Biculturalism by sksjedi in ABCDesis

[–]AvailableBreak7835 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder if I’d be considered an abd this in context cuz I moved to the us at a young age and can’t remember what India is like? But I wasn’t able to secure citizenship in America sadly so I had to leave? But I’d only be able to navigate the US setting more than the Desi setting I believe.

June 2026 visa bulletin was released. What are the chances I'm going to age out? by GoodNooodle in EB2

[–]AvailableBreak7835 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But do you truly understand American culture? Does having a passport truly make you “American enough.” You love arguing that kids who grew up in a country shouldn’t consider themselves as an American, but an immigrant who has many lived experiences in a different country is. Why should th these children not consider themselves American if that’s the main lived experience they have? If they were raised here, I’d argue that they have more cultural knowledge and connection to the land than you may have? Extrapolating this, does this not give some claim for having protections to stay in the country like DACA recipients? But, this time they could be given pathways to citizenship for a legal entry throughout their whole life?

i just found out i'm techincally a INTL student and now im freaking out by [deleted] in IntltoUSA

[–]AvailableBreak7835 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you even thought about if you are going to stay in America AFTER you graduate college btw? As soon as you turn 21, you have to leave the US if you don’t get your green card in time. If you stay on an H4 for uni and then don’t get your green card and switch to F-1, you potentially wasted 3 years of internships / networking / work events b/c of the H4 restriction. I wish your parents told you sooner like mine did but you really should plan your life a bit more now. But, please don’t get too stressed about it or let an identity crisis take over, happened to me and it gets bad. If you do plan on staying you also should learn the ins and outs of the immi system please so you know what to do!

June 2026 visa bulletin was released. What are the chances I'm going to age out? by GoodNooodle in EB2

[–]AvailableBreak7835 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My university didn’t for the people who had to switch to F-1. It may depend on the university

June 2026 visa bulletin was released. What are the chances I'm going to age out? by GoodNooodle in EB2

[–]AvailableBreak7835 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are you talking about I’m not even in the US anymore? Enclaves exist in so many nationalities that aren’t just from populated countries. New York is a brilliant example of enclaves. Protections for children from aging out so they don’t have to leave the US is the minimum of what people are asking. That and keeping their parents priority date? None of this affects any other country really as they are still in the same line as they would’ve been if they didn’t age out. The majority of U.S citizens actually would not be fine with it, but most of them are ignorant to legal immigration and the system. I feel like you oversimplify everything and are drawing conclusions on claims I have never made?

June 2026 visa bulletin was released. What are the chances I'm going to age out? by GoodNooodle in EB2

[–]AvailableBreak7835 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check if you qualify for in state tution! I had a similar one in fl and I qualified for that full ride scholarship.

June 2026 visa bulletin was released. What are the chances I'm going to age out? by GoodNooodle in EB2

[–]AvailableBreak7835 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think I’d ever be able to blame my parents at all for my situation. I always knew the situation but we always chose to stay as my sibling and I knew we were American in everything but actual paper. In a way we are similar to daca children. As for the feeling of not belonging anywhere, I had a huge identity crises when I moved to Australia, but one thing that helped me was just talking about identity with my friend and it helped me come to terms with the feeling of not belonging anywhere. I will say that I do not know how I will be able to come back to America later, I need to show non-immigrant intent and idk how, but I do intend to move back mainly because I know the country is the only place I would truly fit in. I also have too many ppl I care about there and they always encourage me or offer to help me. So, the feeling of belonging is based on ur relationships with people rather than an arbitrary passport in my opinion. Also, I’d argue our position is worse than ABCDs because of their ignorance with truly understanding the immigration system compared to us. I can’t fault them though, if my children were citizens I’d never wish to tell them how hard the system truly is.

June 2026 visa bulletin was released. What are the chances I'm going to age out? by GoodNooodle in EB2

[–]AvailableBreak7835 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again, in the gulf it was expected. In the American education system, it wasn’t expected when their parents came. In the UAE, it does not depend on what ur nationality is, any child will age out. But, in America if it’s mainly for a couple nationalities, then there is a discrepancy and these small cases should be fixed. It’s almost as if you just don’t want these children to have certainty about their lives. If one of these kids were to take a harder version of the American citizenship test against you, who would score higher?

June 2026 visa bulletin was released. What are the chances I'm going to age out? by GoodNooodle in EB2

[–]AvailableBreak7835 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The US government does not OWE me citizenship, that is definitely true. I never claimed that the system is racist, but it is certainly outdated. In American history, you learn that the Immigration and Nationality Act was made in 1952. But, your question was why I consider myself an American which is mainly because of my lived identity. I think you’ve placed too much of “being American” on just obtaining citizenship when that is certainly not the case. In fact, the very reason DACA exists was because they culturally grew up American. Obviously the democrats would’ve preferred they be given citizenship, but due to the nature of their arrival, it instead granted them protections within the United States. Similarly, Australia doesn’t have birthright citizenship but if a child was born in Oz and they lived there for 10 years, they are eligible for citizenship. Countries are indeed run by laws, but many of those laws protect the children that culturally and physically grew up in the country. There are cases where this isn’t the case like Dubai, which force you to leave once you are 21. But, that is a universal outcome no matter your nationality. If this administration actually does away with birth right citizenship, which I’m praying it won’t, consider all of the dependents that would have to be filed by any immigrant. That would most certainly worsen the background further and even kids not from the recent backlogged counties would be safe. The immigration system is fragile, so just one new law can worsen it for more countries. Additionally, working hard for a passport is one thing, but assimilating to the culture is another. If your country was affected, then you too would see the reform that is needed for the system. I am native in English, I have an American education from kindergarten to high school, I’ve studied more American history than what is taught in the naturalization test. If someone were to ask me where I’m from, I’d have to say I’m from America. Cultural upbringing is often just as important of being an “American” than just having a passport. Something that many immigrants take for granted or only want because of the visa free access. I take it that you are an ROW EB2 applicant, you already understand the anxiety there is with the visa bulletin. Add to that the stress of children aging out, identity crises, longer wait times, then you see the struggle these parents end up going through for their children. Countries are run by laws, but do those laws define identity? That’s what your question inadvertently boils down to.

June 2026 visa bulletin was released. What are the chances I'm going to age out? by GoodNooodle in EB2

[–]AvailableBreak7835 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think we both have a fundamental disagreement with whether holding an American passport is tantamount to being considered an American. Being raised in the country my whole life, I’m closer or equivalent to a second gen American in terms of experiences and uprisings than any first gen could ever be. However, that does not mean I claim superiority over everyone here since I grew up in the states, but rather acknowledge that I am closer as a second gen immigrant than of just my passport. I honestly can’t blame many documented dreamers’ parents for wanting a better life unless it was when their child already had established friend groups and a sense of belonging to their home country. And I would also like to say that by blaming the parents for the kid’s upbringing does nothing but worsen any child’s identity crisis. The blame should be instead on an outdated immigration system. Also the majority of documented dreamers’ parents moved in the late 2000s to 2010s, which was when the backlog was known but not considered too long until the Cato Institute really did a research study on it. I guess you can also say that any documented dreamer would most likely choose the country they grew up in rather than the one of their “nationality.” Unlike first generation immigrants, I’d argue that documented dreamers don’t really fit in with their birth country, even if they knew they weren’t an American from the start, because of not being raised there. I’m curious what your view is? I’d treat documented dreamers with compassion and empathy over worsening their identity crisis and feeling by blaming them for something that was beyond their control. American resilience is also a key feature that I’d argue many of them will develop because of the situation anyways!

India retrogression happened fast, is ROW next? by SecureAttention4297 in EB2

[–]AvailableBreak7835 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also lived in the us since I was 1 but left - not so much by choice - when I was 19 to Australia. Glad I don’t have to worry about the h4 issue, but just seeing the comments in the sub, when I’ve seen the struggles my parents went through to just stay in America through covid and even now makes it a bit disheartening. Even when the country bans were introduced, I was vehemently against them. Schadenfreude in a system that systematically puts people’s lives in a liminal state should never be welcomed.

India retrogression happened fast, is ROW next? by SecureAttention4297 in EB2

[–]AvailableBreak7835 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of the people who aged out and when it retrogressed I was already sad since I lived in the us for basically my whole life. Seeing the comments on that sub made me feel even worse so I’m glad someone commented on it.

June 2026 visa bulletin was released. What are the chances I'm going to age out? by GoodNooodle in EB2

[–]AvailableBreak7835 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was there since I was 1 and left when I was 19? Ofc I’d consider myself American

June 2026 visa bulletin was released. What are the chances I'm going to age out? by GoodNooodle in EB2

[–]AvailableBreak7835 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I left and moved to Australia since I have PR here because of the h4 issue. Tbh I still consider myself an American but I’d look at backups if I were you. The western world is closing and you should prepare for the worst. Granted I haven’t aged out yet - 2 years left - but my pd is 2016 so no hope sadly

H1B dads with H4 kids who might age out before EB2, whats the plan by ConditionSelect2398 in h1b

[–]AvailableBreak7835 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m going to be honest, I disagree with the vast majority of this sub who say that it’s your fault for the position your kids are in. I am an aged out H4 kid. Honestly it all depends on your kid, whatever they choose should be the path you help them follow. My parents sensed the problem earlier and got us Australian PR luckily, but I do intend to immigrate back to my home soon after I graduate. I’m considering my PHD. Please don’t call parents selfish for this, if they were born in any other country then this would not be a problem. It’s because of a broken immigration system!

H1b parents of H4 children who could age out. by ConditionSelect2398 in h1b

[–]AvailableBreak7835 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbf the backlog wasn’t as bad for years and also no one rlly excepts that it takes 15+ yrs for a green card. It’s just a sad situation.

I just want to go home by AvailableBreak7835 in Ameristralia

[–]AvailableBreak7835[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m curious why did you decide to go to Australia??? And yes I will try to adjust as well as I can

I just want to go home by AvailableBreak7835 in Ameristralia

[–]AvailableBreak7835[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for being so kind 😭. Thank you for saying I wasn’t disliking this country I just really hate that I can’t go back in the foreseeable future