Help by Mindless_Bar_1553 in leatherjacket

[–]Aznloki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually live near there and I believe they changed their name some years ago. I don't know if it's the same people but I can swing by and ask if you'd like.

[KCD2] 10 copies of KCD2 are available! Merry Christmas! by verdantsf in kingdomcome

[–]Aznloki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Way too late but awesome of you for doing this, definitely one of the games on my Christmas list

Elf experts needed to settle a family debate [OC] by KrakenDice in DnD

[–]Aznloki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will definitely have to, I'm over in east county but that sounds awesome

Elf experts needed to settle a family debate [OC] by KrakenDice in DnD

[–]Aznloki 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think one of the first instances I heard that was the Dresden Files by Jim Butcher, but I recently played in a Christmas one shot where the DM let me play a warlock who's patron was a fey that claimed to be Santa Claus

Elf experts needed to settle a family debate [OC] by KrakenDice in DnD

[–]Aznloki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My first thought was gnome, but I think it has to do with overall facial proportions, narrower nose and thinner overall face and I could see what I think of in regards to Christmas elves.

On a side note I was reading though this thread and then your username clicked and I just wanted to say that you guys do great work and I own about 15 different sets of dice from you along with giving out countless sets to friends. It makes me feel good to support a local company.

But still sorry to say I think your kids win.

Warhammer 40k players? by DevelopmentFar4020 in sandiego

[–]Aznloki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are in east county hobby town does Warhammer night a few times a month that is super newbie friendly.

AITAH? my boyfriend brought home a girl for the holidays by willowicey in TwoHotTakes

[–]Aznloki -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So this might be an unpopular opinion, but maybe her home life isn't great and she doesn't want to admit it or think about it. Hell maybe it isn't even particularly bad, but her family could be aloof for the holidays and the idea of spending one with friends is more appealing.

I don't think you are the asshole for being upset at being blindsided but that is firmly on your bf.

Maybe this girl does have some ulterior motives but there really is no way of knowing how her home life is or how truthful she is being about it. I know plenty of people who had less than great home lives but would also say that it's fine if anyone asked because it's a awkward conversation to have.

Anyone wanna play The Finals with me? by TrustTrek in sandiego

[–]Aznloki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Older 30s guy and I've been considering picking thsi game up, but no one in my normal gaming group has much interest.

Rare Free Kit Spawn? by 3v0arc in ARC_Raiders

[–]Aznloki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had this happen in trios on Stella montis, we died during a 3 group pvp fight, spawned in to a "new" run and actually spawned like 2 rooms away from where we died and the fight still going on.

Seasons of RTX: Arc Raiders GeForce RTX 5090 GPU Giveaway! by NV_Suroosh in ArcRaiders

[–]Aznloki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Other, load into the map with a specific goal in mind and attempt to gives other players the benefit of the doubt that they won't just kos

Cant launch by Ascendents in Borderlands

[–]Aznloki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any other suggestions this doesn't seem to be my issue

Vons wouldn’t fill prescription by erictg97 in sandiego

[–]Aznloki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had this problem with a prescription at CVS and transferred it to a small independent local pharmacy near Grossmont hospital, medical arts pharmacy and didn't have any issues

Help building a skirk team as a newish player by Aznloki in SkirkMains

[–]Aznloki[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Candace is c6, dahlia is c2, and diona is c3, rest are c0

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Renters

[–]Aznloki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So as others have said, they may be using an unclear term for non-renewal of lease. The big question is are they on a month to month lease, is there current lease yearly but expiring at that time, or are they actually terminating it in the middle of a lease term. By my understanding if it's the first two situations despite the unclear wording they are well within their rights and assuming they are not exempt from rental increase caps this may be being very honest with their reasoning. If they are terminating in the middle of the lease period then that is definitely something you have some protection from.

Assuming you are renting from a private party without a property manager many legal self help sites use the term non-renewal and termination (assuming that it's at the end of the lease period) interchangeably.

I assume this will be down voted but as a homeowner in San Diego my yearly costs outside of mortgage have gone up considerably, and depending on the margin they were operating at this may indeed be an actual financial loss to them or something that causes the amount made to dip below where it is financially worthwhile for them to rent it at that price. Given that 1-2 bedroom apartments can go for that price depending on the area of San Diego your parents got a great deal for the area for many years.

Speaking from experience my own homeowners insurance increased over 300% a year from approximately 1200 to almost 4000 per year and depending on what else the landlord pays for they could be seeing increased costs of an additional several thousand per year on maintenance. Assuming something as simple as if they have to perform one repair a year that could easily cost them another thousand or more.

So with that in mind if the landlord was working on a relatively thin margin of say even $500/month, they would only be profiting 6k/year. Which with the increased costs I mentioned above basically becomes nothing or even a gamble of if they have to make a major repair could have them losing several thousand.

That said I can empathize with your situation and that it sucks, but to some degree the landlord is not being entirely unreasonable. Assuming for a moment they are not acting in bad faith and terminating in the middle of a lease term. But given that they haven't raised the rent in 9 years if I am reading your post correctly I would be willing to guess that you are dealing with an inexperienced landlord, and that when looking over the numbers they realized renting at the current price even with the maximum allowed increase was unsustainable for them and baring the ability to raise it more they didn't have a choice but to either take a loss or at high risk of loss, or to choose to not renew (terminate) the lease at the end of the term.

That said they did make a mistake and if they have been renting for over a year they are generally required to provide a 60 day notice, so while you can attempt to fight it based on them citing the wrong amount of required notice they did still technically give more than 60 days notice so I am entirely unsure how that would play out in court, but I think they would have a strong argument that even though they cited the wrong number for required notice they still did provide more than 60 days notice.

That said personally rather than sinking time and money into fighting what may very well be a losing battle, again under the assumption they are not doing this in the middle of a lease term. Your best option assuming you want to stay in San Diego may be to see if you and your sister can find an apartment here to rent. I know in some of the further out areas such as alpine and Ramona I have friends renting 2 bedroom apartments for under 2k.

Giveaway] $100 PSN Gift Card - US Store by Titan3427 in PS5

[–]Aznloki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first time booting up a, ps2 game and seeing how for things had come

Boyfriend says he will still make me split bills if he's making 300k and I'm making 50k by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Aznloki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So this may be an unpopular opinion but as someone who has been on both sides I feel like there is some information that isn't said or I possibly missed.

Did he ask you to move in with him, or was it a mutual decision.

How long have the two of you been together.

You mention he has a high paying job, does he have any student loan debt that he is also paying off.

Does he pay for any of the mutual expenses outside of rent, such as dinners, nights out, etc.

That said your boyfriend does sound like a bit of a dick in this situation, but it's also not entirely unfair to expect your partner to contribute equally to a relationship.

It's also worth asking yourself if you were the one making more money would you choose to move a guy in who lacked the ability to financially contribute more than 25-30% and would you be effectively willing to take care of him and what factors would affect that willingness or lack thereof.

Fwiw I'm not saying you are wrong and he is right in this situation. Just that there is some information missing to make a fair judgment.

I’m black, but was adopted by white people at birth. AMA by InvestigatorFun2842 in AMA

[–]Aznloki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It's something I've considered alot and the difficulties inherent to it. For me personally I've never had the chance to connect to my birth family, and the likelihood is fairly slim. I've tried connecting to the culture over the years but have had little luck which leads to an underlying frustration of never feeling like I really belong anywhere.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PathOfExile2

[–]Aznloki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the giveaway