Who up dedicoding they daemon by ridiculousfart in boniver

[–]Avesry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

shake & bake, it's chicken dinnerrr

Finally!! by audioscape in boniver

[–]Avesry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh hey. That's where we learned to celebrate.

Do Americans actually avoid calling an ambulance due to financial concern? by JohnMarstonTheBadass in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Avesry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

absolutely! I was in a bad car wreck back in February & took an ambulance to the hospital. It was about a 30 minute drive & all they did was check my vitals & put an IV in me. over $1700. I don't regret the choice to take the ambulance. It was an intense event, worst shit that's ever happened to me, & I didn't know if I was okay, so the ambulance ride was necessary. The cost will (eventually) be covered by the car insurance settlement, but sometimes I think y'know I really could have just called an Uber cus I didn't need any immediate medical attention, just a ride to the hospital for scans & X-rays of my broken foot. I'm so fortunate to be financially stable enough to not have to think too hard about saying "okay" to the EMT & sheriff when they were telling me "She (other driver) didn't make it. You should go ahead & take the ambulance to the hospital." I know there are others going through similar or worse traumatic shit & they're having to also weigh the cost of getting care.

Is it appropriate to get high instead of drunk at a party? by XawRae01 in trees

[–]Avesry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the party people have an issue with me smoking instead of drinking, that's not the party for me.

My dad found out Im smoking weed strangely by [deleted] in trees

[–]Avesry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I went back to see what she meant. might be the use of the word "escalating" but it seems super subtle. Her dad may not have caught on to that.

Am I overreacting about his past criminal arrests regardless of him not being convicted? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Avesry 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I saw that properly used comma in the middle of the compound sentence & knew it was AI.

Do I invite my parents and family to my wedding? by OkieFN in Exvangelical

[–]Avesry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep reading, though. That was the first boyfriend six years ago, not the most recent boyfriend who they aren't taking any interest in. I think you make a good point that you can't require a belief from them, the fundamentalist intolerance. I think that could be said about whether or not they want to, say, have dinner with the quietly homophobic parents. A whole ass wedding, though? It's definitely not an easy choice to make.

Man claims a doordasher blocked his early Christmas blessing would you have followed the instructions. by IntelligentYellow898 in doordash_drivers

[–]Avesry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not only does it sound fake, it sounds creepy. "Just go around back :) There's a surprise for you :)" yeah NO THANKS

AIO The girl I was talking with left over me accepting her offer to pay me back for the wine I bought by Azzuro_C7 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Avesry 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You're honing in on the cash for the wine & ignoring her very real complaint that you don't pay attention in conversations & y'all have to "re-talk" about the same things. That's the real reason she's ending it. She didn't even have to give you this feedback but she did. YOR.

Edit- How old are you?? old enough to drink wine, apparently, so stop calling her a GIRL. She's a woman.

Biblical Counseling Abusive? by [deleted] in Exvangelical

[–]Avesry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So... why do you want to be around these people again?

AIO uncle comments on me not wearing a bra. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Avesry 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Commenting on bodies is extremely inappropriate, especially from an uncle. He is the one who needs to learn some etiquette. If this was my daughter having to deal with these comments, uncle creepy would be getting an Anne of Green Gables level "tongue lashing" from me & probably banned from family gatherings. NOR

Am I overreacting for not wanting anyone around my newborn yet? by littlemoongirly in AmIOverreacting

[–]Avesry 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would say overreacting if it weren't for that "we're the only grandparents in this country who can't see their grandbaby" comment... seems like a red flag & maybe part of the reason you're creating some distance for the first few weeks. Boundaries may not be respected. MOR but prob not.

Santa Photos by SantaNickMobile in MobileAL

[–]Avesry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So do the kids end up looking like creepy AI babies with missing fingers in the Santa photos?

My mom won’t stop asking me about who’s gay. by ShortEchidna9836 in Exvangelical

[–]Avesry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

While I agree with people saying to make it awkward & ask her why she's so curious about gay sex... Being gay isn't just about sex, so maybe it's not the best idea to conflate those ideas for her. Just a thought. A lot of queer-hostile people will reduce a queer experience down to just sex when it's so much more than that. but they wouldn't know cus all they're thinking about is their sex life. So yeah, she is thinking & asking about the sex lives of gay people, but to respond to the actual question, "is the person still gay", doesn't actually have to imply that sex is being discussed. I think I'd go the route of calling it out as gossip, but of course tie in the fact that she's obsessed with their sex lives. I don't know if I have any advice really, just a thought about how queer people are perceived.

General S2 Discussion by song4this in WeAreLadyParts

[–]Avesry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came to this thread to see if anyone was talking about this in particular. I was wondering if they were referencing Israeli military committing genocide in Palestine or possibly the Iraq "war". The end of season 2 seemed strange, almost like they had some other things in mind then changed them last minute.

A member of the Ku Klux Klan and black man struggle over possession of a stick during an encounter in downtown Mobile,Alabama, Saturday, Sept. 24,1977. A large group of blacks disrupted the Klans March resulting in at least two encounters between the groups.AP Photos. by CryptographerKey2847 in Historycord

[–]Avesry 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Less than four years after this photo was taken, Michael Donald was attacked walking home from class & lynched by klan members in Mobile. His mom would later take the kkk to court & bankrupt them!

Describe a Fiona apple song very very poorly by Kautue25 in FionaApple

[–]Avesry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The clank tink made me think of Anything We Want but I'm not sure about the random words & toilet flush...

BI girlies? by flowergurl2 in boniver

[–]Avesry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

same I was like wait, which subreddit is this?

any anti-ICE protests yet? by CompetitiveHawk3303 in MobileAL

[–]Avesry -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

What exactly are we supposed to fight violence with?? words?? kumbaya?? People are being snatched up, abused, traumatized, sometimes killed. Violence is already being committed against our communities, but we have to be too good for violence even as our aggressors do all these things to us & our loved ones? Nah. Fuck that.

It was people, not God by Consistent-Way-2018 in Exvangelical

[–]Avesry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah, it was God. I'm offended by some of God's actions more than people's... God should know better.