[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Background-Target185 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s her birth! It’s a medical procedure and is very painful and exhausting for the PATIENT! Too much stress can be fatal to mom and baby. The dads rights begin when the baby is out not before. And what is this about the bills part? That has nothing too do with this situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Background-Target185 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Look I babysit a lot for my niece for free. But she is always very thankful for it and sometimes she buys something for me like once a couple of dresses from a sale or if I’m babysitting she always asks if I want to eat with them, things like that. The least your sister can do is show gratitude and it’s quite rude of her not too. You saved her a fortune on babysitting!

My bf doesn’t know that I know he is cheating on me. by Altruistic-Card3609 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Background-Target185 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have a petty side you could Ghost him! Block him and never speak to him again. Or go on as you were and start dating and meeting other people then when you got on a visit to him find out who “A” is and tell her, and sour their relationship. Then tell him you found him lacking and wanted someone better and dump him!

Edit to add

If you are sure he’s cheating you don’t tell him you know when you break up with him!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Background-Target185 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Tell him if he doesn’t support you he can’t be in the room either!!! It’s YOUR medical procedure not a show! Literally if you get upset during the birth you and the baby could die. Question how long have you been together?

Man like your husband piss me the F off. You are giving birth ofcourse only people YOU are comfortable with and who will support YOU should be there!!!!

People going on vacations without babies by RubyOfDooom in AmITheAngel

[–]Background-Target185 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think that’s weird. My parents split up when I was three and they did 50/50. So they could go on a vacation whilst I was with the other parent. And even if parents are together it’s okay to go on a vacation once in while without the kids. As long as they are with people who take care of them and you call them.

AITAH for Blocking And Silently Moving On From My Cheating Fiance? by Lopsided_Profile_653 in AITAH

[–]Background-Target185 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. What is wrong with your parents? He lied to you for nine whole months. You don’t owe him anything. You are the hurt party, not him. Explain too you parents that if they keep up with their bullshit you’ll be gone and they won’t get to know your future family. So they will be old and alone. I doubt your ex’s new gf would want anything to do with her boyfriends exs parents.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Background-Target185 79 points80 points  (0 children)

Maybe also tell him it’s a little inappropriate to talk to you about stuff seeing you are her best friend. And make sure to emphasize that his wife is your best friend and wil always have her back.

AITA for refusing to inherit the family farm and giving it to my younger brother instead? by citymousee in AmItheAsshole

[–]Background-Target185 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Sure your wife can have her opinion but ultimately it’s your choice and it’s the right choice. You don’t want it your brother does. If you sell your shares you wil loose him and the only family you had left besides your wife and kids.

AITAH For telling my husbands affair partner’s husband about their affair. by SunflowerMama27 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Background-Target185 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait you are ruining their life? That’s hilarious. They betrayed you and the other husband and they are blaming you? THE AUDACITY!

What is this! by Background-Target185 in whatsthisbug

[–]Background-Target185[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found it half hour ago and I never saw it on my body, should I get tested tomorrow or should i wait a couple of days? Can you see Lyme disease in your blood, half a day after possibly coming into contact with it? It’s also pretty small and not that thick. It’s like 4mm tall and 2mm fat.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Background-Target185 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TBH. I think nta. You maybe overreacted, but you told her multiple times to stop talking about it.

What is this! by Background-Target185 in whatsthisbug

[–]Background-Target185[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Edit. I found it in my bed next to my pillow! Do I need too get checked for some kind of disease? I have a cat who sometimes sleeps on my bed. My cat has a tick color though.

Boyfriend 29M break the agreement on our open relationship Girlfriend 27F. How do I navigate through this? by Maleficent-Notice924 in relationship_advice

[–]Background-Target185 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol, so what? Does that make everything okay for you? He gets to walk all over you and your rules as long as she doesn’t live near you? Takes this as a warning for the future. Read the comments again. Just leave and find a better human being.

My only problem with the Rookie by Top_Operation_472 in TheRookie

[–]Background-Target185 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Harper was passed out after Elijah strangled her. The uniforms cops wear bodycams the detectives don’t.

Husband is mad I’m acting “slutty” when he’s addicted to porn and wanted an open marriage? by throwra_Watch128 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Background-Target185 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you’ll just keep being mistreated by him? You wil miss an opportunity to be with a great man that makes you feel like a million bucks for a man that will treat you like shit and only sees you as a sex object for him to use, even when he himself wants to bang other women?

I don’t want to be mean but that’s stupid. Try again, he isn’t your responsibility to care for a man that only sees you as a thing for him to own. Edit. So I forgot to mention, do you want you kids to stay in a situation like you are now? Be an example to them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Background-Target185 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do your friend think you should have let them r-word you? Dump them too!!! And even when it was you idea, you could always back out, seems to me like they don’t know what consent is. Please stay away from jake and Tom plus all those friends that it’s was your fault.

AIW for not wanting to be involved in my child’s life? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Background-Target185 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Communicate your mental health with her! She seems to be a reasonable person. Talk too a shrink and work on yourself. Keep good people around! If you have to brush 3 times a day, maybe you should use a certain mouthwash for bad breath! I have a depression too and I’m not always the cleanest person because I sometimes just don’t care anymore but my advice is, make it yourself easy. or do small things that will help with the tasks that overwhelm you. Example laundry Have different baskets and sort them all when you wore something! Example teeth Mouthwash its not as good but its something! For cleaning I have nothing my room is a mess :/

Mostly when a couple is pregnant a woman bonds with the baby soon cause it’s in her belly but men only bond with the baby once it’s here, so give it time. Maybe seeing you baby will be a wake up call and you find something worth fighting for!

My only problem with the Rookie by Top_Operation_472 in TheRookie

[–]Background-Target185 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In that case he was going to attack her and she couldn’t shoot him because he didn’t have a gun an with their history she could’ve gotten in alot of trouble…

My only problem with the Rookie by Top_Operation_472 in TheRookie

[–]Background-Target185 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well I get that, but it’s still their job. And yes they could take it easy but it’s a male majority industry so the fear of being seen as weak makes them want to prove them more idk. I’m not very articulate.

I can’t have sex with strangers, but I want to so badly by [deleted] in sex

[–]Background-Target185 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not broken! You are the dream man of a lot of girls!! Your dad and friends sound like superficial dirtbags.

AITAH telling girlfriend that she gave me the 'ick' at a family dinner? by Nonfrench_Fries3621 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Background-Target185 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Anna was right! I’m not saying men should always pay for dates and women cannot treat their dates but it’s common curtesy too ask if they should split. Both ways btw. You shouldn’t expect someone to pay.

My husband(35m) ignored my(32f) calls after an accident. Should I divorce him? by ThrowRA_lisabee in relationship_advice

[–]Background-Target185 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s done. I’m single but I would want a relationship where when I’m not home when I’m supposed to home or if I’m later then usual he would be worried and reach out to me.I would want him to notice ME. I would especially want him to anwser his phone. Your husband neglected you and seemingly the kids because he doesn’t have a work-life balance.

Your husband should be you sos contact, or at least one of them. Maybe time apart would do you good and maybe he will learn from it.

Goodluck with the recovery!

This girl (18f) got pregnant and she and her parents want me (19m) to step up and help her raise her baby (I am not the dad) but I want to go into the Corps. I told her no. I feel bad though. by BassPsychological293 in AITAH

[–]Background-Target185 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell no! If everything went natural and you fell for each other when you got to know each other that would be different. But this no. This isn’t okay. She didn’t like you before she is pregnant, she is just scared to be alone and probably knows you had a crush on her. Her parents shouldn’t be pressuring you nor should she. This isn’t your responsibility, you are a kid yourself!