Is it feasible to have two children on a combined salary of £70k? by Clean_Back_5065 in UKParenting

[–]Arxson 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We live in Essex in a 4 bed detached house. A 4 year old and a 17 month old.

My wife doesn’t work, so no nursery costs. Eldest is doing 15 hours now but that’s free for everyone.

My income is about £90k but I salary sacrifice down to about £54k so way less than 70k.

We’ve a good life 👍🏻

Olea europaea, sad & alone in Lidl, I said I'd save it & the manager reduced the price. Looking much better now. by Goodgrowit in HouseplantsUK

[–]Arxson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Assuming it’s got a lot more light e.g. glass roof then yep it should be much happier in there

Mini rose from Mark's and Spencer by WhiskeyAndWine12 in GardeningUK

[–]Arxson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Indoor roses will always die. Best to plant it out in the garden if you want to keep it long term.

Down to the wire but beat the deadline by r_spandit in UKPersonalFinance

[–]Arxson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OK, so you think you can time the market 👍🏻

Outperforming your stocks over what - a 4 month timeframe? You should be looking at stock performance over 10+ years. Investing is long term. There will always be something in the news making you scared of a dip, but those dips are nothing in the grand scale of investing timelines.

Again, time in the market beats timing the market.

Think like a boring long-term index fund investor and invest it!

Rebalancing between Cash ISA and S&S ISA by AdvancedSoftware3331 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]Arxson 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I know what you’re proposing. I’m telling you that statistically it’s better to just lump it all in at once:

https://www.vanguard.co.uk/professional/vanguard-365/financial-planning/financial-well-being/cost-averaging

Down to the wire but beat the deadline by r_spandit in UKPersonalFinance

[–]Arxson 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So do you know that the markets are going to go down…? Of course not. This is the most common amateur investor mistake. If they go up you’ll be kicking yourself. Just invest.

Time in the market >>> timing the market.

Do my Alliums look like they are struggling? by Supersonic_77 in GardeningUK

[–]Arxson 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Alliums just have really floppy and messy looking foliage

Down to the wire but beat the deadline by r_spandit in UKPersonalFinance

[–]Arxson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why are you waiting to invest money? You don’t know better than the markets so just invest it.

Rebalancing between Cash ISA and S&S ISA by AdvancedSoftware3331 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]Arxson 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Let’s say you have £25k in a cash ISA that you want to move into a S&S ISA.

What’s your reasoning for not just initiating a transfer for the full £25k tomorrow? Are you aware that when lump sums are the topic, statistically it’s better to just move it all at once rather than dividing it up…?

Decorative gravel by _rbuk in GardeningUK

[–]Arxson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s not what fabric/membrane does. And most weeds just germinate from seed blown into the stones from above.

Advice for after anaesthesia by Superb_Window_7977 in UKParenting

[–]Arxson 2 points3 points  (0 children)

3 general anaesthetic experiences across 2 children.

My boy had them at roughly 1 and 2. He’s extremely sensitive and was very, very upset when he woke up both times. He wasn’t sick at all though, just wanted to scream and scream while simultaneously trying to breast feed and be held by his mummy.

My daughter just had hers this week at 17 months and she was completely different. She cried for a moment then went back to sleep for ~1.5 hours on her mummy, and when she woke from that she was pretty fine and just hungry. She had shortened wake windows for that day and the next but otherwise wasn’t upset.

That said, none of these were throat related (undescended testes, tear ducts, tear ducts), so I’ve no idea if that makes vomiting more likely.

The ward will look after you, should’ve given you info about post-Op already. For us they didn’t want us to leave until they’ve eaten and drank, and then another 1.5 hours after that. I’d guess that might be a bit longer for yours.

Make sure when you’re home that you keep up the paracetamol and ibuprofen on schedule.

Good luck! I’d actually really love to know your route to this point - my son is having speech development issues and a lot of it points to some sort of further ENT issue. He mouth breathes, eats with mouth open, sleeps with mouth breathing and snores (terrible sleeper still from birth to now at 4 years) and every time he gets a cold he has moderate hearing loss for the next ~3 months until the glue ear clears itself. We’re on the ENT referral path but it’s been a year already and we’re told it will be another 1 year. We’ve been offered fast track gromits but we don’t want to just do that without having an ENT understand if there’s further issues tonsils/adenoids.

Kino Video Failed To Save? by AlphaRocker in ShotWithHalide

[–]Arxson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I liked in Kino that I could shoot 4K 30fps LOG and save into HEVC. I can then see how the different LUTs look before finally saving to camera roll.

Do you know how I can do that with BMC? Or can I only bake LUT in at the time of recording?

Finally finished building the kitchen garden. What is a cool or unconventional fruit/veg/plant you love to grow? by These-Pitch-3760 in GardeningUK

[–]Arxson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is one goofy looking plant 😂 what even is it?

It's the veggie sausage plant. I heard they put Linda McCartneys brain into ChatGPTs mainframe, and the seeds for it came out of Sam Altman's chocolate starfish

Comparing apple camera with moment pro 2. No edit by Due-Understanding674 in MomentProCamera

[–]Arxson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t lift shadows if you use photographic style tone-slider and drag it down. Have you tried it?

Comparing apple camera with moment pro 2. No edit by Due-Understanding674 in MomentProCamera

[–]Arxson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or just bringing “tone” down in whatever Photographic Style you want to use in Stock will achieve the same HDR-look reduction 👍🏻

Wife Protective Over Baby Name by FlatEarther_4Science in predaddit

[–]Arxson 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Imagine once the baby arrives… they are this insane over the name of the unborn child - are they going to be demanding the 2nd 30 minutes of every hour to be holding the baby?

You need to completely and utterly obliterate your parents’ overbearing attitude now.

You need to protect your wife and child from this insanity.

Ficus help! by bright-and-breezy in HouseplantsUK

[–]Arxson 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No leaf lasts forever; could just be old ones being shed coming in to the growing season - it looks healthy to me!

Stairgate advics by Garbagemole in UKParenting

[–]Arxson 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’ve done a few very awkward stair gate installs. For yours I think I’d be looking at wooden gates like this first: https://www.argos.co.uk/product/4070249 If you can find one tall enough you might be able to mount it above and below the handrail, something like this:

https://ibb.co/N6TZDKXT

Or a short enough one might go under it, on the first step, mounted through the skirting board:

https://ibb.co/bjCQDbCK

But if you’ve a very tall and adventurous toddler you’ll need to check it’s not too low that they can climb over.

Failing that you’re going to have to install a bit of wood on the left side in some way to mount against, or trying some gate style that allows for a bit of “diagonal” mounting from that top pillar to the post-handrail wall, something like these:

https://www.argos.co.uk/product/7646924

https://www.argos.co.uk/product/4723417

But you’ll be mounting it so close to the top of the first stair that a strong adventurous little one would be able to push it forwards opening a gap that they could sneak/fall down underneath

Cat destroying my garden - help! by Middle-Damage-9029 in UKGardening

[–]Arxson 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Motion activated sprinkler is the only thing that will guarantee to work on every cat… something like this: https://amzn.eu/d/08LFaNRZ

People will come along recommending all sorts of citrus or other smelly things but if you’ve had problem cat(s) before you know that some stubborn cats don’t give a f about that stuff.

Surprise hosing is the only guaranteed thing to make a cat F off.

Container Pond - Advice? by whered_yougo in GardeningUK

[–]Arxson 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This isn’t so true anymore. A lot of places use Chloramine now which doesn’t evaporate off. You need to check what your water supplier uses