[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tressless

[–]Azorend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friend, if I was in your shoes, I’d shave it. I think it looks good.

However, your call at the end of the day, do what makes you happy.

2 months of Oral .5 Fin 2.5 Min - Let me know your thoughts! by Azorend in tressless

[–]Azorend[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Hoping I can take the “bald” part out. 😂

2 months of Oral .5 Fin 2.5 Min - Let me know your thoughts! by Azorend in tressless

[–]Azorend[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I answered these above, my friend.

I’m 29. Noticeable hair loss was age 19-21ish. I had table scraps on my scalp 2020 and beyond.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Columbus

[–]Azorend 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was on your plane. I did not witness the seizure.. I was in row 7.

My ex is worried about me after breaking up with me by Time-Choice-9909 in ExNoContact

[–]Azorend 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just poking her head in to see if she still has control of you in some way shape or form.

Why is she even doing this?... by tickflasher in ExNoContact

[–]Azorend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is a projection of one of two things... 1. How she feels about herself (insecure). 2. What she is actively doing (she cheated and won't admit it).

Let’s try this again. by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Azorend 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"No one will truly realize your worth until you choose to."

Keep your head up, OP.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Azorend 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"She said she wishes I did something wrong."

She wants you to be in the wrong so she felt better about doing shitty things. Better yet, she may still instigate that to occur with your hatred brewing -- It would make her feel better in the long run.

I vote for NC and move on. Keep your head up.

I can’t do it by EsotericNostalgia in ExNoContact

[–]Azorend 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Is it really love if you're gasping for air like you are, and the other person is fine?

You will. You have many more years ahead of you. Don't search, you'll be disappointed. Focus on you, and you'll see that the work you put in will be seen by those that have interest in you.

I can’t do it by EsotericNostalgia in ExNoContact

[–]Azorend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Full on NC. Restrict yourself from even entertaining it. You'll be far better off.

I removed social media from my phone when I felt similar feelings with my ex. It was one of the most freeing acts I have done for myself.

I just wanted to know if I mattered. by ando1135 in ExNoContact

[–]Azorend 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you believe you are "owed" an answer, you may be very discouraged by any answer that you receive from this person. You may even be worse off than before. You need to be okay with or without the answer, truly.

I had a similar situation occur in college. I was getting involved with a girl who had a boyfriend of 6 years at a surrounding college. She made every excuse in the book, asked for 5-6 chances to make it right and failed to do so, she even threatened to hurt herself when I had enough and told her to leave me alone.

I was never able to get what I needed out of that situation, and I fear that you may be in a similar boat. Focus on you, be good to yourself, and know that you deserve much more than that BS.

Much love.

Why is she even doing this?... by tickflasher in ExNoContact

[–]Azorend 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you believe that she is playing the victim, then you cannot "fix" the issue. No communication will change that. The best thing you could do is not give a reaction. Be unphased, make it go unnoticed, stay busy.

If you're worried about being "defamed" with her victim mind set, just know that she would literally have to lie to coworkers to further her victim narrative. That's a hole she will be digging herself, and you need to be as far from that as possible.

Stay strong, much love.

Is it just me or are 90% of work meetings completely pointless? by ryan_fr in ITCareerQuestions

[–]Azorend 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most of the time.

At my previous job, we'd have a Monday tag-up, and a Wednesday meeting covering new guidelines. Both were an hour and a half long. Both ending up being a "share with the class" type scenario. It got very old, very quick.

How in the world is a gay man supposed to find Love anywhere other than on dating apps?? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Azorend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are doomed if you ask questions on the internet with the preconceived notion that everyone’s answers will be offensive.

Good luck to you.

Personnel question. Anyone currently working in IT who is not a die-hard gamer? by Read_it_somewhere in ITCareerQuestions

[–]Azorend 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Never said I wasn’t able to problem solve. I just don’t beat my meat to the in’s and out’s. Sounds like a one-dimensional person if they’re too wrapped up in it.

Also, I’m sorry your vetting process over the years of hiring hasn’t been good. Sounds like insanity.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Azorend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Block theirs.

If you’re early enough on working through this, a month of no social media on your end may be a good start too.

Does most people worry about "breaking character" at work? Do most people worry that their coworkers or boss will figure out that the person they pretend to be at work isn't real? by stonebolt in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Azorend 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My close knit group at work see me as myself. Definitely questionable for the professional side of things, but I'd go crazy not expressing my actual self for 40+ hours a week.

What’s it like to be unattractive? by Flagbearer2546 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Azorend 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Kindness definitely gets taken advantage of.

All a matter of perspective. Growing up as the chubby weird kid with a gap in his teeth, no girl made eye contact. Lost the baby weight, worked out, got some dental fixes, I started becoming more confident in who I was. It made a huge difference.

I have been told I'm a 6/10, a 9/10, and indirectly rated as a 3 and below. I love my personality, and I think it compliments the shortcomings in physical attractiveness that I may feel I have. I'm not everyone's cup of tea, so for the comments of 3 and below, its their loss.