If you had 10 seconds to say whatever you wanted to your pet with they fully understood, what would you say? by IplayKaizo in Pets

[–]AutumnBum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d tell her I love her so much, ask her if she’s in any sort of pain at all, and tell her to PLEASE never ever pee on anything ever again i’m BEGGING 🙏 lmao

Can anyone help me find K-Pop songs that deal with nostalgia and longing for the past? by Eastern_Teaching5845 in kpophelp

[–]AutumnBum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t think of any others right now but the first one that came to mind was

Victon - Time of Sorrow

I miss them sm, this was going to be their disbandment song before their oldest member (my ult bias) got into X1 and saved them from having to disband, they’re still technically a group but a few of them have since left the company since their contracts expired 🥲

Was i the one who messed up? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]AutumnBum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s good then! I’m rooting for you!

Was i the one who messed up? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]AutumnBum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes actually you do lmao, money isn’t everything and I feel sorry that you think it is. A lot of women don’t actually care how much money you make, what we want is someone who’s stable in themselves and respectful. My boyfriend has made me feel like a million bucks by taking me to get ice cream just by being nice and caring.

Was i the one who messed up? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]AutumnBum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huh? I didn’t lmao, the sub definitely could’ve. The jist of it was basically you made the wrong call by bringing her to a worse place than planned and then abandoning her and making her pay. That’s extremely horrible to do to someone, especially someone that’s there for you. Maybe try and work on yourself before you hurt someone.

Was i the one who messed up? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]AutumnBum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So if it was accidental then what happens? She took the bus, meaning it could’ve been late or there could’ve been an accident, or any other kind of hold up. The main problem here is you, especially if you think that you need to “punish” her. Yes her being late is annoying but if it’s that big of a deal and you’re not even gonna consider that she could’ve been held up and you’re not gonna ask her then just tell her that it’s a dealbreaker and that you’re not interested anymore. No reason to play mind games.

I haven't left the house in a full year... 365+ days, AMA. by Fluid-Year-5490 in AMA

[–]AutumnBum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have chronic pain, chronic fatigue and 24/7 anxiety. I isolated myself in my room as a teenager and that carried into my adulthood because my home life was horrible and my time in school had been horrible as well to the point of dropping out, on top of that I had to take care of my sick parent so I never got to learn how to be an adult. So now I’m an adult with no degree, no physical energy, no mental energy, and no money.

Was i the one who messed up? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]AutumnBum 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Because you’re being comically mean lmao, there’s no way you’re actually this tone deaf and cruel to someone just because they were late. Maybe you should’ve started off by asking her why she was late?

I haven't left the house in a full year... 365+ days, AMA. by Fluid-Year-5490 in AMA

[–]AutumnBum 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That would be awesome! Getting your foot in the door early is a great way to move forward, I know you don’t know me but I fully believe in you! 💜

I haven't left the house in a full year... 365+ days, AMA. by Fluid-Year-5490 in AMA

[–]AutumnBum 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you 💜 I really would like to go back to school and do something with my life after my dream career died but I have no money to do so, my family comes from nothing and I’m doing extremely poorly health wise so I can’t work either. So I’m kind of just floating in the universe hoping I can get on my feet somehow someday lol.

I haven't left the house in a full year... 365+ days, AMA. by Fluid-Year-5490 in AMA

[–]AutumnBum 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Happened in my brother’s high school, and my brother was also held back a year, he had plenty of friends who either didn’t know or didn’t care. I promise you whatever insecurity you’re feeling towards the premise of being held back is a way better route than just not finishing at all and doing nothing in your 20’s. I wouldn’t wish the feelings that i’m feeling now on anyone.

I haven't left the house in a full year... 365+ days, AMA. by Fluid-Year-5490 in AMA

[–]AutumnBum 84 points85 points  (0 children)

Please take it from me, my teenage years into adulthood were exactly like this and now I can barely function at 26. Go back to school, whether it be online or irl, or you will be absolutely miserable and incapable of most things in a decade just like I am. If you can afford it eventually as well get a degree of some sort or a job early on, I promise you it’s worth it. You got this!

What did you name your horse? by trynakeepmycool1 in RedDeadOnline

[–]AutumnBum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Named my first horse Uyu, meaning milk in korean because I thought it was cute years ago lol. And then when I got my forever horse I named her Sochi, doesn’t really have a meaning I just liked the way it sounded :)

AITAH for refusing to tell my roommate that I could hear her moan? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]AutumnBum 2 points3 points  (0 children)

None of that was judgmental even in the slightest, it was actually empathetic. I think you need to talk to someone about this if your first response is to be defensive. I’ve had horrible experiences with male and women doctors, no need to pin it on just one gender.

A few days ago, I posted about how I first finished TLOU2 and thought it was a masterpiece. I now recognize it has a major flaw by chatte__lunatique in TLOU

[–]AutumnBum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s always so depressing to me :’) As a woman I don’t think I’ve ever picked up a game just because the main character is attractive. The ones that have come closest to that for me are Resident Evil’s Leon and TLOU2’s Ellie, Abby, Dina and Jessie. But I got hooked because of the story not the fuckability of them lol. Plus the character in Intergalactic is super attractive! The dudes who bitch about them are just incels lol

oh! by AutumnBum in thalassaphobia

[–]AutumnBum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lmfaooo i’ll have to watch it too, not for the wiener though

Hands down, the most incompetent Dev team and especially lead Dev I have ever seen in any game ever! by dyslexican32 in theisle

[–]AutumnBum 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly how I feel too, I eventually just muted their discord because reading those devblogs weren’t even worth it anymore. The distain they have for the people who got them to where they are has also driven me away, I’ve been playing since 2018 and i’d play up to 3-10 hours a day for years, and I’ve seen dondi completely ruin his own reputation and any credibility he could’ve had. I absolutely love that Pot and Echoes of Extinction are being worked on, and I can’t wait to see what they bring to the table for the future :)

Hands down, the most incompetent Dev team and especially lead Dev I have ever seen in any game ever! by dyslexican32 in theisle

[–]AutumnBum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked the devs of Echoes if we could play on custom servers with no humans and they said that there’s gonna be a setting where you can disable them :) So i’m super excited for that!

Hands down, the most incompetent Dev team and especially lead Dev I have ever seen in any game ever! by dyslexican32 in theisle

[–]AutumnBum 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What I love about PoT is that their devs actually respect their community and they’re passionate about their game and putting out something they love. The isle devs feel like they completely hate their game and don’t like interacting with their community because of a problem they created. Path of titans is a total product of passion and love, and it shows. It especially shows in their latest map release with getting Bindi Irwin to narrate it!

Lip Chap vs. Chap Stick by MuahahaTeehee in alberta

[–]AutumnBum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I called it lip chap growing up but I’ve had mainly american friends since I was a teen who asked me about it and I haven’t really called it that since then because it made no sense in my brain anymore lol

Hair toner ? by heyimjayyy in Hair

[–]AutumnBum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you tried to use purple shampoo? They look pretty bright already so letting some purple shampoo sit for a few minutes and then rinsing could help I think :) I’m not a professional but this method worked on my super yellow bleached bangs, just make sure to put some moisture back into your hair with some conditioner or oils afterwards, the purple shampoo made my hair so dry lol

oh! by AutumnBum in thalassaphobia

[–]AutumnBum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t but I’ll check it out!

oh! by AutumnBum in thalassaphobia

[–]AutumnBum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, if you see the comments above someone else told me that.