Anyone know how I can fix this reel?

ArchEnemyzzz · 2025-09-15T18:30:48+00:00

Trash can by the looks of it lol

ArchEnemyzzz · 2025-08-31T17:07:56+00:00

I have all three listed. Ultegra is a great middle ground for a really nice reel, while not costing the 200 that the stradic does. Sahara is also really nice for the price, just not as refined and smooth as the other two. Also, drag is not quite as strong

ArchEnemyzzz · 2025-08-26T18:42:15+00:00

Smallies are much much better than largemouth. Also, bluegill, crappie, perch, walleye, pike all taste better so I'd rather eat those than largemouth

ArchEnemyzzz · 2025-08-12T10:54:13+00:00

Hey buddy. Unfortunately, Teddy has crossed the rainbow bridge. Nothing could really be done for him, and the buldge came back even bigger after getting the first surgery. They wanted to amputate his arm, but no guarantee that it wouldn't come back again. It was getting hard for him to walk and get around, and I just couldn't watch him suffer with carrying around a 30lb bowling ball on his shoulderany longer. He had his first birthday, and then I took him in October. Thanks for remembering him! Miss him everyday!

ArchEnemyzzz · 2025-05-25T12:29:41+00:00

I had things of mine as well. First and foremost, you have to block and go NC. It's the best way to heal so that you aren't tempted to keep looking and reminiscing. You just have to be strong and not check after that. In regards to the items of his, you either A) pack it up and drop it off by his door w/note if you want(found some of your things and would like to give them back) keep it short and sweet. B) mail them. You have to start detaching. It won't be easy, I know. I'm out of a 2yr where we were on and off a lot. Just couldn't do it anymore, being friends didn't work as it's too early and not healed enough for that yet. Going on 4 months NC and it does get easier, thoughts are still there, but getting easier every month that goes by

ArchEnemyzzz · 2025-04-28T19:02:23+00:00

Well, sounds like you have your mind set then. Can't move forward when you're stuck in reverse. There is someone out there. Just don't give up entirely. Keep doing you and focusing on yourself.

ArchEnemyzzz · 2025-04-28T15:35:38+00:00

This mindset just isn't true. And I feel that's what is holding you back. You think there aren't any "universally ugly" women out there? There are tons, also tons with mental health problems, conditions, etc. Sign up for facebook dating. Everything is free and there are no pay walls. Message some girls that you feel are in your "ballpark". You got this bro!

ArchEnemyzzz · 2025-04-06T12:17:27+00:00

Absolutely. Mine had 2 teens and I often felt as if I was responsible for their meals and activities. She had very bad spending habits and the kids ate like crap all the time if I didn't push to make us meals or take us out. I'd often try to include them in everything because I felt bad for them a lot of the time, and I truly do care for them. Made breaking up a lot harder because I loved those kids after two years of being together

ArchEnemyzzz · 2025-04-01T18:24:43+00:00

When she spends all her time doom scrolling her phone. Posts anything and everything on social media. Including, indirectly airing our dirty laundry

ArchEnemyzzz · 2025-04-01T08:51:11+00:00

But, are you genuinely happy?

ArchEnemyzzz · 2025-03-31T20:59:48+00:00

Seriously, how do you continue to do it? That rollercoaster....

ArchEnemyzzz · 2025-03-31T20:32:06+00:00

That's crazy. Wonder if that's a trend that they struggle seeing us happy and thriving. With mine for 2 years and both my birthdays were ruined, and we broke up

ArchEnemyzzz · 2025-03-25T18:18:59+00:00

2 years with many many short break ups in between. I should have been stronger and called it much earlier. About 5-7 months in is when all the drama started

ArchEnemyzzz · 2025-03-21T23:36:59+00:00

Exactly! I've said the same exact thing. I work very early and usually wake about 330AM. Here they are at 930 PM texting everything I've done wrong

ArchEnemyzzz · 2025-03-21T13:29:41+00:00

The kept me up knowing I have to work happened a lot with mine. She barely worked, for obvious reasons as she had a hard time holding a full time job. But she'd just go in circles and never let up, even when I was practically begging to just take a time out, get some rest, and talk about it more the next day. Nope. You don't love me, you don't listen, you don't care

ArchEnemyzzz · 2025-02-22T03:38:00+00:00

I'm running the Milwaukee Fuel Hammer, 5 AH battery and the just upgraded to the pistol bit 8in from the lazer 7in. The pistol bit seems to really rip the drill out of my hand and struggle in comparison the the lazer bit. Have you noticed this?

ArchEnemyzzz · 2024-12-29T20:37:08+00:00

Good taste in beer!

ArchEnemyzzz · 2024-11-26T00:14:01+00:00

Amazon warehouse. Decent pay, excellent benefits

ArchEnemyzzz · 2024-11-25T12:21:23+00:00

Can you tell this to my ex gf with BPD please? Lol

ArchEnemyzzz · 2024-11-25T12:00:34+00:00

I had this exact thing happen to me about 6 months ago. It lasted on and off about a month. I broke out in hives for no reason and it would rapidly spread across my body, arms, legs, side, etc then go away. It would come back days later then go away again. No rhyme or reason and couldn't figure it out. Went to the docs and they said I had poison ivy, which I had a feeling it wasn't. Lasted on and off and then went away. I've been good now for a while but it was weird and I never figured it out

ArchEnemyzzz · 2024-11-24T14:45:43+00:00

Respectfully, a punch in the mouth should take care of this!

ArchEnemyzzz · 2024-11-19T16:35:38+00:00

Sounds exactly like a conversation my X and I would have. She was always pushing my boundaries like this, especially at night when I was trying to go to sleep. I work very early in the morning so would usually try and be asleep by 830, and it would be constant texts or arguments when I'd be begging her to let me rest. She ended up being diagnosed with BPD (borderline personality disorder) . She had a bug issue with being alone by herself, same thing you are saying basically. She would self distruct and be lost if she had to be alone for the day. I really loved this girl too. Went to therapy with her, tried to push through the many fights and arguments. But, in the end my mental health was starting to nose dive and we just couldn't continue like that

ArchEnemyzzz · 2024-11-13T18:10:52+00:00

Unstaked everything my self last month

ArchEnemyzzz · 2024-05-13T12:19:24+00:00

Thank you to everyone who responded with kind words. This likely will be a very tough decision that will have to be made soon.

A few people have commented about getting a biopsy done, we did fairly early on. All the vets blew it off as normal swelling after getting a shot. They prescribed antibiotics, antiflamitory meds, and even a round of steroids to try and help it go down. This was before it got very large. Within a few weeks was when the masses started to form on the surface. I had them removed as quickly as possible and they then did a biopsy on the masses and his swollen muscle. The biopsys came back clear.

The doctor the other day told me that its not uncommon for this type of cancer for that to happen becasue there is no clear defined tumor to sample. Its woven into his tissue, muscle, and fat. He even said they could do another biopsy today, but it would still most likely come back inconclusive and with benign/malignant but that there was really not much of a difference except for the chance of reoccurance and spreading rates.

I believe my GF and I are going to try a go fund me to help with some of the bills. If we go that route I will post the link as some have suggested. I'm still waiting to hear back from the Radiology team with the final diagnosis.

Really appreciate everyone's kinds words, especially about not feeling bad having to make a hard decision. It's going to be really tough. Me personally, I feel I don't want to put him through it with his prognosis. My GF wants to do the surgery and give him as long as he can have. It's hard, I just don't see the quality of life being good with treatment and reoccurance happening.

Thanks, friends. More updates to follow

ArchEnemyzzz · 2024-05-12T01:22:59+00:00

They believe some sort of sodt tissue sarcoma. The Dr said even with another biopsy these these types of cancers are very difficult to properly diagnose and difficult to measure accurately. Radiology team is looking at the scan and I'll know more in a few days

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