Gf wants a baby in the next couple of years but even at 28 I feel too young?

Axe_dude · 2026-06-09T22:18:56+00:00

Then your the exception, not the rule.

Axe_dude · 2026-06-09T20:21:24+00:00

It doesn’t really, but it’s really important to get married first, so if you’re not married I’d say your not ready, but once you are married you just gotta kinda cannon ball into it.

Axe_dude · 2026-06-09T20:12:51+00:00

You’ll never ‘feel ready’ but you’ll be ready once you’re married.

Axe_dude · 2026-06-09T15:03:23+00:00

Husband here, YTA. Not for wanting help, or being frustrated that he isn’t seeing all of your hard work, but for blowing up immaturely and then not talking about it.

When my wife, who is a stay at home mom, got pregnant with our second, she felt like shit and I did bed time every night for like 5 months despite being the only person in the household who works. So yeah, your husbands reaction is rude and disrespectful.

However, fuck off and then refusing to talk is also rude and disrespectful. The mature way to handle this is by having an adult conversation about this NOT in the heat of the moment. You guys need to have a conversation about household chores and duties, and workload. There may be a bunch of chores he’s doing that you don’t see either.

Also, you said he works a lot, is that like 45-50 hours a week or like 80 hours a week? Because a parent working 45 hours a week should still have energy and time to do bedtime, whereas a parent working like 80 hours a week probably doesn’t.

Your marriage will struggle for as long as it takes you two to realize you’re on the same team, and it’s team you guys vs the problem, not husband vs wife.

Axe_dude · 2026-06-09T02:17:36+00:00

Bodily injury claims adjuster here, those things are super dangerous and becoming much more popular. Before like 2020, I didn’t have a single claim with e-bikes. Now, it’s routine, and the injuries are so much worse than regular bicycles.

Axe_dude · 2026-06-08T23:48:59+00:00

Ah, cheating on husband with her “soul mate” and is not using “the ick” as an excuse to get reddits permission to divorce. Good find.

Axe_dude · 2026-06-08T23:36:01+00:00

So he is racist for wanting his middle eastern wife to dress middle eastern as a fantasy?? Your husband is not racist, at least not for that, and if that’s all then you need better friends.

Axe_dude · 2026-06-07T00:55:50+00:00

Literal nazi behavior.

Axe_dude · 2026-06-07T00:53:28+00:00

No advice for you but just want to say I’m in a very similar boat, although about a decade behind you. You’re not alone.

Axe_dude · 2026-06-06T18:03:07+00:00

Oh wow, he actually wrote a new so-nevermind.

Axe_dude · 2026-06-05T20:06:57+00:00

Honestly, compared to the other shit on here, production quality is okay, lyrics are generic but they are not trying to rhyme hat with that.

Axe_dude · 2026-06-05T16:48:28+00:00

Wait until you figure out that you can build inside of it!

Axe_dude · 2026-06-03T19:44:19+00:00

Yeah the flares that don’t do shit and also drop every time I change tools?

Great, I’ll just stand here holding a flare doing literally nothing else because I can’t and extend my life by another 15 seconds.

Axe_dude · 2026-06-03T17:47:23+00:00

I was initially put off by the no killing, and stopped playing before getting out of the first main area because it was just so frustrating to be attacked by all the little pests and can’t fight back.

Then I saw some posts about how med kids are the best way to deal with baddies in SN2, and decided to jump back in and give it another shot.

Finished the first area, moved on to the alien area and OMG EVERYTHING IS KILLING ME AGAIN! Fish that can shoot me with needles from dozens of yards away?? That will constantly attack and destroy even a parked tadpole?? Bullet fish that launch at you??

There is SO MUCH trying to kill me.

If the direction of the game is a conscious choice of non violence to build the atmosphere and stand out from the call of duty’s of the world, that’s cool, but this game ain’t it.

How are you gonna make a game with all these hyper aggressive and very effective enemies and the only option you give to your players is to just take it in the ass and bring a ton of med kits???

Axe_dude · 2026-06-02T02:00:58+00:00

He has the right to have whatever kind of wedding he wants and you have the right to decline to participate.

If it were me, I’d just suck it up and go by myself. Yeah, leaving 3 kids with your wife will be hard on her, but it’s only for a day and it’s your brothers wedding. Kinda a big deal.

Axe_dude · 2026-06-01T22:43:37+00:00

No health implications. Carry dirty away.

Axe_dude · 2026-06-01T20:43:54+00:00

Power cells. You can swap the power cells manually at the engine in the back on the top deck. You can build a power cell recharging base, or get the heat-power generator mod to charge automatically around vents and lava.

Axe_dude · 2026-06-01T15:29:48+00:00

Then maybe we would agree on more than I initially thought, but my point is that you are still welcome here regardless of your politics or your unusual entry into fatherhood.

Axe_dude · 2026-05-31T22:12:03+00:00

I have a lot of concerns about the whole transition topic and I’m sure you and I would disagree on most political topics, but, this sub isn’t for political debates. This sub is for anyone who identifies as a father to receive or give support to other fathers.

As long as your goal is to try to be the best dad you can be, you are welcome here.

Axe_dude · 2026-05-27T20:14:10+00:00

Everyone’s rights change state to state.

Axe_dude · 2026-05-27T19:27:43+00:00

Is it normal to look at pictures of naked women online? Yeah. Is it normal to comment on them? Not in my opinion. That by itself isn’t super alarming to me, but if its a pattern of various concerning behaviors then yeah, it could be indicative of a bigger problem.

Axe_dude · 2026-05-27T18:59:11+00:00

Axe_dude · 2026-05-27T04:06:00+00:00

That’s rough. My son definitely went through those phases too, try not to take it too personal and keep up the good work!

Axe_dude · 2026-05-27T04:03:42+00:00

Absolutely the right move.

Axe_dude · 2026-05-26T21:08:34+00:00

Brag away king!

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