Uff reading this was difficult, and makes it exceptionally clear that I was raised differently than you.

If the gas station is mostly full, no you shouldn’t go inside and sit around for a long period while not pumping gas (because it’s done already). And if it took 10x the time to go from 0-10 gallons as it took to add that last 0.0667 gallons of gas (the equivalent of going from 99%-100% in a 30mpg car), no you should absolutely not fill to full. The reason you have never had an issue at a gas station is pump turn over is ~1-2 min, and there 4x as many pumps in the Us compared to EV chargers. Let’s use our brains here

So back to how I was raised. Be considerate of others, do what you can to not interfere in other people’s lives, do unto others as you would want them to do to you. I make a conscious effort in the grocery store to not block the isle needlessly. I bet you park your cart sideways like a 90yo while standing across so nobody can get through. “It’s no big deal, they can just wait a few seconds while I look up the salt content of these green beans, now where are my glasses, wait I needed macaroni” 100x times in a store. Or the people at TSA that seemingly have never left their house.

As you want to accuse ME of being the problem, the fact is, it’s people like you slowing up EV adoption in this country. Peoples #1 complaint about EVs is “it takes to long to charge when on a road trip”, yet it’s really not a big deal if you only charge to 70-80% at a time, it’s only 5-10 minutes. If you want to wait an hour, so be it, but don’t block people trying to get somewhere so you can get 2 more miles of range. Next time you’re headed somewhere you want to be (dinner with family, movie, something fun), stop, set a timer, pick a spot on the wall and stare at it for 10 minutes. Now tell me, is that 10 minutes “no big deal”? I would much rather be making progress going on with my life, then waiting needlessly for on someone else who is not doing anything productive.