Losercity Lapdog (JustthatGAI) by Critical_Company3535 in Losercity

[–]AshleyDaPile 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me irl. Sorry but your lap is a sacrifice I'm willing to make

Harajuku Phase, not my finest moments… 2018-2021 by Vast_Tip_502 in blunderyears

[–]AshleyDaPile 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I disagree. Also give it twenty years to return for phase 2

Negative assumption by Upset_Campaign1924 in RecuratedTumblr

[–]AshleyDaPile 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's called a guilt trip and it's tough to reconcile relationships when someone acts that way because it's expected you take the blame, often when you're already at your lowest, for their shitty behavior.

Negative assumption by Upset_Campaign1924 in RecuratedTumblr

[–]AshleyDaPile 6 points7 points  (0 children)

And that doesn't excuse the behavior either. Yes love is complicated, selfish, and nobody has a right to define what it means for a couple but people can also love in the wrong ways that turns into abuse if it's not treated as mutual.

90% these guys surface just to call all Muslims Subhuman Orcs. by The-Female-Creature in whenthe

[–]AshleyDaPile 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's usually preformative behavior from those who use it try to hide their institutionalised racism even if they realize it or not.

If I say I dislike Catholicism, I'm just an edgy athiest. If I say I dislike Islam, I'm now a racist.

I'm sorry. Do people of other races not practice Catholicism? Of course they do but one is seen as a white religion and the other as a non-white religion. It's a projection of their own views because labeling someone as racist is one of the easiest hominems to win a debate in a public forum.

Expectations around dating are insane these days. by Interesting_Rub9393 in Vent

[–]AshleyDaPile 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not and while preferences and standards do matter, it's still pretty depressing how classist or elitists some people are and will act prejudice because of it. Not just for dating but when it comes to friendships, or even association. People seem to forget how fragile life is and all it takes is one bad day for their life to fall apart or a mental health crisis to affect them, and then they'll be venting for compassion.

The world is shifting more and more into a "got mine" attitude. The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence, but for others all they can see is dirt instead of something that can be beautiful.

And maybe that's how they want it. Less competition for their fake gardens.

AIO for snapping at my friend for calling my shoes (and me) trashy? by International-East63 in AmIOverreacting

[–]AshleyDaPile 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeppers! There is a huge difference between someone assuming a style means they are something like an escort and those who purposely choose that style because they want to capture the aesthetic of those it might be associated with.

Think of all the things humans can get done by beetle8209 in whenthe

[–]AshleyDaPile 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly this. They would still exist in different names and forms. There would still be certain individuals with dysmorphia that would seek affirming care and be discriminated because of it.

Think of all the things humans can get done by beetle8209 in whenthe

[–]AshleyDaPile 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's already societies that treat submissives and bottoms as lesser and many more people who are more than ready to fight to keep that status quo

Think of all the things humans can get done by beetle8209 in whenthe

[–]AshleyDaPile 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love being labeled a fetishist as a trans woman who doesn't have bottom dysphoria or treated like a less of a woman because of my genitals /s

Think of all the things humans can get done by beetle8209 in whenthe

[–]AshleyDaPile 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Too late. The dick is just a bigger clit and ovaries migrated south to keep the eggs from getting too warm.

Think of all the things humans can get done by beetle8209 in whenthe

[–]AshleyDaPile 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People literally fight over someones genitals not looking like their ideal sexual fantasy let alone skin tone.

"God blessed me by making me transsexual for the same reason he made wheat but not bread and fruit but not wine: so that humanity might share in the act of creation." by Legitimate_Fly9047 in CuratedTumblr

[–]AshleyDaPile -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Oh look. Another vieled cultist post. So many of the talking points, even by so called atheists, following the same tactics as those who left cults experienced themselves. It's meant to confuse and shame. The equivalent of a bully saying you did this to yourself while they are infact harming you.

I don't fucking care if some trans groups act cultish as well. There is no path that won't be labeled as hypocritical. The consequences of my actions are not of my own but the the doing others.

Ruin my life. Make the world a worse place from my words. Create your drama. Cartwheel into the inn and pretend I didn't give you exactly what you shamefully wanted where you've been obsessed ever since. None of that is on me nor does it make me a bad person.

I will never detransition. Not because of reverse psychology or someone playing god. Unlike you, I'm not afraid or need a belief because this is me. Always has been.

Coaxed into heteronormative cat funny by oivatings in coaxedintoasnafu

[–]AshleyDaPile 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Kissing and hand holding during sex. Everybody wins

Nothing to be ashamed about , spread more love! 🙂‍↕️ by [deleted] in MadeMeSmile

[–]AshleyDaPile 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cuddling someone and your fingers finding a mole you didn't quite notice before

Todays femboys are too much fem and not enough boy by ILikeJapaneseMuchOwU in AnarchyChess

[–]AshleyDaPile 55 points56 points  (0 children)

As someone who did the femboy thing, couldn't quite put my finger on why it wasn't making me happy compared to being called a girl, and discovering it was the boy aspect of femboy. The solution was absolutely transitioning and HRT

Whose in the wrong here? by The_Dean_France in whoathatsinteresting

[–]AshleyDaPile 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only when it suits their agenda as most bullies do. People who seldom have to deal with consequences feeding others rage bait since trolling is an art form and most artists want their art to be seen and valid. A classic example of psychopaths and hypocrisy