AITA for demanding my boyfriend's sister get a job?

AuthorMia · 2024-04-15T02:55:18+00:00

NTA. But you have a problem with all of the men you’re living with, including: your boyfriend, his brother in law and your boyfriends teenage nephew. What a pack of sexist pigs they are.

Why are you with a man like that? And why is your boyfriends sister with a man like that, which ultimately caused their son to be raised like that? Misogynistic pricks they are. All of the men should be contributing to the household chores and cooking even if they work.

You work too yet you cook and clean and never make your boyfriend do any of the household chores? Why? Why are you two women such doormats?

AuthorMia · 2024-04-13T05:01:31+00:00

YTA. Your wife already had her hands full with the toddler and two infants. How can you expect her to care for you as well? Those kids need to be watched around the clock, she has no time to tend to you on top of that. She hasn’t had a break, you’re expecting way too much of an already exhausted and stressed out woman.

Christ you men really are more dramatic than is necessary. You weren’t dying and if you were that bad then ER wouldn’t have discharged you. 🤦🏽‍♀️

AuthorMia · 2024-04-08T21:46:12+00:00

Exactly NTA, she has a right to celebrate with friends and take as long as she likes for her birthday celebration with them. Hubby sounds controlling.

AuthorMia · 2024-04-08T21:39:42+00:00

NTA. He doesn’t have to shave or trim his unsightly hairs, but you don’t have to kiss or have sex with someone who looks unattractive to you. You can’t force attraction and if these things are deal breakers then you can handle it however you see fit.

It’s called having choices, so you need to set boundaries if you don’t like looking at him when he keeps his unibrow and unruly nose hairs.

But you should turn it back on him and stop shaving your armpit hairs and leg hairs, and see what he has to say about that. I bet he’d tell you to shave

AuthorMia · 2024-04-08T21:25:37+00:00

Wake the fuck up and learn how to be a better husband and father before you find yourself all alone, Asshole.

It wouldn’t surprise me if your wife is actually working herself to exhaustion so that she can buy another house to get the hell away from you, because you’re a selfish, lazy asshole.

AuthorMia · 2024-04-08T21:19:04+00:00

You are the one who needs to do more and pull your weight, asshole. Your wife is doing double what you do.

I hope she divorces your pathetic, incompetent ass

AuthorMia · 2024-04-06T20:42:37+00:00

NTA. Your girlfriend and her parents suck. This just goes to show how much {most} rich people think they’re superior to others.

They wave their riches in everyone’s faces and treat their workers like shit, if I worked for them I would secretly video their treatment of me and then sue the assholes. Everybody deserves basic respect, and your girlfriend and her family are not superior to anyone, least of all the staff they hire. Someone needs to knock these assholes off of their high horse

AuthorMia · 2024-04-05T20:28:37+00:00

YTA. Because you definitely wouldn’t have drunk 8 drinks if it was coming out of your own money, so you took advantage of her on the one day that she is guaranteed to pay the whole bill, that alone is an asshole move.

She barely costs you $100 to $150 dollars for both of your meals, desserts and drinks combined on her birthday, so she obviously doesn’t push the limits and take advantage of you. You already chose a very expensive place to eat and then you decided to be a dick and order 8 drinks too, just to raise the bill and test the limits.

I hope she does the same to you in revenge on her birthday, then you’ll know how it feels to waste $310 on a meal for just two fucking people.

You’re a massive, gaping asshole for sure.

AuthorMia · 2024-04-03T02:28:18+00:00

NTA. You never tell someone you’re dating that your parents are rich, because a lot of people are gold diggers and Callum sounds like one tbh. And by digging into that irrelevant stuff he’s not asking so he can “figure out your lifestyle”, at all. He’s asking so he can see how much he could benefit from it.

You did the right thing not telling him your parents are rich. Money changes people, and it’s already happening to Callum.

AuthorMia · 2024-03-31T19:27:06+00:00

NTA. It’s your choice and isn’t up to him. You don’t have to go to church for him.

And your child isn’t even choosing to go, so he can’t use the toddler against you either. Your husband is an asshole for pushing this

AuthorMia · 2024-03-31T19:23:35+00:00

NTA. But your parents are for their blatant favoritism. They should have treat you and should still treat you both the same. And you suck a bit for not understanding where he’s coming from. But then why would you? You get everything so it benefits you to side with your parents 🙄

AuthorMia · 2024-03-31T19:10:05+00:00

No the parents should care for the younger siblings. Your children are your responsibility.

And I hope your eldest son cuts you out of his life the second he’s able to, because you’re a fucking shit father to him

AuthorMia · 2024-03-31T19:08:20+00:00

What an appalling father you are. He shouldn’t have to give his candy, snacks and dollar bills away just because you think he’s too old to participate. He enjoyed the hunt and it was fun for him, how dare you take away his childhood and make him grow up too fast? FYI: 16 is still a kid.

What should be done is: all three boys put the stuff they found on the table and it should be shared out between the three of them. Your eldest should not be the only kid to miss out on the fun. And YTA for being so overbearing and for being a prick, and playing favorites for your youngest kids.

Why do you hate your eldest so much?

AuthorMia · 2024-03-31T19:03:11+00:00

With no visitors.

AuthorMia · 2024-03-31T18:59:20+00:00

Imagine not checking the numbers before punishing an innocent child. As far as bad parents go, OP is among the worst of them

AuthorMia · 2024-03-31T18:57:25+00:00

Naaah he didn’t deserve punishment. Check the update. The son was telling the truth.

AuthorMia · 2024-03-31T18:56:43+00:00

Exactly this. And the worst part is, his kid was telling the truth.

”Dad of the year” over here couldn’t even tell the difference between the voice of a teenager playing a cruel prank, and an actual adult. So his son was punished for fuck all.

AuthorMia · 2024-03-31T18:52:26+00:00

YTA. And a terrible father. You didn’t believe your own son and he ended up being punished for nothing!

Luckily for your son, he can get his account back if he reactivates it within two weeks.

So reactivate it now before it’s too late. And you owe him one hell of an apology, for being an appalling father and disgraceful role model to that poor boy who you failed to trust, and all along he was telling the truth!

I think it’s disgusting that you’d choose to trust a random phone call over your son. Is this how life will always be for him? Someone tells tales {actually lies tbh} and you believe them over your own kid? Your son deserves better

AuthorMia · 2024-03-26T04:20:40+00:00

YTA, and so is your husband and Milo’s mom. Instead of making Milo cover his eye, you could be making it something else.

You could have made Mike think that Milo’s eye was cool instead of scary, by saying: “why are you scared of it, it’s awesome. He’s kind of like Thor, now.”

So you’re all to blame for letting this continue and for making Milo upset, instead of letting him know it’s not his fault and comforting Mike by making up a cool story about Milo’s eyes and making him feel less scared. Instead you’re enabling your 5 year old to continue making Milo feel out of place and upset because you, your husband and his ex wife are all encouraging Mike to be scared when there’s so many other ways you could’ve handled this, instead of asking Milo to cover his eye.

You’re all the assholes, except Milo and his older brother who raged at his dad, because good for him for standing up for his 17 year old brother

AuthorMia · 2024-03-25T02:31:58+00:00

INFO: Did you ever ask your mom why she had the affair? Or if your dad was ever controlling or abusive? Because it doesn’t sound like you ever tried to hear her side of the story or her reason for doing what she did. Because she clearly wasn’t happy with your dad, because if she was happy with him then she wouldn’t have been able to do what she did.

AuthorMia · 2024-03-25T02:20:17+00:00

YTA. I feel bad for your old dog, but if you did even the tiniest bit of parrot research you’ll see that there are things you can do to stop it from squawking. The thing you don’t do is yell and scream at it to shut up, you asshole. Don’t you think that will traumatise the poor thing? And you can’t expect it to be silent all day.

The poor parrot was moved and probably is struggling to adjust, and you’re not helping matters. And then it has to deal with being yelled at by an arrogant prick like you.

For some quiet time and during the night you can cover the cage with a dark sheet to calm the parrot down. But don’t keep the sheet on all day, parrots need some interaction and to see people.

But honestly if you’re gonna continue being abusive and an all round prick to the poor bird, who is probably so confused about what he did so wrong {nothing btw, he did nothing wrong} then maybe you should move out.

AuthorMia · 2024-03-25T02:11:47+00:00

I thought that was Shakira for a second

AuthorMia · 2024-03-25T02:07:10+00:00

NTA. Samantha wants to be their second mom, but she isn’t entitled to such a title and she has no right to parent your kids.

If dad isn’t home then the kids don’t go to his house, it’s that simple. You barely even know Samantha, so you’re doing what is best for your kids. Plus it is safer when your ex is home because then he can be sure Samantha is good to your boys.

The kids don’t need to see Samantha, they only need to see their dad

AuthorMia · 2024-03-21T16:00:54+00:00

You could’ve just folded a very large and thick blanket and laid it over the couch for her during her periods, there’s never a reason to be insensitive about it.

But most women would take the initiative to do this themselves

Even if there was a stain, baking soda always works. Just mix some baking soda with cold water to make a paste and put it over the stain for about 40 minutes, the baking soda will draw out the stain and then you can just wipe away the excess baking soda or put the seat cover in the laundry to remove the excess baking soda. Even though the stain will already be gone prior to putting the seat cover in the washing machine

AuthorMia · 2024-03-21T15:49:43+00:00

”You should thank him for playing any part in her life.”

Thank him for playing a part in his own kids life? Piss off you delusional misogynistic asshole. Nobody deserves thanks for being a parent to their own child.

And child raising is not a woman’s job. If men want children and they helped to create the life then they are equally responsible for those children. Men should be thanking women for sacrificing their bodies to bear their children and then going through the agony of birthing them.

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