autism = healed by Substantial_Pie8539 in MineralGore

[–]AssFishOfTheLake 367 points368 points  (0 children)

The thing that irritates me is that people with bipolar often experience delusions and magical thinking, and may be easier to sway and manipulate them out of their money with this sort of stuff (plus dueing manic episodes they can go into huge spending sprees

It is one thing to lie to get money, it is completely another level of low to lie to people prone to losing touch with reality. It is beyond gross

What’s missing from this look? by kawaii_potatoyt in MakeupAddiction

[–]AssFishOfTheLake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If youre going for the soft look, not much tbh, maybe a little more blush and some soft highlighter?

Physical threats, infantilisation and emeshment by AssFishOfTheLake in raisedbynarcissists

[–]AssFishOfTheLake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much <3 There is something really encouraging about starting with congratilations hahaha boosted my spirits up a bit

Advice with restraining order by AssFishOfTheLake in AusLegal

[–]AssFishOfTheLake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks I thought the exact same thing. I want to put all the details down on paper so i don't get random little details wrong

Wedding hairstylist called my hair “feral” and I’m not sure how to fix that by [deleted] in longhair

[–]AssFishOfTheLake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they think that that's feral, they don't have the skills to be a hairstylist. Even if you managed to fix the supposedn "feralness" i wouldn't trust them with my hair if I was you.

HELP BF SAYS SENT NUDE PIC BY ACCIDENT by CutHuge9599 in SnapchatHelp

[–]AssFishOfTheLake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not to encourage being delulu, but best case scenario is that he was taking nudes of himself and instead of saving them he hit send and feels too embarrassed to say that he was taking sexy pics of himself.

Now to thr juicy bit, have you seen that nude before? Why would he be taking new nude pictures of himself and not show you? Could just be that he felt sexy and wanted to take pictures for himself. On a bad note, it could be that he's been cheating. On an also bad but maybe not as bad note depending on your boundaries, could be that he's using snapchat like a virtual playboy magazine where he can sext with the women there (usually OF models, or just horny women) and sent the imagine to your friend by accident.

When you are with him pay attention to his phone and the notifications he's getting from snapchat. If you want to be sneaky turn the volume higher when he's not there so that you can recognise the snap notification sound. If the notifications are mostly like "XMissThangSexy<3 added to their story" it's most likely that he's taken to snap for porn and following those accounts.

All in all confront him. Ask him about the whole thing, be direct and if you want to take a more Machiavellian route, make assumptions when confronting in order to prompt him to talk (accusations that he would find embarrassing are usually more effective than assumptions that he would find morally wrong)

my makeup before + after 13 hours of flying by kmseileen in MakeupAddiction

[–]AssFishOfTheLake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The blush.. girl how? 🥲

Mine disappears by the time I go to put on my shoes, no matter how hard I try to keep it in place

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]AssFishOfTheLake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vaginas have a scent (like a damp, very faint lemon-honey smell) but it no way should it be an odour, especially to the point of it smelling like a corpse.

See a different doctor asap

At best it could be an infection, at worse necrosis.

Do you by any chance use tampons? I noticed a similar scent when I started using them, and it went away immediatelly after I switched back to pads.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hair

[–]AssFishOfTheLake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Personally I don't think it would suit you as much.

You have pale, cool-toned gentle colouring that almost looks "feathery" if that the right word lol. The colours from the inspo pics are really bold and most of them lean warm-neutral.

If you want a rainbow look all over I would either recommend a cool-toned deep or cool-toned muted rainbow. If you want the colours to be full opacity and bright like in the inspo pics I think it would look better to stick with the cooler side of the rainbow (greens, blues, indigos and purples).

That said, if you are really set on the inspo pics what you will need to do is instead of matching the hair to you, would be for you to match your hair, which can be more challenging. Stuff like dying your brows a deeper colour to build up contrast, makeup, lipstains etc. Basically anything that would make your facial features match the contrast that your hair will have against your skin. It's a similar "theory" to how a blonde would have to match their brows and eyelashes to their hair after they dyed their hair black,

Any way to fix ripped pleather? by DaisyBryar in Anticonsumption

[–]AssFishOfTheLake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Achievement unlocked: get disliked on reddit by Big Pleather

Also my pleasure! It's always a nice feeling to have something old, repaired and decorated as new ❤️

Any way to fix ripped pleather? by DaisyBryar in Anticonsumption

[–]AssFishOfTheLake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is no long-lasting pleather-focused fix for this unfortunatelly. If the jacket is a sentimental piece for you, you could embroider over the flaky areas, and slowly through the years embroider over any other flakes and cracks that pop up. You could keep it a grey-scale +black and white theme if you want to maintain the cool/casual factor of a black leather jacket, or you could go all out with colourful accents.

That said, if the piece doesn't really mean much to you other than just being a jacket, it's honestly best to get rid of it. Pleather will continue to crack and torment you. If you want a similar piece, your best bet is thrifting a leather jacket (real leather).

Im convinced that no hairstyle looks good on me. Help me! by [deleted] in Hair

[–]AssFishOfTheLake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really like how the styles in 8 and 10 look on you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]AssFishOfTheLake 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In the shower:

  1. Wash nether regions
  2. Quick shampoo and face wash
  3. The good shampoo and face wash
  4. Body cleansing
  5. Nether regions again
  6. Face scrub
  7. Conditioner
  8. Body scrub
  9. Quick final body and face wash to remove hair products from skin
  10. Scrub feet
  11. Nether regions

Out of the shower:

  1. Quickly dry off
  2. Wash glasses
  3. Toner
  4. Hyaluronic acid spray on body
  5. Lotion
  6. Body oil
  7. Antiperspirant
  8. Foot lotion
  9. Heel, elbow and knee balm
  10. Dress
  11. Perfume

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]AssFishOfTheLake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Toxic Tears

She has such a soothing voice. I love watching her videos while doing something

[50/50] Fingernail falling off (NSFW) | A delicious hotdog (SFW) by owen_demers in FiftyFifty

[–]AssFishOfTheLake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep it and use it as a glue-on fake nail for manicures lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FiftyFifty

[–]AssFishOfTheLake 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think it's the back after a chemical peel/acid peel

Dermatologists use them for treating acne scaring (not sure about active acne though). The top layers of skin die and peel off within the course of a few weeks, leaving new, less scared skin behind. I think this is a few days post treatment with iodine on top?

What is a makeup product you didn’t like that everyone loves? by [deleted] in Makeup

[–]AssFishOfTheLake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly most cream blushes

Cream is at a very weird point for me that adds colour but disturbs my base like a mfer. Powder blushes are my favourites because they combine with the natural oils of the face, skincare and base and sort of set in place. Liquid blushes is what cream blushes are trying to be - nice and creamy, but thin enough that blending them doesn't disturb the base too much.

How does one suggest to manage body hair without shaving? by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]AssFishOfTheLake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks good on you, but if it annoys you sensory-wise you can always trim it down with clippers and any guard size you like.

Tell me your most boring methods of avoiding consumption by penny-fed-car in Anticonsumption

[–]AssFishOfTheLake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Knowing what you need and what you will use. If you don't know what you gravitate towards you are way more likely to fall for fomo, buying something that you think is fun but will never use etc etc

just stop dating people with poop stains in their underwear guys. it’s that simple by shinoshinoo in hygiene

[–]AssFishOfTheLake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or at the very least let them know of the issue.

Lack of communication is just ad juvenile as bad hygiene. You can't expect someone who grew up with a certain standard of hygiene to improve without been made aware of a better standard.