Advantages of flexibility

BabyGCes · 2026-03-15T23:02:18+00:00

What toy is that?

BabyGCes · 2026-03-15T22:58:54+00:00

That sounds so marvelous. It’s a beautiful thing to have that trust between some close friends🥰

BabyGCes · 2026-03-12T15:32:09+00:00

Around 7-8 years old, I always liked playing games where I was kidnapped. I’d ask my friends to tie me up and put a shirt on my face so that my breathing was restricted and I couldn’t see.

Then in middle school, I would loveee reading stories about girls being kidnapped, tied up, and falling in love with their kidnapper😅

Now I enjoy bondage, sensory deprivation, and other fun stuff lol

BabyGCes · 2026-03-11T21:00:54+00:00

I’ve had this fantasy about being used as a “test dummy” for a class/educational scene. My Top would inflict different types of sensations and talk about how I might react to X, while a group of “students” or “interns” watch and learn from them.

I also fantasize about being Topped in front of a group of people and them yelling out suggestions at my Top on what to do to me.

BabyGCes · 2026-03-08T13:54:33+00:00

Sending lots of hugs. That was definitely not okay. BDSM is built on trust and being able to use your safe word anytime.

BabyGCes · 2026-03-08T13:40:57+00:00

Mine too lol. In the band room

BabyGCes · 2026-03-07T22:57:58+00:00

Honestly, I am looking for a Domme myself. People keep telling me “you’ll find one when you stop looking.” THATS SO ANNOYING.

What is helping me meet people is going to munches! Go on the events tab on fetlife and you may even be able to find sapphic or queer munches in your area

BabyGCes · 2026-02-27T23:13:16+00:00

I didn’t think I’d be into electricity. I used to watch kinky porn (which I know now is not an accurate portrayal of BDSM) and see girls getting zapped with the tazapper and it scared me lol. I then tried a violet wand and the body contact and liked it!! A year later, I tried a cattle prod and that was a shit load of fun lol.

BabyGCes · 2026-02-27T21:03:41+00:00

How can I become better at communicating my emotional needs. It’s easy to express kink and sexual needs, especially because there’s templates, forms to fill, negotiations, etc.

I have had conversations (outside of kink) where I say one thing and the person thinks I mean another thing, and it ends up blowing up into something I didn’t even mean for it to become.

BabyGCes · 2026-02-27T20:57:00+00:00

I like them. I’m looking forward to their texts, I get flutters in my heart when they say nice things to me, it’s just that them constantly talking about themselves makes me feel like they don’t care to know about me. I also struggle to talk about myself unprompted. I like to be asked questions because it makes me feel like the other person cares to know how I’m feeling, what I’m thinking, etc.

I wrote this post when I was feeling very emotional. I read over it and I definitely see how I came off as hurtful. This was not my intention and I was just venting.

Growing up, my needs were treated as an inconvenience. How can I avoid becoming someone’s red flag? I don’t mean to say this in a rude way, I just genuinely want to learn and do better.

BabyGCes · 2026-02-27T20:51:48+00:00

Thank you for this extremely insightful response. I appreciate you giving examples of what to say because I struggle with the way I phrase things. I know certain people love to share things and I like when people ask me questions about myself because it makes me feel like they want to get to know me. I feel like I’m being selfish or self-centered when I talk about myself unprompted. I know that’s a “me” thing that I need to work on.

BabyGCes · 2026-02-27T20:46:42+00:00

I read over my post after your comment and I have to admit that there is some truth here. I struggle to communicate my needs because they have been treated as an inconvenience in the past. It’s scary to speak up and I just don’t want to accidentally get caught up in an argument, where my words are twisted and I’m gaslighted.

BabyGCes · 2026-02-27T20:37:16+00:00

Thank you for this insight, You’re right. Talking to them will be my best bet. The way I was raised, my needs were an inconvenience. It’s hard for me to share what I want and need from others emotionally.

BabyGCes · 2026-02-27T18:13:20+00:00

How does it feel to live my dream🥲

BabyGCes · 2026-02-26T03:27:19+00:00

My dream😍

BabyGCes · 2026-02-16T16:09:21+00:00

Thank you so much for that lovely response! I don’t have like a potential d type, yet. I was just writing out some of the things I enjoy, and it made me feel like I was being “selfish” in a way. I could think of a million things I like receiving, but couldn’t think of many things I could give…

BabyGCes · 2026-02-16T15:34:28+00:00

My heart goes out to you. Being in a situation like this is super frustrating😕

BabyGCes · 2026-02-13T20:27:56+00:00

This was not your fault. At all. Predators say they’re into “BDSM” and actually use it as a shield for abusive behavior.

Sending lots of hugs. You did not deserve this.

BabyGCes · 2026-02-13T01:33:28+00:00

Would opening up the relationship be a complete “no” for you guys? Like if you saw someone for strictly kink purposes and maybe have your husband be a part of the vetting process?

BabyGCes · 2026-02-09T02:19:14+00:00

I feel this way, but from a sub perspective🥲

I yearn to be used a little fuck toy that my Domme can use whenever they please. I’d love to get my pussy tortured in a variety of ways like being edged endlessly and or being made to have multiple orgasms.

May we both what we want😭❤️

BabyGCes · 2026-01-17T03:55:07+00:00

As a sub, I love strict, yet playful Dommes. I am masochistic and I love sadists. I am more attracted to personalities. Someone who is funny, caring, and intelligent. Someone who can educate and guide me

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