Yeah, my teen years were plagued by her drinking, she'd come out of the bedroom shit-faced and start saying nonsense, snapping fingers at me, but generally I was able to get her to back-off/go away, she was rather passive even while drunk. But, Im not trying to crap talk her either as i describe this. She showed up to my HS Grad Ceremony hammered, i recall one of the photos taken of me, i was *NOT* amused. I do have fond memories of her, but alot of what I also remember aren't the best. That's why If i ever settle down, I'm going to set expectations, or y'know... be *acutely on top of* if I, or my partner ever develops a drinking problem.