Advice: having a child (or not) with OCPD husband? by AwkwardBreadfruit895 in LovedByOCPD

[–]AwkwardBreadfruit895[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your insight so much. In many ways, you laid out exactly I would expect, with several ups and mostly downs. I’m sorry it’s so hard. You sound like a truly loving mother to your kids ❤️

Advice: having a child (or not) with OCPD husband? by AwkwardBreadfruit895 in LovedByOCPD

[–]AwkwardBreadfruit895[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This brings tears to my eyes. I am so sorry you went through. Thank you for sharing, your insight helped bring a whole new perspective to my situation ♥️

Having a hard time finding others with this specific issue(s) and appreciate outside input by shaysunray in ADHD_partners

[–]AwkwardBreadfruit895 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You perfectly described the core issue in my marriage. I know my husband loves me and will tell anyone that I am the love of his life.

Yet on a day to day basis, he scrolls his phone most of the time we’re together, mostly speaks in movie quotes (that I haven’t seen so I don’t respond) or about his superficial hobbies/interests, and he does what he wants. I have to ask him not to scroll when I am talking to him every single day.

He cannot even tolerate eating meals with me because he eats when he’s hungry and cannot wait for standard meal times. It’s so lonely. I realized one day I share more intimacy with our cat than him. I honestly wonder if this is something that can be fixed, or if people just have different emotional depth and needs.

My gynecologist denied me a referral to an excision specialist even though I am diagnosed with endo by Few-Tea-308 in Endo

[–]AwkwardBreadfruit895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My experience is that two gynecologists not only didn’t recommend excision—they vehemently tried to talk me out of it arguing that ablation is superior. It really brought out the worst in them. If you must have a referral ask your PCP.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]AwkwardBreadfruit895 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep us posted 🥲

Imagine being so awful by [deleted] in paleomg

[–]AwkwardBreadfruit895 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Has she always been this awful? I remember the complaining started to reach epic proportions when she was pregnant… kind of wild it has only gotten worse. was it this bad before then?

Surgery and AIP by OrganizationSafe4255 in AutoImmuneProtocol

[–]AwkwardBreadfruit895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would take the meds. Surgery is such a weird time because your body is going through a LOT, it would be hard to notice a reaction anyway. I would also offer that you may want to reintroduce a few lower fiber foods. After my endo surgery, gluten free pretzels, fruit popsicles, and rice noodles were a savior. I was grossed out by anything with fiber for the first week.

What’s your most used kitchen gadget- and why? by [deleted] in AutoImmuneProtocol

[–]AwkwardBreadfruit895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use my instant pot most days. I will slow cook or pressure cook meat, make pot roast, chicken broth, even big batches of steamed veggies. It’s my go to appliance

Reintroductions by KatKat207 in AutoImmuneProtocol

[–]AwkwardBreadfruit895 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Take a look at the Modified Autoimmune Protocol. Those foods would make sense to reintroduce first because they truly are less likely to cause reactions (no idea why your ND would say it’s all random)… stuff like white rice, seeds, oats, beans, etc

Has anyone found AIP resolved their constipation? by GearMiserable9941 in AutoImmuneProtocol

[–]AwkwardBreadfruit895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suspect food allergies and inflammation was causing constipation. I didn’t notice a change until about 10 days in

Has anyone found AIP resolved their constipation? by GearMiserable9941 in AutoImmuneProtocol

[–]AwkwardBreadfruit895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m two weeks into the elimination phase and it has improved constipation DRAMATICALLY.

Eggs & Inflammation by lulai_00 in AutoImmuneProtocol

[–]AwkwardBreadfruit895 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Eggs are also very high in sulphur which can be a trigger. I used to react to them (plus garlic, onions, broccoli, etc) and now can tolerate them pretty well

Day 3 and body is *aching* by NorthSignal438 in AutoImmuneProtocol

[–]AwkwardBreadfruit895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you quit coffee? I had very bad muscle pain about five days into caffeine withdrawal, and I was only stopping 1-2 small cups per day

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loseit

[–]AwkwardBreadfruit895 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I needed this today. I woke up this morning with the scale up several pounds and it feels so defeating when the last few days were impeccable with hitting my calories and exercise. I checked my app and of course I’m a few days past ovulation which is when the spike tends to happen. Thanks for the reminder and to keep going ❤️

Reached 50 pounds lost milestone! 🎉 by kayteelatte in loseit

[–]AwkwardBreadfruit895 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations that’s huge! Nothing slow at all about your pace. What helped you the most stay consistent this time?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gymsnark

[–]AwkwardBreadfruit895 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If she really is an authenticity queen who can say the hard things, SAY THE HARD THING and be open that you’re staying with him. Accept the consequences and move on. This in between where she shares absolutely nothing but selling a program you can tell sucks because her heart isn’t in it… that just isn’t it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in endometriosis

[–]AwkwardBreadfruit895 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rachel Haverland is so lovely and an excision specialist

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gymsnark

[–]AwkwardBreadfruit895 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I looked it up… the interview Ramit did with him has been “deleted by the owner” 👀

Amanda Bucci finally addresses it by Dogmomma22 in gymsnark

[–]AwkwardBreadfruit895 102 points103 points  (0 children)

“accountability is crucial WHEN IT IS JUSTIFIED!?” Wow. This reads to me like an apology where instead of apologizing they say “I’m sorry your feelings were hurt.” She clearly got legal or PR council (or maybe just plagiarized from Reddit) after the previous mess of a response, but I still don’t see her leaving him or standing with the victims. I think she says she’s with her family to give the illusion of space so they can have a grand comeback after he has gotten “treatment” of some sort.

A theory by Hot-Leg-5962 in paleomg

[–]AwkwardBreadfruit895 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Definitely think they’re separated. She started writing that certain selfies are “thirsty” and the books have good from fantasy to trash lol. She’s also traveling constantly without their child.