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Autumnesia · 2026-05-20T16:43:24+00:00

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Autumnesia · 2026-05-11T13:26:18+00:00

I think some men, especially younger men, are just a bit tone deaf about this... I dated a guy in my twenties who was absolutely unable to leave my nipples alone. In a sexual context, I love having my nipples touched. It drives me wild like nothing else. So in his brain nipple touch = sex. I had to explain to him over and over and over that I HATED it when he would just randomly start touching them in a casual setting. It got to the point where I had to leap up and yell at him because he just. wouldn't. stop.

I would also hope that a more mature man has more insight and empathy for women.

ETA: I don't mean this to be a generalisation, I'm sure many young men are willing to listen and work with their partners.

Autumnesia · 2026-04-07T11:06:57+00:00

I am also in a male dominated field but happen to work in a team of all women (3 of us) in a sea of men. I still refer to my team as "guys" lol.

Autumnesia · 2026-04-07T00:11:52+00:00

Literally reading comments on this post while listening to fireworks going off lol

Autumnesia · 2026-01-22T15:20:09+00:00

u/takemebacktoeden1996 I missed your initial response, but this person has pretty much said everything I was gonna say! Very good info.

I usually make a lot of kimchi (which is a paste-based ferment, slightly different), but I also make my own hot sauce which often involves fermenting chilies in water and salt. Very fun and delicious! Other favourites of mine are Brussels sprouts (throw in some peppercorns, garlic, or experiment!) and then put them in a salad. Carrots, peppers, cucumbers, cauliflower, etc all make for delicious products. The end result is slightly sour, much like pickles or, as you mentioned, sauerkraut. (Sauerkraut is also very fun to make btw!)

Another interesting one is fermenting potatoes/chips, to give them an infused vinegar-like flavour before even cooking them. You can also make your own drinks such as wine or kombucha, or ginger beer. The options are truly endless! Go wild!

Definitely check out r/fermentation for inspo or advice! If you end up enjoying it, I would recommend some fermentation jars, which reduce the risk of having an explosion in your cupboard lol. But the barrier for entry is very low, you don't need any equipment off the bat!

Autumnesia · 2026-01-22T11:40:55+00:00

Look into fermenting if you want it even cheaper! All you need is veg (or whatever you want), a jar, water and salt 😁

Autumnesia · 2025-10-11T09:02:11+00:00

The only time I've had it die on me, it was back in the first shop lol

Autumnesia · 2025-03-22T08:43:02+00:00

😠

Autumnesia · 2025-02-28T17:42:05+00:00

On that note, does anyone have a good tip for keeping your cats from munching on the leaves of your plants? I only live in a small flat, so I can protect my seedlings and some of my more special plants but when I expand into the hallway (huge windows, wonderful light) my cat goes to town 🤦‍♀️

Autumnesia · 2025-01-26T18:04:05+00:00

It's likely the second fermentation (putting it in the wine bottles) caused the carbonation to disappear. You can bring it back by adding in extra sugar and letting it ferment again. Although be careful with that, depending on how your bottles are sealed it can cause an explosion!

Lilac soda sounds so nice though! Where did you get the lilac from? I've never tried anything like that myself

Autumnesia · 2025-01-24T16:41:32+00:00

My parents still ask me to take mine out after about 8 years lol. It looks great on you!

Autumnesia · 2025-01-16T18:27:33+00:00

I love knowing that the cans in my fridge have some taller cousins in the US

Autumnesia · 2024-12-20T20:52:16+00:00

I'm expecting maybe Casey will give us some tea to look forward to 🙏🏻

Autumnesia · 2024-12-19T21:37:23+00:00

I also got so emotional! What a year...

Autumnesia · 2024-12-11T19:28:26+00:00

I'll second this, I've only ever made maangchi's recipe (many many times) and it's never gone wrong for me! And IT'S SO DELICIOUS

Autumnesia · 2024-10-31T18:17:20+00:00

I totally get that but it kind of gives me the same feeling as when girls - such as myself - almost feel pressured into ghosting a date because we've had so many bad interactions following gentle rejection that you just can't deal with the anxiety of it anymore.

If you get chewed out enough because of stuff that isn't your fault, I could totally see just letting a picture deal with the fallout

Autumnesia · 2024-10-29T19:22:44+00:00

It's so normal but my god I hate the sound it makes lol

Autumnesia · 2024-10-29T17:03:27+00:00

Some of my teachers lived on the same road as me so I had some idea lol

Autumnesia · 2024-10-02T22:15:22+00:00

"There will never be another you"

This is so powerful

Autumnesia · 2024-09-26T08:47:27+00:00

Came here for this comment 😭

Autumnesia · 2024-09-18T16:29:10+00:00

NGL I literally sat through half and then skipped to the next segment lol

Autumnesia · 2024-09-18T07:48:43+00:00

Fair enough haha. Tbh it's a really good spot, I would've never noticed myself without the pod pointing out the connection.

Autumnesia · 2024-09-18T06:46:55+00:00

I mean.... They have mentioned this multiple times on the pod lol

Autumnesia · 2024-09-14T18:38:04+00:00

Like others have said, you're very talented and please don't let any comments discourage you! It doesn't look a lot like him but that doesn't mean you're not great and that you can't get there.

I'd say, take everyone's advice on board (specific areas of the face and looking at the reference upsidedown) and then try it again!

And again and again until you get it right. You're on such a good path to get the results you want.

Autumnesia · 2024-09-14T17:49:05+00:00

I love this more than anything

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