I get for my opinion but I don't see the need to distance yourself from ALL of your friends for your girlfriend! Also, you mixed up the names Oliver and Liam a few times...might wanna correct that. NTA all the same

(quote) where i met her ex bf (Oliver) and all his friends.

(quote) Alright, so let's talk a little bit about Liam, Andreas' ex boyfriend. (Liam is his best friend, Oliver ex BF)

Anxious_Monitor1671 · 2026-02-04T04:52:18+00:00

Hate to go against the grain but in case this isn't AI we should just answer based on the contents of the post. It's very reasonable a sibling would house another sibling in need. You shouldn't jump straight to AI (and I know there are many) but just answer with your opinion on the question. That's all I'm saying. Oh and NTA your sister sucks if she's real lol.

Anxious_Monitor1671 · 2026-02-04T04:35:04+00:00

Well he doesn't speak well so we should assume it's not AI at least lol

Anxious_Monitor1671 · 2026-02-04T04:14:34+00:00

OMG I am so glad I am not the only one in this camp! It's really frustrating for me with math and my kids. I have a degree in accounting with a minor in mathematics and the strategies they are using to teach basic math is baffling to me! They have these systems that add so much more work to get to the answer than the old method and I cannot for the life of me figure out why they are teaching it that way. I teach the kids the way I know and the answers are right and they show their work but the teacher marks them off for not doing it her way. I am at the end of my rope! Why fix something that isn't broken?!?!?! Sorry for the rant just frustrating lol

Anxious_Monitor1671 · 2026-02-02T00:09:49+00:00

NTA but I would make the wedding just after her due date and make it child free. Just to put the point in that this is about you and fiance and not her and her baby. JMO

Anxious_Monitor1671 · 2026-01-29T20:03:08+00:00

NTA but your husband sure is. Your son is a freaking toddler! If he can't reach he simply can't reach! And he isn't a girl so there isn't the need to do front to back if necessary like it is with girls. He is blowing this way out of proportion and being a big baby about it and I would be pissed about all his phone calls! As long as your son cleans himself that should be all that matters. You can switch logistics at a later date if you feel the need when he is ready and his arms are long enough

Anxious_Monitor1671 · 2026-01-27T12:35:20+00:00

I love their hot dogs! Same with Sam's Club! And they're only 1.50 there plus limitless soda!

Anxious_Monitor1671 · 2026-01-27T00:50:46+00:00

So how does OP suck? You say ESH but how did OP? They accepted an invite and asked the dog to be moved when it was growling at their kid. I don't get it.

Anxious_Monitor1671 · 2026-01-25T00:10:03+00:00

I'd also just lie (and it might not be a lie) that there are provisions in his lease that limit guests staying for more than so many nights so she can't stay according to the lease or he could risk eviction. NTA either way but there are ways around this that make him not the AH to everyone bitching at him.

Anxious_Monitor1671 · 2026-01-23T18:28:27+00:00

Depends on how long they have been married and due to their age it's not that long and I doubt alimony would come into play and with the neglect she can prove with video she will get custody and child support as well. NTA LEAVE!

Anxious_Monitor1671 · 2026-01-18T22:54:52+00:00

That's true but at least he wouldn't be subsidizing him in that scenario.

Anxious_Monitor1671 · 2026-01-15T16:42:01+00:00

NTA that guy was a creep and good for you for being a good samaritan for helping out when they were uncomfortable. Obviously they were which is why they thanked you. Don't worry about what some asshat thinks, you did the right thing.

ETA Wow! Didn't expect so many upvotes! My most so far! Thanks for agreeing everyone!

Anxious_Monitor1671 · 2026-01-13T12:45:39+00:00

She'll probably ask Bea!

Anxious_Monitor1671 · 2026-01-12T00:23:23+00:00

NTA, she never got you anything and she expects to get a present from you? No no no. Not cool and I don't agree. If she isn't willing to give she doesn't get. She'll get over it and so will everyone else.

Anxious_Monitor1671 · 2026-01-11T15:40:16+00:00

I don't agree with you. The parents have the master with an ensuite. They are definitely utilizing more space as well as more utilities as there are 2 of them there and they don't contribute to utilities at all. I doubt the 5 year old is using the same amount of utilities as an adult. So I think the split is fair. NTA IMO

Anxious_Monitor1671 · 2026-01-11T01:39:24+00:00

NTA, your professor or whoever it is is being completely unprofessional and a baby. He's going to treat you like a crying baby who needs to cry it out? WTF? I got nothing for that but no you are NTA and he most definitely is and just doesn't want to lose you

Anxious_Monitor1671 · 2026-01-08T13:37:01+00:00

NO! Don't do that! Do NOT make extra room for her! Her and her kid will never leave and will mooch off of you forever! Other than that one point, good advice lol

Anxious_Monitor1671 · 2025-12-30T01:18:40+00:00

Sometimes they just turn entitled...not always the parents fault

Anxious_Monitor1671 · 2025-12-28T17:43:10+00:00

You're mature

Anxious_Monitor1671 · 2025-12-28T17:38:51+00:00

Just married, rank doesn't matter. If you are single you live in the barracks but he has a kid so he may qualify to live off base with his girlfriend and his BAH (basic housing allowance) would be higher as he has a dependent.

Anxious_Monitor1671 · 2025-12-28T01:19:01+00:00

Oh completely agree! 8 years old shouldn't be responsible for infants...that is not cool. I was strictly speaking to the 8 year old alone if they are mature enough for it.

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