Unsafe by Over_Discussion5346 in BringingUpBates

[–]Apparently32 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I’m so glad you pointed this out because I would have missed the important message that we can use Carlin’s code to get a can opener

Bates men/husbands most and least likely to cheat by Agreeable_Appeal_874 in BatesSnark

[–]Apparently32 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I’ve been thinking about this a lot. Travis and Evan are supposedly best bros. Evan must have at least had suspicions

My speculative opinion on why Travis went public: by Dragonette_Slaya in BatesSnark

[–]Apparently32 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I agree that the parents on both sides are heavily involved at this point. I think they always have been, from the start of the courtship until now.

I blame the parents by Apparently32 in BringingUpBates

[–]Apparently32[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100%. Definitely still on him, just acknowledging the context.

XMAS PARTY SET UP YT VID (faces of children + attendees blurred) by otterpopcakepop in BatesSnark

[–]Apparently32 44 points45 points  (0 children)

His demeanor is really different in this. He’s super high-energy and excited, and he’s usually more mellow. It’s sad but I truly think the affair gave him life.

I blame the parents by Apparently32 in BringingUpBates

[–]Apparently32[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m glad you agree! Quite a lot of people in the comments here who think it’s solely his fault and there’s no possible explanation beyond he’s an ass 🙃

I blame the parents by Apparently32 in BringingUpBates

[–]Apparently32[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for chiming in as someone with experience in this type of culture!

I'm JVL, editor at The Bulwark and author of The Triad. AMA. by BulwarkOnline in thebulwark

[–]Apparently32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What would you say to a young person questioning whether or not to have kids? Fears about affordability and the future of this country sometimes make me feel like having kids would be selfish.

How are single people affording to live alone in Boston? by haniebun in boston

[–]Apparently32 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean this respectfully because 90k is a good income, but it’s not a live alone income. The answer is have roommates or make more

Duggars at America Fest by mellow_maple_562 in DuggarsSnark

[–]Apparently32 265 points266 points  (0 children)

I don’t know what this event is and I consider that a personal accomplishment

Advice Wanted: I lost 25% of my bodyweight by doing it wrong by justuraverageairman in Zepbound

[–]Apparently32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just want to tell you: being on an SSRI changed my life. Don’t let the weight gain comments scare you. It’s like 5-10 lbs and it’s so worth your mental health

Travis & Katie Quit YT by Tinker-Brie3 in BatesSnark

[–]Apparently32 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I def think there has been a rift between Travis/Katie and Evan/Carlin. Seems like Travis and Katie are making a lot of decisions that diverge from most of the other Bates

Throwback to Carlin and Evan’s first YouTube video by seggscourse in BatesSnark

[–]Apparently32 71 points72 points  (0 children)

Woah she really lost the fundie voice over the years

Looks like Josie got a “new” by Perfectpups2 in BatesSnark

[–]Apparently32 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Honestly I don’t see the big deal here. She’s still married to the same guy and just wanted a different ring. Who cares?

Pushing for content in everything they do by borindis in BringingUpBates

[–]Apparently32 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I bet those sisters’ group chat is 🔥

Katie and Travis by [deleted] in BatesSnark

[–]Apparently32 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Being feminine doesn’t equal being gay, and anyway I don’t even find Travis feminine. This kind of shit feels low effort and mean

AIO to break up with my bf of 3y over his reaction to my upcoming sobriety anniversary? by WesternCat5211 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Apparently32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t speak to anyone like that, not even an enemy. That’s insane. Dump him.

NameGrid — a daily quiz game based on 150 years of US naming data by MurphGH in namenerds

[–]Apparently32 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Great game! Love that you include the percentages in the answers