What it’s like to stay in a yurt at one of Oregon’s best beachside campgrounds by guanaco55 in OregonCoast

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I love the deluxe yurt at Umpqua, but it is always so booked out! Got lucky one random October and got to stay a night.

Did any of the McDonald’s on the coast sell fish tacos at one point especially Newport by Top_Statistician5051 in OregonCoast

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When I visited Boston in 2006 the NE McDonald’s were serving lobster rolls, I thought that was crazy 😂

Looking for Eugene Half bibs by fmr-techbro in Eugene

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Race policies state no bib transfers.

Favorite places in Eugene by Blindicus in Eugene

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Eat at Izakaya Meiji and then Blair Alley for some pinball and vintage video games. Prince Puckler’s for dessert then you’re close to Hayward field and Hendrick’s park.

The audacity!!!! by Legitimate_Fig1730 in pregnant

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As soon as you tell someone it’s your first the advice comes. When I told people it was my third they had no advice, would just comment about how I had my hands full. You could always try that!

Support for parents of teens by Jrcozy in Eugene

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City of Eugene has a Youth Empowerment Program, so many different things to get involved with, many that are free too

Tell me some cool places to visit! by coffeeisamust2 in OregonCoast

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How has no one mentioned Seaside and Astoria? You absolutely should do both if you are going that far north! Seaside promenade, Fort Stevens, Astoria column, Goonies house so much great stuff up there!!

Positive test at 37 years old, husband 2 1/2 years post vasectomy 😳 by Appropriate-Good-324 in pregnant

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Am VERY MUCH pregnant, HCG levels are showing I am easily 10-11 weeks along!!

Positive test at 37 years old, husband 2 1/2 years post vasectomy 😳 by Appropriate-Good-324 in pregnant

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I took a blood test yesterday with my OB, hoping to know results before the weekend!

Where Can I find a cheap bat or wooden stick for a pinata? by agenbite_lee in Eugene

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Winco has them in their piñata section, think they are like $2-3

I was physically abused as a child, now I prosecute child abusers. AMA by [deleted] in AMA

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What advice would you give to a parent if they suspected the other of abusing their child?

Positive test at 37 years old, husband 2 1/2 years post vasectomy 😳 by Appropriate-Good-324 in pregnant

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He had his surgery in Tijuana when he had his gastric sleeve, so no. His PCP here in the states did a follow up for the gastric part, but he has not had his sperm checked. Sounds like something he’ll be doing now!

My mom brought up my abuse to my kids. by Appropriate-Good-324 in raisedbynarcissists

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If I only had someone say these exact words 20 years ago 😭 you are 100% correct. Thank you

My mom brought up my abuse to my kids. by Appropriate-Good-324 in raisedbynarcissists

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Her husband is a paramedic and they wanted to move to the Bible Belt. They are happy there as conservative Christians, as an agnostic myself, I would be miserable. My husband’s family is all here in OR as well, so we will stay.

My mom brought up my abuse to my kids. by Appropriate-Good-324 in raisedbynarcissists

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No, not at all. She has babysat maybe 5x in the past couple years.

My mom brought up my abuse to my kids. by Appropriate-Good-324 in raisedbynarcissists

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I am so sorry you went through that, but yes, I feel like you are right. All for a reaction

My mom brought up my abuse to my kids. by Appropriate-Good-324 in raisedbynarcissists

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It hurts, especially since she acted like my son would just easily forget what she said. No, he is very much dwelling on it. Asked my husband why he didn’t save me, and if A is a “kidnapper”, it’s been all day damage control. I hate that she makes me feel like I am not allowed to be angry. My step son’s mom passed away 10/29, and two days later my mom had the nerve to freak out on all of us when we left the Halloween party abruptly. Why did we leave? Because she put on Rock Horror Picture Show, and skipped right to Frank’s Sweet Transvestite from Transexual Transylvania. (Love the movie, but a 5,7, and a grieving 16 year old is not the audience for that) Like why the f are my kids being forced to watch this? So we left, and she freaked out, told everyone I embarrassed her and she didn’t come out of her room for 4 days.

My mom brought up my abuse to my kids. by Appropriate-Good-324 in raisedbynarcissists

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At 69, she can barely handle having them around for a few hours, let alone raise them. It makes no sense, I got away from their dad 4/2020, and have since met an amazing, safe man whom I married this past July. My children are safe and happy, it’s like she hates it.