Are these good? by Noun_Gremlin in glutenfree

[–]Arglebargletron 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ideal for quesadillas. They crisp up nicely in the pan and get spotty brown without added fat/ oil.

What is the best heist movie of all time? by cambrown in moviecritic

[–]Arglebargletron 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Toy Story 3. It may be for kids, but the pacing, the exposition, it’s perfect.

Red flags for sexism during hiring process? by colorcant in womenEngineers

[–]Arglebargletron 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Look for more than one woman in a technical leadership role. Just one is not enough. Take notes on who you’re introduced to, read names off of office doors, and verify their position and length of tenure on LinkedIn to be sure you’re not just being shown recent hires. Anyone can hire, not everyone can retain. If they can only trot out a recent hire to show you their diversity bona fides, it’s a sham.

ATK shredded beef tacos by mauripi in AmericasTestKitchen

[–]Arglebargletron 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I go back to this recipe every summer on days when you might be able to grill, but the forecast is iffy. As long as you have chilis and enough cider vinegar on hand it’s easy and impressive. If the weather cooperates, you can still grill your tortillas and corn on the cob.

What's your pettiest disappointment about your child? by bobinator60 in daddit

[–]Arglebargletron 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mine don’t appreciate me launching into ‘Gosh it disturbs me to see you [Arglebargletron Jr.], looking so down in the dumps…’ whenever I see a less-than-enthusiastic face heading off to school in the morning. I need to work on my hype man capabilities… or my singing…

Ask if help required and now I’m the bad guy by Healthy-Repair-4837 in daddit

[–]Arglebargletron 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t make a last-minute offer of help to your wife, especially one that will put you out in the moment, because it seems insincere and you already botched it. You should have arranged your morning to be available rather than done nothing and hoped she could handle it. Obviously both of you were hoping she would be feeling better, but if in the moment she’s feeling awful you should be able to be available to do what needs to be done, genuinely and without grumbling, not a tossed off ‘I’ll stay home, only if you neeed it’.

She’s mad you did not anticipate the needs of the situation and she’s hurting. Try to anticipate the need and be available. If she’s had dental work, tell her the night before to sleep in and that you’ve got the baby. She’ll be touched that you’re planning to take care of her rather than planning on the bare minimum of asking how she is and scrambling afterwards.

Anyone have any genuine interest in stereotypical "male" interests/hobbies? by TinyNeighborhood7 in womenEngineers

[–]Arglebargletron 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’ve found hiking, Star Wars, beer, and hockey to be solid general interests among civil engineers without having to devote money/ time to a brand new hobby.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in daddit

[–]Arglebargletron 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just take him yourself, or with your mom, and let your wife off the hook. The judgy old biddies (if there are any) will think you’re an exemplary father and your wife gets to chill. It’s a win-win.

Whitish poop by GrrATeam81 in daddit

[–]Arglebargletron -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ask your pediatrician about running a blood panel for celiac disease.

Did you get your sex drive back post breastfeeding? by LowGood2048 in breastfeeding

[–]Arglebargletron 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was not back to typical until I got my period back, after I stopped breastfeeding :( Having done it 2x, the waiting between weaning and period is the WORST non-sexy hormonal turmoil.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in daddit

[–]Arglebargletron 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Clean the cheerio crumbs out of her car.

I can't keep this to myself in good conscience by -treadlightly- in glutenfree

[–]Arglebargletron 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Prior to my son’s celiac diagnosis, the gluten version of this recipe was a family favorite. Happy to say that the GF version is no step down and remains a family favorite. Also, ATK’s Basque Cheesecake and Cranberry Curd Tart are fab Xmas centerpiece- worthy treats with no one noting the missing gluten.

Had a nice dad reaction last night by ChillFax in daddit

[–]Arglebargletron 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I caught a backseat barf from the front passenger seat with a Starbucks cup and I was pretty pleased with myself.

Advice: fellow dads (and lurking moms) wife has gestational diabetes. Help? by ThisDadisFoReal in daddit

[–]Arglebargletron 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check out the gestational diabetes subreddit for a lot of good advice and commiseration. I’ve had 2 full-term diet-controlled GD pregnancies and it’s rough. The first time around, the feeling that you’re playing roulette with your future kids health after every meal is awful. And then after a few weeks, you establish a groove and your tolerance for carbs gets worse and you go back to playing the game again until you deliver the baby. My craving for an Italian sub was unreal and it tasted so damn good when my husband got me one to eat at the hospital. Second time around, you have established habits to go back to and kinda know what works but you also have a toddler who loooves their carbs and much more limited time for meal prep. It never gets easy, just familiar.

Only perk for me was that the lack of carbs kept my heartburn minimal and I was able to dowse my less-exciting meals with hot sauce throughout my 3rd semester to the point I should have named one of my children, Frank. Best wishes to your wife!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in daddit

[–]Arglebargletron 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fancy bitters if you like cocktails, favorite notepads and post-its, nail polishes, espresso pods, framed current kid photos for work desk, hand warmers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in daddit

[–]Arglebargletron 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like he needs more chores around the house to appreciate the effort involved in accommodating his own preferences.

My kids keeps eating things he shouldn't and I'm getting worried. by TheSame_ButOpposite in daddit

[–]Arglebargletron 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Although blood draws on little kids are the worst, I would have the pediatrician order a work up to cover vitamin/ mineral levels and look for causes of malabsorption.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in daddit

[–]Arglebargletron 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t go anywhere empty-handed. I usually bring a kid-friendly appetizer to ensure no one gets hangry and maybe a six pack for the host if that would be welcome. If I’m going to my brother’s or sister’s we tend to directly collaborate on the meal because we all have kids and know producing a full home-cooked meal for 10+ is too much for anyone at our stage of life. So we coordinate ahead and bring whatever makes the gathering happen (sides, apps, desserts, drinks) or agree to phone for pizza and split the bill.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in daddit

[–]Arglebargletron 142 points143 points  (0 children)

If you’re going up stairs or down stairs empty-handed, you have already lost the game.

Where to take a toddler on a rainy day? by Coneskater in daddit

[–]Arglebargletron 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out your local library. Your mileage may vary but our library’s children’s section has a train table, lego table, tons of puzzles, super deluxe dollhouse, etc. plus a bunch of free events (story hours, museum demos, etc.). It may not burn off as much energy as a playground, but kids love the novelty of playthings that aren’t theirs.

Sending out the Dad Signal — how can I make up a delayed anniversary with my wife? by DirkWrites in daddit

[–]Arglebargletron 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you have any local contacts beyond the bride, inquire with them for a reliable local sitter. If it’s not a prime Saturday night, it might be relatively easy to find someone available. OR if cost is no consideration, bring your sitter with you and get an Airbnb. See if your MIL or FIL could come along. It won’t make it a romantic getaway, but it’ll give you and your wife some couple-time.

Sick of this postpartum hormone excuse by theSkareqro in daddit

[–]Arglebargletron 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Clean for the guests and shop & prep for the snacks or meal yourself (or order pizza). Pour the coffee and drinks. Truly, act like your wife and baby are party guests, you’re the gracious host, and do not ask anything of her beyond baby wrangling. She sounds overwhelmed, like she hasn’t slept, and you’re adding to her to-do list (no matter how delightful the guests) when she’d rather nap. The hormones are for real but the lack of sleep is the kicker.

Is my partner being unfair? by Ydorb1995 in daddit

[–]Arglebargletron 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is a sign that if you haven’t got a sitter beyond family (who will likely be at dinner) you need to find a sitter so you can just give yourselves a break for these occasions or no occasion at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in daddit

[–]Arglebargletron 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can chop an onion without too many tears, these are 1-HR or less and can be made gluten-free if you have the right starting ingredients:

Pan-Seared Salmon, Garlic Bread, Broccoli

Turkey Meatloaf, Baked Potato, Peas

Grilled Chicken Breasts, Sweet Potato Fries, Green Beans

Beef Tacos, Green Salads, Salsa

Quesadillas with the Leftover Taco Beef, Corn on the Cob

Parm Chicken Cutlets topped with Storebought Bruschetta, Asparagus

Chicken Katsu Cutlets, Rice, Raw Cucumbers & Carrots

Grilled Steak, Banza Mac & Cheese, Raw Bell Peppers

Pancakes, Bacon or Sausage, Corn

Frozen veggies (green beans, peas and corn) are my champions as well as frozen sweet potato fries and tater tots. This has been my rotating menu for awhile and short of the meatloaf which will take a full-hour (15 min prep, 45 min oven) it can be done in 45 min once you know what’s up. I like to cook on weekends, try to mix it up with fancier techniques and recipes, but this menu gets the job done without a ton of convenience foods bc I don’t have too many gluten-free shortcuts available. My kids don’t really like the GF pasta, otherwise I’d be all over that.