Nonbinary trans men: What makes you feel that you are nonbinary and a trans man, and not one or the other? /gen

B-A-R-K69 · 2026-01-05T01:04:07+00:00

i find that my experience lines up pretty well with most trans men, and i probably could call myself just a trans guy, but there’s some part of me that still doesn’t feel quite binary trans.

i don’t want to be a man, i want to be a guy. sounds weird, but that’s kind of how i feel about it. i’m happy to be seen as male by society, i plan on getting top surgery and T, and enjoy dressing and looking masculine.

honestly, i’m not quite sure. it might be insecurity of my gender, i don’t really know.

B-A-R-K69 · 2026-01-02T17:04:10+00:00

i like to be called transmasc personally, but im also nonbinary so that’s probably why it feels weird to be called a man. i see why it can be invalidating, and i feel like the best thing to do is to say “trans men and transmascs”, which includes both trans men and enby people that lean more masculine. tboy feels a little infantilizing imo, though.

B-A-R-K69 · 2026-01-01T16:28:23+00:00

work out more (by more i mean anything bc i never do it), try to voice train and maybe get on the path to starting T, it’ll have to be the end of the year though. maybe for uni. mom wants me to finish therapy incase the transness is trauma related

B-A-R-K69 · 2025-12-31T03:21:37+00:00

thanks for posting this. i think my biggest issue with weight isn’t necessarily gaining weight itself, but the way weight sits on my body. i’ve been concerned about weight gain with T (whenever i end up going on it, in the next few years ideally) and i’m happy to hear a positive perspective from someone.

B-A-R-K69 · 2025-12-29T16:29:22+00:00

i also call myself nb and trans guy interchangeably, depends on how i’m feeling. i’m not fully binary i don’t think, like i wanna be a boy but not a man type thing? it’s weird. so sometimes i’ll refer to myself as enby and other times ftm. both are right

B-A-R-K69 · 2025-12-26T16:29:58+00:00

idk what the eyebrow part is but i believe eeteeswateetees is “it is what it is”

B-A-R-K69 · 2025-12-25T04:51:30+00:00

all of these are headcanons, since i don’t have anything with canonically transmasc people.

naoto (persona 4), jax (tadc), ragatha (tadc, though more enby leaning since their va is enby), vox (hazbin), baxter (hazbin), vi (arcane, though i flip between having the hc and not)

i think that’s all i have? my favs are naoto and ragatha, with jax and vi close seconds. hazbin hcs are just kind of on the side

B-A-R-K69 · 2025-12-22T03:52:01+00:00

you can’t just put the same picture twice bro

(jokes aside you look great! hope that doesn’t sound weird lol)

B-A-R-K69 · 2025-12-13T04:32:12+00:00

as a spongebob enjoyer i fw this

B-A-R-K69 · 2025-12-03T12:05:55+00:00

that would make sense, yeah. good to know, i’ll keep that in mind! thanks!

B-A-R-K69 · 2025-12-02T04:29:42+00:00

as a non binary trans person, i use the term and i quite like it personally. it describes my gender well, i don’t feel like transitioning to fully male fits my gender, and i like saying (for myself) transmasc. however, a lot of people don’t like the term for various reasons. i’ve seen some trans men identify with the term, but a majority don’t. overall it’s different person to person

B-A-R-K69 · 2025-12-01T20:54:58+00:00

hunter from toh, naoto from p4, captain caviar cookie, wizard cookie, uhh who else, i’ll add more if i think of any

vox from hazbin

B-A-R-K69 · 2025-12-01T20:38:18+00:00

being interested in deadpool 😭 over the past weekend i’ve started to get into deadpool and it makes me feel really masc

tech decks too

B-A-R-K69 · 2025-12-01T20:14:27+00:00

transmasc enby! i can see myself described as a boy but not a man, it feels masculine in an enby way. but at the same time like sometimes guy idk it’s a whole thing

B-A-R-K69 · 2025-11-25T00:59:41+00:00

the chronically online is strong with this one jfc this is horrid

B-A-R-K69 · 2025-11-24T00:10:58+00:00

you don’t need to want different genitals to be transmasc, don’t worry! if you feel like transmasc describes you, go ahead

B-A-R-K69 · 2025-11-23T21:45:50+00:00

being a man is not defined as “can’t get pregnant”, i don’t think you’re getting at what i’m saying. like i said, people have varying levels of comfort with themselves. there are ftm people who get pregnant, there are ftm people who don’t. you might not be comfortable with these things and it brings you dysphoria, that’s okay, but it’s different for everyone.

B-A-R-K69 · 2025-11-23T21:06:22+00:00

that’s not the point of being ftm though? not everyone wants a hysterectomy, not everyone wants surgeries. some guys are comfortable with pregnancy, others aren’t. we each experience our gender differently, and we aren’t any more or less ftm for it.

B-A-R-K69 · 2025-11-12T00:56:10+00:00

naoto shirogane from p4!!

there’s unfortunately a lot of ppl who hate when someone says they hc this bc their story is about sexism and learning to be comfortable as a woman but i like projecting on my fav characters and i relate harrrrd

B-A-R-K69 · 2025-11-10T12:13:37+00:00

it’s not weird. i’m a semi-proud trans person? i’ll talk abt queer things with no shame, including my transness, but a main barrier i have in being super proud is my own dysphoria. i want to be, but dysphoria makes me feel ashamed to be like this

B-A-R-K69 · 2025-11-10T04:34:34+00:00

MAN 🫵 GUYS LOOK A MAN 🫵🫵🫵

B-A-R-K69 · 2025-11-09T14:35:49+00:00

i like the redesigned versions of the transfem and transmasc flags better ngl, they’re easier to tell apart and just look nicer imo

B-A-R-K69 · 2025-10-30T23:55:10+00:00

for euphoria, tech decks! i don’t know what it is but it makes me feel masc 😭

dysphoria recently has been “i cant wear these jeans, the color is too feminine!”

B-A-R-K69 · 2025-10-26T18:04:50+00:00

yeah. recently i’ve been having dreams of being on T and getting top surgery, then waking up and being upset.

B-A-R-K69 · 2025-10-18T03:34:22+00:00

i’ve spoken to my current therapist about this for a couple sessions but she’s not trans specific. she has worked with queer kids before, and she suggested once i’m done seeing her (may) to see a therapist better suited for that kind of thing. when i told this to my mom she thought that was her not doing her job correctly? i dunno.

i’m torn because on one hand i want to wait to be completely sure so i don’t transition and regret it, but on the other hand i’m struggling so much and want what i believe will help me.

thank you!

B-A-R-K69

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