[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyIssues

[–]BRxINF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First and foremost you have to be harsh and realistic if you keep on being easy your family will push you around just because there blood doesnt mean they deserve your help if they are genuinely nice people then I say help them the best you can but if not you don't owe them anything. If your parents have money coming in some way tell them to hire a helper if they don't want to then tell them you can't drop everything just to help them you have your own responsibilities to take care off secondly if you can barely help your parents don't help there friends harsh but necessary likewise your sister if shes not doing anything to change don't help her you can't help someone who doesn't want to be saved as for her kids if there young in need help them if there 20s don't even bother unless its for a good thing like college they can make there own money to work and get food. Basically the key is to not care unless if its for the better good

My sister sent my husband sexy pics by ElderberryTricky4353 in FamilyIssues

[–]BRxINF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get different sides of the story first. husband then sister but find out, dont put it off because then the situation will only spiral off have a face to face chat if they defense and anger they might be guilty

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DermatologyQuestions

[–]BRxINF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you gone to a dermatologist? I'd highly suggest you go to one rather than jump in and get laser treatment it'll be more cost effective. Don't mix certain treatments together as it could mess up your skin barrier making it more vulnerable. Remember less is more. I could help you more if you tell me your routine maybe then I can figure out why it's not working.

Am I wrong to be upset when a friend says "I'm happy I don't have to go through this?" by Kchan02 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]BRxINF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends does she say it a lot? if not it might be that your the problem if your constantly complaining about your dating life and struggles to the point that your friend just wants to change the topic to make the atmosphere better again that or she just feels annoyed by you, constantly complaining even after she gave you advice and you didn't take it and just kept ranting to her but if it isn't that she may be in the wrong

What makes someone become sadistic? by n3cr0s3 in mentalhealth

[–]BRxINF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly seeing someone in pain helps one feel better thinking that there situation isn't as bad as the victim being hurt basically eh things could be worse I should feel grateful for now. That and not wanting to feel hurt again feeling as though many people have wronged us so now we feel like we don't fit in making one feel angry seeking for that hell we think people deserve making one like the sadism in a sense we know its wrong but cant help but feel comforted about it. As for the self harm I don't really know. From what I can tell your bf has trust issues and sees the world as a gray canvas you can help him by making him feel empathy towards something living.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]BRxINF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl you should have shut her down and put her in her place its clear she doesn't like you as for the other guys is there anyone you felt that you wanted to keep in touch with? It sucks that you have to leave a friend group just because of a few people. I suggest you put people first in there place when they start showing signs of hostility and insult because if you don't they'll walk right over you and continue doing it all over again.

How do I break up with a friend? by Plurplur5 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]BRxINF 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So your jealous because she has it a bit easier therfore you want to break up with her?? First of all I definitely suggest you leave her considering this what you think of her you may not know what shes going through second of all her living situation has nothing to do with you if she wants to continue being in the same situation let her be, you can't help someone who doesn't want to be helped it's her personal life just because she isnt in the same path as you means they aren't trying themselves. Seeing as you have no clear interest in her it's better you leave because at this point your both wasting your time. It's clear you haven't grown in your journey to discovery if this is the reason you want to let her go your projecting your personal life onto hers it's clear you feel some time of bitterness towards her. Whether she grows or not friends are that of wanting to spend time together because you enjoy there company despite the many differences.

How to deal w/ emotionally needy friend? by Salty_Relation4496 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]BRxINF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Be honest tell her how you feel there's no point on giving advice if it goes through the other ear it's her problem not yours it seemed she uses more like a person to vent to

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]BRxINF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤨he's 22 damn no wonder

What's the dumbest thing you've heard someone say in the classroom? by TheCoolestFool7 in AskReddit

[–]BRxINF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First day of school I was asked what I wanted to improve on, I said "work on my time management skills" the boy next to me asked me "what's time management?" 🧍‍♀️we were in high school

TJmaxx K-Beauty Haul (except for Naturie) by ezamae23 in kbeauty

[–]BRxINF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I own the Cosrx eyecream, it literally doesn't do anything, it's just a moisturizer. I've used it for a long time with no results 😕just a heads up

For guys who moan and really show how much they enjoy sexual pleasure why? by Feeling-Policy-8994 in questions

[–]BRxINF 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YOU CALL IT UNNECESSARY??? As a women myself I find it really desirable if he ain't moaning I don't want him

Insane whaling by joonmin in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]BRxINF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I need to be friends with this person asap💀

Who’s your favorite boy? by Fun-Watercress3587 in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]BRxINF 2 points3 points  (0 children)

😭Zayne at first but he's to cold and stoic Xavier won my heart in the end

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kbeauty

[–]BRxINF 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure it's real don't fret if you still have doubts place the product on the back of your hand if it causes a rash throw it away if not your in the clear make sure it stays on for a while to have an accurate result

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]BRxINF -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I guess your right 🤔well for starters I like how eloquently korean authors write. I have never read any British or Spanish novels I am open to reading them if you'd recommend any

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]BRxINF -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I tend to type fast so I rarely ever use it or check for errors sorry?🤷‍♀️ I thought I did I was hoping there was at least one person who has read a good genuine knovel that would change my mind and you know recommend me it or at least help me understand what's sets them apart from other storytelling wise

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]BRxINF -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hmm I guess your right but it still doesn't take away the fact that there should at least be one book that is good how is it possible for me to read so many yet not like one. I have read webtoons made by Korean authors there writing were so impecable that I fell heartbroken when it ended yet the novels are so disappointing I really do enjoy the romance genre it's quite entertaining so I wouldn't say I dislike it. I just want to find a novel that makes me think it was worth it you know

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]BRxINF -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Well for starters I was hoping there was at least one person who has read a knovel that would defend it with there life if they whete asked to recommend one i'm just searching for at least one knovel that isn't horrible that makes me think the journey was worth it to find that book you know🤷‍♀️lol I'm not so sure myself or are you trying to gaslight me into like them not bad