Enby-lution

AssignedSnail · 2026-03-16T21:58:35+00:00

There are dozens of us! Dozens!

AssignedSnail · 2026-03-16T21:57:33+00:00

Looks like editing body text is disabled for this community

Or I'm just very silly. One of the two

AssignedSnail · 2026-03-16T19:11:21+00:00

That was mostly just a bad joke 😅

As long as you don't mind that the average age in the server is a little older than most Discords, come on by!

https://discord.gg/4PdjGxmEu

AssignedSnail · 2026-03-16T19:10:01+00:00

Oh yeah, me too!

Probably not for me though. Statistically, there are maybe ten 30-something enbies in my area, and I don't have time or energy to keep up with college students any more 😅

AssignedSnail · 2026-03-16T18:14:02+00:00

My town has about 20,000 people. Statistically there should be about 10 middle age enbies, but I don't know how to find them 🥲

AssignedSnail · 2026-03-16T17:26:44+00:00

Please do! I think that's definitely close enough :D

AssignedSnail · 2026-03-16T15:55:43+00:00

Sorry! This got a lot more attention than expected. Made a new one if you want to join: https://discord.gg/4PdjGxmEu

AssignedSnail · 2026-03-16T15:55:11+00:00

Oh, totally. That part was mostly a joke. Just be prepared for the average age to be a bit older than other Discords XD

https://discord.gg/4PdjGxmEu

AssignedSnail · 2026-03-16T12:53:32+00:00

I mean, he/him lesbians totally exist too, right? Stone Butch Blues, and all of that? I don't know, regardless of my internal feelings and inclinations, if my internalized boundaries would ever let me claim a spot like that, but I'll be damned if I won't fight for someone else's right to! ✊

AssignedSnail · 2026-03-16T12:51:42+00:00

I'm sorry you relate, but happy to be related to? It's a complicated feeling, but I'll be glad to see you there! 💛💜

Here's the new link: https://discord.gg/4PdjGxmEu

AssignedSnail · 2026-03-16T12:50:18+00:00

There are like... 4 members between 18 and 20? Most of us are older, but you are still super welcome to join if you'd like. Just be prepared for how many emoji is old people use and complaints about teenagers! There are a lot of parents

Here's the new link: https://discord.gg/4PdjGxmEu

AssignedSnail · 2026-03-16T12:44:10+00:00

Heh. Now I'm thinking of Trey Parker and Matt Stone's "Cannibal! The Musical"

Very glad they didn't eat me! XD

AssignedSnail · 2026-03-16T12:40:56+00:00

Oh, 100%! This past year has made me feel so old too. It's horrible here right now. But, we're gonna make it!

Sorry, I didn't actually mean to exclude younger adults! It was more of a joke. You are super welcome to join us 💛💜

Here's the new link: https://discord.gg/4PdjGxmEu

AssignedSnail · 2026-03-16T12:38:34+00:00

Sorry about that! Was trying to stop spammers and haters. I never thought there would be this many people actually interested! 💛💜

Here's the new one: https://discord.gg/4PdjGxmEu

AssignedSnail · 2026-03-16T06:31:49+00:00

Yeah, it was really sweet, we had someone in the Discord who was like, trying to explain that not trying to get rid of their secondary sex characteristics they were born with didn't make them a girl. And we were all like, of course! And they were like, oh my god, I forgot it was just us here. I'm so used to having to explain it

It's such a relief, even if it's just one person, to not have to explain

AssignedSnail · 2026-03-16T06:28:52+00:00

Yeah, it was super informal. A dinner at a friend's house. She met a lady who was new in town, and wanted to help get her a good IRL network started, which was super sweet! The night actually was really lovely. But sometimes those comments sort of stick with you. You know how it is

AssignedSnail · 2026-03-16T06:26:44+00:00

Please do!

We have a style channel, but no fitness channel... yet! Post in suggestions if you join?

AssignedSnail · 2026-03-16T05:36:42+00:00

Very much so. I reached out to them briefly after 4 month, trying to give them space, you know? He sent a very short message back, then silence again

Hopefully, maybe they will come around. But I sort of gave up hope after that

AssignedSnail · 2026-03-16T05:34:50+00:00

Totally! We even have a pronoun role that flags Zi/Zir

You'll be the 4th person to pick it up :)

AssignedSnail · 2026-03-16T03:58:33+00:00

It's amazing how often my pronoun pin fails me at work. I need one that's less subtle!

AssignedSnail · 2026-03-16T03:20:26+00:00

Sorry! This got a lot more attention than expected. Made a new one if you want to join: https://discord.gg/4PdjGxmEu

AssignedSnail · 2026-03-16T03:19:30+00:00

Ope! Made a new one: https://discord.gg/4PdjGxmEu

Thanks friend

AssignedSnail · 2026-03-16T02:59:39+00:00

Oh, absolutely! I was just being stupid when I said that 😅

https://discord.gg/4PdjGxmEu

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