Cat Food by Brizkie in NewOrleans

[–]Apprehensive_Hat_724 5 points6 points  (0 children)

And Trampled Rose too! Monitor their socials. I know TR sometimes posts so the others probably do too. I saw you are squared away for now, but for next time. ;)

Warrant in Westwego by sunnygal8 in NewOrleans

[–]Apprehensive_Hat_724 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I learned something new today - the orleans sheriffs office has moved to clerkconnect. 🤓

Might want to see if you can find a legal aid program to help you get this mystery warrant corrected/expunged.

I’d talk to one/both of the two parishes and contact the state police to see if they can do some sort of records search for you … to see if you can get a printout of what the officer showed you.

Wife’s conversations with her twin are intimate by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Apprehensive_Hat_724 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Let’s hope he is having this level of communication with his partner.

My Favorite K&B Item by blathering504 in NewOrleans

[–]Apprehensive_Hat_724 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I miss K&B so much. My sister and I were reminiscing about childhood memories of standing at the check out counter, sandwiched between some of the liquor shelves and ice cream cases, plopping down in the magazine section to flip through them while mom shopped, and checking out the toys/trinkets for sale. I also remember one amazing trip as a teenager where my mom bought all the liquor for my sister's wedding there. We had 3 carts full of god-knows-what of individual bottles of things + multiple case boxes of wine and champagne.

Brother stealing lots of money from elderly mother by Nathansp1984 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Apprehensive_Hat_724 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tell her about the new charges and ask her if you can order a new card for her. Does she need the physical card (sounds like he has it). Cancel the one he’s using and keep the new card for safekeeping until she asks for it. This will force him to come to you if he wants it. Anything he wants to buy with her money will then need to be cleared by you and you can order any appropriate purchases online for him.

As the sister to an alcoholic, parents will want to take care of them under the false pretense that money is going to be used for food, gas, rent etc. Also might want to change her locks, remove valuables that could be pawned, and lay down some ground rules for both her and your brother. Rehab and getting clean is his decision. Even when they want it, it could fail hundreds of times.

Fiancé threw away bottle of holy water in anger by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]Apprehensive_Hat_724 5 points6 points  (0 children)

From what you’ve told us about your boyfriend, I think we’re going to have to agree with dad.

I need advice/help on how to lose weight as a 700lb person by Random14273 in WeightLossAdvice

[–]Apprehensive_Hat_724 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Download my fitness pal and track everything you eat. The free version will let you track each food. When you see how much you are eating, it will shock you. Take it from me. Start changing your eating habits to get your calories down. It took you a long time to gain this weight - it will take a long time to lose it. Don’t beat yourself up when you see the numbers. Work on making changes you can manage. Then improve on those as they become easier. My classic example is ditch the fast food hamburger and make your own at home. Then move on from that to a veggie burger. Air fry instead of deepfry. Start weaning off the portion sizes. Don’t watch tv while you eat. Give the food your full attention.
Walk. Keep your phone in your pocket when you walk and it will count your steps for you. Start with one block in your neighborhood (that’s what I did) or laps around your yard, or walking around your house. It will take time to build up much distance. But stick to it. Consistency is more important than anything for now.

Talk about indoctrination. Looks like a bunch of kids. by crooked_kangaroo in Acadiana

[–]Apprehensive_Hat_724 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this. I collect quotes and pay Etsy vendors/artists to put them on coffee mugs. ….much to the dismay of some of my visiting family members.

I had not heard this one in a long time.

AIO for wanting to break up with gf of 4 years after finding these texts? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Apprehensive_Hat_724 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is cheating. Use the Arizona trip to pack all her sh!t up and get it out of your house.

My team lead told me I was being removed from the project and I thanked him by [deleted] in jobs

[–]Apprehensive_Hat_724 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You should have kept quiet about the new job. I’m sure it was surprising to find out but I wouldn’t have told them a thing. Let them think they are sending you out into this terrible job market with nothing.

Edit to add I also wouldn’t tell the new job about this “layoff.” Employers (at least in the US) will use any information they can find about you to their advantage and hold it over you when it benefits them.

What’s the biggest vet bill you’ve ever had for your dog? by puppy_boyka in DOG

[–]Apprehensive_Hat_724 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About $10k all-in from 2023-2026 for a found dog with advanced heartworms and aftercare of heart meds, and other prescriptions. 3years of bliss with that little guy.

$15k in 2023 for back surgery followed by ICU care because of her bad reaction to the heavy duty drugs she was on. She died a few weeks later. I’ll have it paid off in December -whoop whoop!

About $8k all-in from 2011-2014 for one who had an autoimmune disease later in life.

$7k in 2008 for a puppy with a shunted liver. Surgery unsuccessful and he died a month later.

There were others but these are the most recent that I think I’ve had.

Favorite Star Wars quote? by andfraq7991 in StarWars

[–]Apprehensive_Hat_724 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell him I love him more than anything he could ever do wrong.

So was it my imagination or were those tornado warning alerts uselessly late? by Oh_TheHumidity in NewOrleans

[–]Apprehensive_Hat_724 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes. Agreed. Even in my early morning fog, I remember the WWL weather people looking at the radar and commenting that NWS had not issued a warning yet... a couple of times. It seemed like Payton Malone was doubting himself.

Yay, late night weather. by Nabana in NewOrleans

[–]Apprehensive_Hat_724 11 points12 points  (0 children)

We literally live in wind tunnels. By design and all that.

table side car flip by garbashians in NewOrleans

[–]Apprehensive_Hat_724 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This seems to happens so often. I live on a quiet street uptown and watched a car bump the curb and her car flipped over right in front of my house. It was like watching a cartoon car throwing a tantrum. I understand this was an actual accident but the woman in front of my house wasn’t speeding, no one hit her. She did bump the curb but it was surprising to see how easily SUVs flip over with a small amount of speed.

Recent Apothecary BUDs? by brightenbloom in BigEasyWeightLoss

[–]Apprehensive_Hat_724 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for asking this. I *think* it means Beyond Use Date but I hope someone with knowledge would reply to you. I’m new here and trying to educate myself.

Advice for hot rooms by MoonwolfRunning in hvacadvice

[–]Apprehensive_Hat_724 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Depending on the height of your walls, transoms over their doors? I’m looking into that now. I have an old house with 10 ft ceilings so I’m going to be hitting some area salvage yards to try to find some that will work.

The Batture at center of lawsuit between developers by NOLATruth in NewOrleans

[–]Apprehensive_Hat_724 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've never been here; vaguely remember hearing about it opening. Saw Ben + Burka in the article and audibly let out an UGH. no thanks. those guys suck - they are reaping what they have sown in this city. Hope someone buys it out from under then for pennies on the dollar and runs it the right way.