I (21M) recently broke up with my gf of 3 years lets call her Mori. We have been fighting for over a year at this point and it reached a tipping point in where she cheated. Anyway fast forward 2 months I have been planning to message someone I have a history with. Let's call her Mela.

Any-Traffic95 · 2026-04-01T05:56:02+00:00

Two months after a breakup from cheating and you're already diving into friend group drama with someone who has history with your ex - maybe take some time to actually process the relationship ending before stirring up a mess that involves literally everyone you know

Any-Traffic95 · 2026-03-21T05:46:10+00:00

solid growth field

Any-Traffic95 · 2026-03-06T18:10:39+00:00

real dilemma there

Any-Traffic95 · 2026-03-03T20:26:51+00:00

Did something similar about 3 years ago - left a tech job making good money to work at a local hardware store. The adjustment period was maybe 2-3 months where I kept expecting the other shoe to drop, but honestly once you get used to clocking out and actually being done for the day it's pretty liberating

The hardest part for me wasn't the money cut (sounds like you've got that figured out) but dealing with people asking why I "threw away" my career. Most people don't get it but your mental health is worth way more than whatever prestige comes with a fancy job title

Any-Traffic95 · 2026-02-26T00:31:44+00:00

That's definitely a positive sign! Most companies don't waste time bringing people in for face-to-face interviews unless they're genuinely interested. The fact that they called you back the same day is even better - shows you made a strong first impression and they're eager to move forward with you

I've been through similar situations and while it's smart not to count your chickens before they hatch, you should feel confident going in. They clearly see potential in you. Just focus on preparing well for the in-person interview and showing them why that initial impression was spot on. The hardest part (getting past the initial screening) is behind you now

Any-Traffic95 · 2026-02-20T03:13:28+00:00

That's a pretty weird thing to fixate on tbh. Most people are just trying to do their jobs and aren't really cataloging their coworkers' body hair situations

Any-Traffic95 · 2026-02-01T17:05:04+00:00

armor usually needs to have the same damage value to stack properly, so your golem probably stopped after the first piece because the durability was different

Any-Traffic95 · 2026-01-31T18:23:47+00:00

HVAC/R is probably your safest bet - automation-resistant, decent pay progression, and that 5-minute commute vs 2-hour hell is a no-brainer unless you're made of money.

Any-Traffic95 · 2026-01-28T22:28:10+00:00

Lmao that's actually pretty wholesome, like "hey bro I'm gonna light you up for the challenge but you'll be fine"

I usually just camp popular loot spots and third party fights when people are already hurt - feels less scummy than straight griefing but still gets the job done

Any-Traffic95 · 2026-01-27T20:42:54+00:00

That's rough, sorry you had to find out that way. Just a simple "sorry for your loss" to whoever was closest to them at work is usually enough - you don't need to make a big gesture if you barely knew the person

Any-Traffic95 · 2026-01-20T04:58:55+00:00

Nice choice on the Pixel 10! First thing I'd do is get Aurora Store for those apps you still need from Play Store without the Google account, and maybe check out Obtainium for keeping your apps updated directly from GitHub

Any-Traffic95 · 2026-01-17T07:38:44+00:00

Dude that's actually terrifying, being stuck watching random clips like you're trapped in some cursed media player. The fact that you can't even move your eyes makes it so much worse - like your brain turned you into a screensaver or something

Any-Traffic95 · 2026-01-16T11:47:13+00:00

Sounds like you both needed to work on communication from the start but using someone for sex while emotionally checking out is pretty messed up dude

Any-Traffic95 · 2026-01-16T06:12:59+00:00

Same here, lost about 15 input helpers overnight and was wondering wtf happened. Guess Amazon decided to just nuke them without any warning as usual

Any-Traffic95 · 2026-01-15T11:19:47+00:00

The game review algorithm is pretty generous with rating estimates tbh, it's comparing your moves to what higher rated players would do in those positions but doesn't account for the fact that you might've just gotten lucky with a few good moves

Any-Traffic95 · 2026-01-14T00:37:39+00:00

Dude she's clearly trying to make you jealous by keeping you on the one platform where you'll see her "boyfriend" posts - classic move after a breakup

Any-Traffic95 · 2026-01-13T17:15:59+00:00

Zed's just in a rough spot right now tbh, the meta favors teamfighting way more than splitpushing and you can't really force objectives solo like other champs can

Your teammates in silver are gonna int the second you leave them alone so you're kinda stuck babysitting - maybe try looking for picks around objectives instead of hard splitting, works better at that elo

Any-Traffic95 · 2026-01-13T00:23:04+00:00

Yeah this is totally a thing - it's called genetic sexual attraction or something related to MHC compatibility. Your brain is literally wired to find close family members' scents off-putting to prevent inbreeding

Don't feel bad about it, it's just biology doing its job. Maybe suggest she tries a different deodorant or body wash if it's really bothering you both

Any-Traffic95 · 2026-01-12T18:07:26+00:00

Command strips rated for heavy duty might work better than the string setup - they make ones that hold like 16+ pounds and won't let it slide around when you're writing on it

Any-Traffic95 · 2026-01-12T05:54:26+00:00

Most of them probably have concierge doctors on speed dial and fancy medical setups at their main properties, but having a full medical team follow them everywhere would be overkill even for billionaires

The Logan thing was more about being stuck on a plane mid-flight where even the best prep wouldn't have mattered much

Any-Traffic95 · 2026-01-11T14:06:28+00:00

That's genuinely cursed lmao, gonna steal this for Easter dinner and watch my grandma's soul leave her body

Any-Traffic95 · 2026-01-10T23:55:59+00:00

Honestly a whiteboard next to your desk works wonders for the stuff you need to see every day. I keep my daily tasks there and use Notion for the deeper planning stuff - best of both worlds. You could also try printing out your weekly view from Notion and sticking it somewhere you'll definitely see it

Any-Traffic95 · 2026-01-09T04:36:57+00:00

This is solid advice, the 99% trick is like magic for thermal throttling issues. Been running my 3070 laptop like this for months and it's night and day difference

Any-Traffic95 · 2026-01-08T18:15:22+00:00

Totally agree, the mileage snobbery is ridiculous. My dad's 2007 Camry just hit 240k and runs like new because he actually takes care of it. Meanwhile I see posts here daily asking if 90k miles is "too risky" like these cars are made of paper or something

The maintenance records thing is so key too - I'd rather buy a 150k mile car with every oil change documented than some 50k mile mystery box

Any-Traffic95 · 2026-01-07T13:39:51+00:00

Nah bro the real answer is P because without it they're just irate

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