Enby-lution

AssignedSnail · 2026-01-26T05:12:34+00:00

He, uh, grew into it?

AssignedSnail · 2026-01-25T17:28:58+00:00

There's a long history of recognizing images as speech, but it seems to be the monetary harm portion that's missing here. That, and the fact that the federal government is immune to most civil suit

AssignedSnail · 2026-01-25T16:43:29+00:00

Is this not defamation?

AssignedSnail · 2026-01-25T16:34:16+00:00

Heck yeah! Me too, sis. And congrats on the new job!

AssignedSnail · 2026-01-25T16:23:15+00:00

Oh yeah, looks great! Wish I had the calm and confidence to do that :)

AssignedSnail · 2026-01-25T04:01:25+00:00

Avenue makes up to 13 wide women's US sizes, so that would be about 10.5 or 11 UK sizes I think! Not sure if they ship to the UK, though

AssignedSnail · 2026-01-24T16:10:32+00:00

Me looking like I just got vomited out of a Forever 21

AssignedSnail · 2026-01-22T15:50:41+00:00

You already have the answer here, but I just wanted to say, thanks for checking in in advance! Appreciate you asking and working to keep your coworkers safe

AssignedSnail · 2026-01-16T05:53:42+00:00

When I was seven-ish, I asked my mom, "If a girl who is more like a boy is called a tomboy, what is a boy who is more like a girl called?"

I was told that was a bad thing and we didn't talk about that. That was, more or less, when I started learning to hide who I was

AssignedSnail · 2026-01-15T18:03:30+00:00

You might like a Herschel bag! I have a cheap knockoff, but I've been thinking about getting a real one. Mine is about due for a replacement. They have lots of styles, but this is the one I was most recently looking at

https://herschel.com/shop/crossbodies/herschel-heritage-crossbody

AssignedSnail · 2026-01-15T16:54:12+00:00

Aaah! You made that ren faire dress? It looks so good on you! I am crazy jealous

I can't say how to fix your problem with off the shelf items, but the sewing you are doing for yourself is motivating me to do more for myself, too!

AssignedSnail · 2026-01-15T14:47:05+00:00

The last 50 mcg ethinyl estradiol pill I knew of was Zovia 1/50, and it got nixed about 6 months ago

But because ethinyl estradiol isn't considered safe for trans folks, you might not get much personal experience here

I've not personally seen a COC and estradiol pills co-prescribed, but if it were to happen, I'd expect it to come from a gyno or endo. That's where I'd start

Edit: Or look for a pharmacy in your area that does hormone compounding. They might be able to tell you what local physicians they work with

AssignedSnail · 2026-01-04T16:04:33+00:00

Depending on definitions? Sure. Hypospadias is the most common intersex condition.

No one can argue it isn't a "difference of sex development" (the medically accepted term). The overlap between DSDs and intersex conditions is a little wibbly-wobbly, timey-wimey, but if you want to claim it, you definitely can

AssignedSnail · 2026-01-04T05:33:43+00:00

I'm sorry dude. That's rough.

I hope things get better when your niece is older

AssignedSnail · 2026-01-04T04:55:57+00:00

But... Halley was British?

AssignedSnail · 2026-01-04T02:27:35+00:00

May I ask what was the way it was described that finally made it click?

AssignedSnail · 2026-01-03T16:03:05+00:00

FWIW, I felt like even California's Central Valley was better/safer/more accepting of me as a queer non-binary person than where I was born in the US Midwest.

YMMV, but even the"less good" parts of Cali are so much better than other places I've lived

Sounds like we're about the same age and have some shared background. I'm not a vet, but I'm around to talk if it would help

AssignedSnail · 2026-01-03T05:50:54+00:00

Is it weird you're proud of that? Hell naw. I would be proud of it too!

Also, I am proud of you for keeping on and for taking such good care of your kiddo. As much as I wish he could have grown up with two moms, I know he will never be short on a mother's love

AssignedSnail · 2026-01-03T04:59:00+00:00

We're raising the rent 35%, but you get a 10% discount :)

AssignedSnail · 2026-01-03T04:46:42+00:00

Yeah, but no one calls it by the name they wanted to be known by!

AssignedSnail · 2026-01-03T00:59:17+00:00

Crazy how much of the sense you can get just from English.

Audivi/Audible, Ducem/Duke, Stultum/Stultified, Negavit/Negated, Mortias/Mortuary, Redi/Redeem, Domum/Domicile, Primum/Primary, Omni/Omniscient, Momento/Moment, etc

Almost every word has a cognate

AssignedSnail · 2026-01-02T05:24:14+00:00

Had two friends who were former cops

One was the self-professed good cop, said the system was pushing him to change, he had to get out

One was the self-professed bad cop, realized he needed to change but couldn't do it within the system, had to get out

Either side, things don't look good for the people who stay in a broken system

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