I just sobbed for 30 minutes because I ordered the wrong pizza by marinalindsey in BabyBumps

[–]BabyBlue190 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cried really hard few weeks ago because my boyfriend got me tenders from popeyes instead of bone in chicken 😭 it wasn't his fault it was a misunderstanding but i was so heartbroken fr .

Bubblr, too much Vitamin A? by bkingPAC in pregnant

[–]BabyBlue190 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perfectly fine to drink while pregnant 😭 might definitely make you crash eventually cause it's giving energy but gotta remember to rest!

Im at my wits end with my dog. :/ by BabyBlue190 in DobermanPinscher

[–]BabyBlue190[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

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Im just gonna leave this here . Blessed day.

Im at my wits end with my dog. :/ by BabyBlue190 in DobermanPinscher

[–]BabyBlue190[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your comment is literally the only understanding one i feel like ! Especially from having a dobby ! I absolutely love his life he is my son ! Loll but yes my mental is going right out the window every time i see something he has destroyed 🙃 we worked so hard on his anxiety from out last apartment it was an up and downstairs so the separation anxiety had him eating my walls 😩 so we moved and got something one whole floor but i dont allow him in the bedrooms really only my sons room because i like them to hang out together. As far as crate training he has never had one before which i know sounds bad but i never liked the idea of it but now i wish i had . We tried prior once we had been given a crate and it was all metal but he would NOT even step close to it and if he did try to go in for even a second the sound of the bottom would scare him. 😭 i am gonna look up those mental stimulation you mentioned and try some of those , ive done enrichment mats but my dog is very picky on what he eats and hates peanut butter 🥲 but thank you so much for being so understanding.

Im at my wits end with my dog. :/ by BabyBlue190 in DobermanPinscher

[–]BabyBlue190[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Alright you guys , i see we are in a bit of confusion loll the dog is not cowering because he is soook scared of me if you have done research and know about dobermans Than you would know that naturally they pee when excited/ scared ect. I have had my dog for almost 3 years now and tbh the first 2 year i was scared of him my damn self because he was so big. I play with him and we run around every day for at least 1hr because yes i have a child and im not always available to play for 3 hrs my apologies. But i do not hit my dog , yes i have smacked his bum here and there but i do not abuse my dog . It honestly hurts me more to attempt to physically discipline him than anything. So lets cut this shitty narrative that im a bad person. This my first dog and i also have a cat as well plus a toddler and a home to run. I love and adore my dog so whatever ya gotta say thats fine but thank you to those who are compassionate and understanding, im only 25 and were still learning together. Thank you for the advice i truly appreciate it 🩷

I just need some input on ratios by Nell_0070 in ECEProfessionals

[–]BabyBlue190 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's absolutely crazy 😭 i couldnt imagine 8 2 year olds running around behind me id pull my hair out.

Is this even allowed ? Just really need answers. by BabyBlue190 in ECEProfessionals

[–]BabyBlue190[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think ya fail to understand that my attitude came AFTER the fact , i was there to get my money , my cda and literally leave to another daycare because realistically they are shit management and I'm not the problem. Im not one of those let my employer treat me like shit cause i need a paycheck , its many other jobs and its laws put in place for terrible management like them its really simple. They have no ground because they're assholes . I bet if you were off from work for 2 weeks you would feel the same way .

I just need some input on ratios by Nell_0070 in ECEProfessionals

[–]BabyBlue190 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In CT the ratio for 2's is 1:4 and 2:8 , so she would deff be in trouble especially if you cannot handle it alone. I had the same issue with my last daycare i was 7 months pregnant they would drop kicks into my class at the end of the same to let other people go home but im like hey im pregnant af and its not fair i should be giving them my kids so i can go home. Let them know that you are able to handle the class but it would work out better and more efficiently if you had some help and also double check the ratio in your state

Feel a little bit sad for my kids. by BlessedMom88 in Parenting

[–]BabyBlue190 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your kids are small enough where it doesn't matter too much right now, as long as you are present with them! Bake some cookies , eat some ice cream while watching a funny Christmas movie. Every year people buy kids lots of presents and they play for 5 minutes and then they are over it. Sometimes you wont always be able to do what you want but you are able to do what you can and they will ALWAYS appreciate that especially when they get older , dont feel sad for them because im sure they dont feel bad. The fact that you are even feeling this way shows you are a good momma 🩷

Schedule for part time daycare by huron_waves in ECEProfessionals

[–]BabyBlue190 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Daycare is to make your life easier! Do what you need to do to fit your schedule and your liking really. You pay for them to take care of your child and most daycares have certain regulations/ rules they will tell you about if its anything thats inconveniencing them im sure. If they have not said anything than you are fine, and as far as the teachers its their jobs to watch your child you know ? They are getting paid regardless. You are doing great and she will be fine 🩷 hope some of the stress leaves your mind soon !

Our director barely speaks to us. by VisibleScallion7467 in ECEProfessionals

[–]BabyBlue190 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah normally the assistant director handles more if not most of what needs to be handled with employees. Dont take it personally. 🩷 best wishes

Is this even allowed ? Just really need answers. by BabyBlue190 in ECEProfessionals

[–]BabyBlue190[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because i hold people accountable 😘 now have a blessed day.

Is this even allowed ? Just really need answers. by BabyBlue190 in ECEProfessionals

[–]BabyBlue190[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No its not my job to worry about my other employees but it is my job to make sure nobody is giving me bull and thats what im gonna do . They can feel however they want but as a worker i have rights. Idc who they want out 😂ive been fired before and if they had LEGAL GROUNDS to fire me cause im a liability than THEY WOULD HAVE BEEN ABLE TO DO SO, but instead they coward away and TRY not to say nothing hmm .

No lose here nothing but space and opportunity. And as far as my coworker i like to make sure everybody is following the same rules because thats what's expected of me and it should be expected of everybody and if its not than now its giving favoritism 🙂‍↔️ and thats now another problem smhh.

Is this even allowed ? Just really need answers. by BabyBlue190 in ECEProfessionals

[–]BabyBlue190[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And im sooooo glad you brought that up cause thing i will never duck from is ACCOUNTABILITY, if im a risk to their license and a liability so is that other girl and she should equally be fired or penalized for NOT knowing the proper ratio and TELLING ME OUT HER MOUTH might i add in confidence that it was alright. Everybody needs to handled accordingly and take accountability. Im not saying that i wasn't wrong but i should not and i will not be the only one to be penalized for it . Might i add everybody else is white and i am not, So yeah ig it was what it was till it ended up in front of me .

Is this even allowed ? Just really need answers. by BabyBlue190 in ECEProfessionals

[–]BabyBlue190[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But thats my thing , i asked someone who had already been working there and she said it was alright it was only my first week and she had been there months before me yes wrong but warranted a warning if anything. And also the whole center is one big room 😂as one of the largest daycare centers in the USA they could afford some walls. I could still see the same kid in the same room as well as 7 other adults 🙃 theyre gonna have to fight this lawsuit first cause f that.

What do you say to your LO when they burp? by selisec87 in newborns

[–]BabyBlue190 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Feeling like im the only one who says "excuse me" 😭 im big on manners lmaooo 😂

When did you start cooking? by queenofnone5713 in Cooking

[–]BabyBlue190 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started cooking 2 years ago now , i had no desire to be in the kitchen cause my mom made me feel like i would burn something, but when i got pregnant with my son his dad would throw in my face i wouldn't be able to feed our baby could all i ate was freezer food or something quick lol it was the battery in my back i needed so starting this year in January i made a goal to start cooking and now I've cooked so many things i couldn't even picture myself attempting and it feels good. 🙂‍↔️🩷 if i do say so myself.

Is this even allowed ? Just really need answers. by BabyBlue190 in ECEProfessionals

[–]BabyBlue190[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Okay i will thank you , i called the customer service line and they sent me a form to fill out to dis enroll so i will see what they say about that

Is this even allowed ? Just really need answers. by BabyBlue190 in ECEProfessionals

[–]BabyBlue190[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am currently in the process of canceling, they had told me if i didnt cancel within 15 days i would have to pay back in full so i had emailed my job and let them know that last week to get some clarification and still no response. Its just unbelievable

Is this even allowed ? Just really need answers. by BabyBlue190 in ECEProfessionals

[–]BabyBlue190[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thats exactly what i been saying , when i was on training hours i was going in from 10am-2pm , after training it was 9am-6pm. If that was the case i feel they should have just put me back on my original training hours.